A view of swinging  

rm_pgn_man 39M
47 posts
7/26/2005 10:33 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

A view of swinging

Intersting to see a side of the swinger lifestyle...

Seems that some people dishonestly identify on this site as single when they are actually married just to enter the swinging lifestyle. This I do not understand. Though I do not consider myself a swinger, my wife and I do not believe that love is exclusive, or the only basis for a relationship. The idea that people will be dishonest here is not hard to grasp, but that people are suprised that care and patience needs to be taken to meet people is absurd. Have a care, meet informally, and ask for some kind of referral if you have any doubts. I understand that there may be a wide variety of people here and as a married man I understand that circumstances will vary and therein lies the need for open-ness and honesty. One dishonest person hurts us all.

My wife has no interest in joining me (see my blog for details), but is interested in being introduced to the people who I meet here (curiosity, friendship). We see this as a healthy attitude, and necessary.

I do accept that as a married man I have more problems meeting people here if I do not exist as a couple, but I accept that challenge.


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
7/26/2005 11:40 pm

good luck


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