A life more interesting...  

rm_pgn_man 39M
47 posts
9/14/2005 10:52 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

A life more interesting...

Is going ot be hard.

All of a sudden I have commitments flying left and right, a job that keeps me busy (and working on being bi-lingual), work opportunities, motivation to exercise, craft projects, volunteering, seminars, publishing, etc etc.

I'd hardly realized that I hadn't looked at AdultFriendFinder in over a week.

Kind of a shame too, though not unexpected. I figured that it would be fun composing flirtacious e-mails to all kinds of strange women. Though I have voiced my lack of surprise at the response I've gotten I have significantly enjoyed the contacts I've made through AdultFriendFinder.

But then I'm apparently good at making contacts all over the place and I find myself wondering what use AdultFriendFinder is other than as an amusing distraction for when I want to burn a couple of hours here or there.

Trying not to be fatalistic here... Failing miserably. I find it strange and amusing that I rarely don't make friends with new people I meet while meetin new people here is a slow (or not at all) process.

Anyone who bothers to read this blog would do me a real service by taking a look at my profile and returning some feedback to me.

Though I'm not sure what a success would be termed as to me here one can only go so long without anything to show for effort before giving up and remaining in the green pastures.


Sweetgenie_girl 41F

9/16/2005 4:39 pm

I read your profile again and I dont know what exactly you could change to get more responses. And I remember the first email I got from you so I know it's not in the way you approach people.

Maybe saying that your a millionaire? No...Penis picutres? Don't think so. What else? What else? How about a clever, funny joke in your profile? Maybe?

Anyway, AdultFriendFinder can't be that bad. Hey, it got me to meet you and althought the rest of my experiences haven't been all great, I wouldn't take back meeting you!

So hang in there...you'll get "lucky" soon

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

9/17/2005 12:36 pm

I looked at your Profile and I really don't see anything wrong with it.

Two things you have to remember is,

1.) Most women on here are standard members...which means they can't email you...you are going to have to initiate the first contact...

2.) Guys outnumber the gals by like 5:1 or some crazy number like that. You should make your emails to them personal. Not just one general email to all ladies, but take some time to read their profile and mention something from the profile that interests you.
Take for instance if the woman says she is Free Spirited....You could say something like....'Free Spirited woman are some of the most beautiful women I know, and I enjoy the company they keep. I also love that Free SPirited Women can not be tamed.'
Basically, it signifies you understand these women, and that you know you can't control them.

Hope this helps and good luck on your search....


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