Making contact  

rm_paulthesong 60M
4 posts
10/27/2005 5:13 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Making contact

How long does it take for people to make contact, I have had no contacts so far, I consider myself to be honest and polite, fairly good looking and more importantly genuine.

I would be interested in other members stories of how they made first contact and how long it took

volcanoinu23 52M

10/27/2005 8:13 am

It took me a couple of months and I had to be very active. Write a blog, participate in the magazine and contribute to your local groups. The more you put out there, the better the chances are that someone will be able to see something in you and seperate you from the rest of the very large herd.

ArmorMonadCharm 44F

10/27/2005 9:14 am

I peeked at your profile.

And adding a picture will help quite a bit.
Even if it's not a face picture.
Just something that is a part of you.
Most profiles that have no picture at all will be just over looked.

Also filling in your profile more.
There are so many "Prefer Not To Say"
That will just turn people away.
Be honest about those answers.

Also your "profile" is so general.
It says very little about yourself.
Tell people who are, and they type of person you are.
Not just the sexual things.
Women don't want to read those things in profiles.
But be honest about yourself.
Letting them get a glimps of yourself.
And the things you like to do.

Hope that helps a little.


max_length 56M

10/28/2005 2:38 pm

Feel the same as you. Blush's comments are appreciated. However, I feel that it's still the men that have to make the first move We (the men) seem to outnumber the women by 10 to 1, so the women are inundated with interest and don't bother making the first move! Would be interested on a woman view point on my comments above!

rm_paulthesong 60M

11/2/2005 4:10 am

Thank you all for your input in particular yours Blush, I will update my profile and add a pic and see what response that brings

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