rm_oregonpoet 39M
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10/6/2005 10:46 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


Spent some more time talking to my partner. If you recall from previous posts, she has not shown enthusiasm for swinging, but neither has she shown disgust.

It came out in talking that her biggest problem seems to be with the swinger parties (orgies, whatever) and I can understand that.

So the question is, how do you go about finding a couple or an individual who is not into the swinger party scene, but interested in a lasting relationship with another couple? (see "polyfidelity" in previous post)

The thing is, I am the only partner she has ever had, and even if we never get into any type of polyamourous relationship, I would like her to have the experience of having had more than one partner (cumulatively, not concurrently). She has admitted to thinking about that once or twice, but I know that it is not something that she would ever bring up on her own, much less do on her own.

Not really asking for answers, but I'll take them anyway.

Blog on!

*Fish gotta swim, birds gotta fly*
what do you do if you are both, but not a flying fish?

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