when to let fantasy become reality  

rm_orchyd1 63M/63F
17 posts
7/19/2005 10:13 pm

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when to let fantasy become reality

The wife's fantasy is to bed another man while hubby watches or waits in another room. Both of us find this very exciting and it makes for some extremely hot sex. We are now talking more and more about actually pursuing this fantasy and making it a reality. Any advise out there?


Havethelot2 64M

7/20/2005 5:18 am

Pity I'm in New Zealand
I have helped one other couple fulfil their fantasy
Typically I use one of the foloowing scenarios
It may work for you.
Good luck
Can be a "pick up in
a bar -can be a service person coming to your house, what
ever. Typical scenario where I am the seducer or seducee
and can be him or her.
For example as service person coming to fix an appliance the
husband is say watching a movie and gets me to help him to
enjoy the movie when wife walks in and can either watch or
join in or role reversal wife is say in shower and I join her
there when hubby walks in and it's all on. Good for those
not sure and want to try bi experience first (especially
guys) with perhaps mutual mastubation etc. Daytime experiences
preferred as more easliy arranged for house appliance
repairs (wink wink)


rm_stocks45 59M
13 posts
7/20/2005 5:26 am

Nice fantasy: I have never tried it, but would be erotic too have sex with your wife as you watch and masturbate. AS we have sex she looks over and watches you as she moans, In chat several men told me about having another guy with their wife,, you have an erotic wife. Not sure many women would go along with it.. what else would you both enjoy ?


rm_bluesailfin 69M/59F

7/20/2005 6:07 am

that is one of our as well and it is very very exciting,,even throw it is hard to find the right people ,to try this with,most of the time its just hornie men whos wife do not kwom they are fuckin around on them , try asking a ex lover to join you , this way its some one you know and do not have to wonder about,,its just sex !


rm_bluesailfin 69M/59F

7/20/2005 6:09 am

my wife and i travel a lot , maybe we could dropin some time ? we live in the south central Nebraska ,?


rm_aztecoqui 55M

7/20/2005 8:30 am

I am lost in your neighborhood and stop at your place for directions to the address I need to go to. The husband opens the door and give me the directions to the address I am looking for. He invites me in for a beer and I greatfully accept. He introduces me to his wife. When she and I meet, our eye contact starts a burning fire within the both of us. There is something between us, animal lust. After I finish my beer, I ask to use the restroom. The wife happily asks me to follow her. I get up, walking behind this beautiful creature, I can't keep my eyes off of her wonderful ass. She teels me "There you are, do you need any help?" I laugh and enter the room, she follows and we start kissing and hugging, hand are all over each other. She takes me by the hand and leads me to the bedroom, all the while the husband is still watching television. I tear your top off and begin sucking your tits, nipples are rock hard. my tongue swirling around them and sucking them to pleasure. I begin to remove your skirt, and start to finger your wet pussy. You and I proceed to the bed and get in to a sixty-nine, sucking each other to deep pleasure. I get on top of you and enter you missionary style. Your moans and groans are beautifully loud, and I begin to flip you in to different positions, doggy style, reverse cowgirl, spoon, we do it all. At the end as I am ready to cum, I enter your anally, in which you scream for pleasure. After I cum in your beautiful ass, we lie next to each other, enjoying the moment with kisses and hugs. As we turn over, we notice that your husband was watching us all along. We invite him in to our circle of love, and we start all over again, this time with him joining us.

Thats how I would do it!!!!


rm_stocks45 59M
13 posts
7/20/2005 1:31 pm

still a hot post - how about your wife and I in the back seat as you drive, unitl you cannot take it any longer, then you pull over under a bridge or by some woods to masterbate for us


rm_stocks45 59M
13 posts
7/22/2005 8:06 am

tell us more


I82O4U2Enjoy 43M
54 posts
7/23/2005 1:21 pm

Very interesting fantasy and i like the idea of the guy being in the other room. It brings a sense of curiosity as well as excitement to the mix. It is one thing to watch and see what is going on but another thing to actually only be able to hear sounds and wonder exactly waht is happening (reminds me of when my old neighbors had sex and you could hear them in the parking lot of the apartments).

You could even spice things up by being in the closet watching the activities going on to give yourself more of a voyeuristic style if you are into that style. If you have a wife that is good, game, and giving, i would most definately talk to her about it more and see what comes about. Hope things work out and you both get to have this fantasy fulfilled.


1uvthegoodguys 67M
1 post
7/24/2005 3:43 pm

See the story written by Golfer50816. I think this guy went about it in a safe way and the results as you will see were pretty hot. He talked to the guy quite a bit before inviting him to join.


superkev2004 56M

7/26/2005 7:30 pm

I did it with both of my ex-wives, and also a long-time girlfriend, and it was hot hot hot. (I also did it once with a gal I didn't give a fig about, and it was a huge disappointment that way).

The 3 women I did it with were all of a type that you would never imagine they'd so much as give head, much less a MFM threesome! (An E.R. nurse, a PhD chemistry professor, and an admin assistant for a police chief).

They all had something in common. Each of them flatly denied having any interest in such a thing when I first asked them about it (always during passionate sex), followed by intense orgasms which left them feeling a little embarrassed at having revealed the attraction this idea truly held for them. One of them even got all offended and told me that I am a sick fuck, and she meant it! But even as the words left her mouth, she began to shudder with a squirting orgasm. She didn't want to look at me for the next several hours, she was so ashamed that I knew her passion.

All 3 of them did it for real eventually. Two of them did it twice.

I enjoyed it both as a witness during the act, and twice, when the wife did it with my awareness and approval, but without being present in the room. Both were hot in different ways.

If you are there when it happens, best that he not skimp on the seduction. The guy may want to "get right to it" (and so may your wife, for that matter). But best to enjoy a reasonably prolonged period of flirtation and seduction. Watch him finger her and play with her tits, over the clothes stuff even. It's all very exciting, and will enhance the experience. She should always take his cock in her mouth first, and after sucking it a little, she can look right into your eyes which she has his dick in her mouth. It is so damn hot!

If possible, get him to take the penetration slow too, the first time. Rubbing it up against her where you can watch it, then slowly easing into her.

I did it once involving a friend of mine, the other times were with strangers. The time with the friend was more comfortable actually. But the times with strangers had more of that "hotness" to it. The times with my ex-wives were before the days of survival sex, and I got to enjoy watching bareback action and the excitement of watching my own cock slide into the unmistakably freshly fucked pussy of my hotwife.

Tasting and smelling sex on your wife when she returns from a private rendevous is also quite a thrill.


rm_darkcowboy5 60M
4 posts
7/27/2005 9:52 am

Wonderful fantasy that I actually lived through. The wife of some swinger friends really wanted some dark chocolate, but she didn't know how to approach me. So the hubby and I met for drinks and just started talking about some of his wife's fantasies. He finally got around to asking me how I felt about his lady. She is very sexual and attractive. I always wondered what it would be like to get with her, but never pursued it...after all they are friends. But since he brought it up, I saw this as a chance to suck on her nipples that were always poking through her blouse and to spread those beautiful thighs. I enjoy an audience and told him that I would only do it if he was in the room, that way it wouldn't get weird. He said he wasn't sure that he could handle that if he wasn't involved. Well he watched while I enjoyed his wife. Apparently he couldn't take any longer and joined us for a rollinking good time. The next few times that we got together, he just watched. He seems to really like watching his lady get a good hard stiff one from me. Every couple of months she calls to initiate the get togethers and with hubby's approval. Things have never gotten weird between the three of us, we are still great friends and even gotten closer. If you are still looking for that stud to satisfy the wife...drop a line! Enjoy the view!


takeyouthere69 54M
1 post
7/27/2005 3:12 pm

Hot HOt HOt!!! would love to participate


Seekers47 62M/F  
2 posts
7/29/2005 11:31 am

interesting, you sound a lot like us, very curious but very shy, good luck.


BuffaloSoldierAZ 53M
3 posts
8/2/2005 2:26 pm

If you have some privacy in your back yard or rec room, have someone (I'll volunteer) come over to drop off some work from the 'office' and 'catch' the wife masterbating. Then the 'fellow coworker' joins her and helps her out by kissing and stroking her breast. Then tongues his way to her pussy and ass meanwhile you watch from the window or door and 'surprise' us when your ready.


YOURADAISYIFYOUD 52M
12 posts
8/4/2005 10:53 am

Have a female friend who had a similar fantasy and she and her boyfriend began to follow through. In their case it was a straight swap with another couple. She chickened out at the last moment and he followed through and nearly broke her heart. I guess the point is that it has to be talked out very well first.


rm_busman54 66M
1 post
8/14/2005 10:37 am

SOunds like fun - I'm hoping part 3 of your posting will be shared soon.


rm_softlove10 73M/64F
1 post
2/2/2006 4:25 pm

Start slow .. both in the presence of another couple loving your own mates then touching at the saem time and if all progresses that will be a wonderful thing that both enjoy. By all means be present so that the act is shared not allowing one or the other to "have sex"
enhancement is the key for both ...
Touching someone while being touched and seeing your mate touched while youare loving them is HOT!


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