Passing notes at work  

rm_onetyger 45F
24 posts
5/3/2006 2:52 pm

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5/8/2006 4:29 pm

Passing notes at work

Ok, well...since I have no privacy at work and everything I say and do is pretty much eavesdropped on, I decided to make a grammar school type of move today. I slipped a short note to the guy at work on his way out the door, telling him "I want you. (Strictly for fun. I'm not looking for anything serious.)"

Of course, I didn't get to see his reaction so now I'm totally second-guessing myself. I seem to get it backwards. When I think a guy is interested, he usually isn't. When I think he isn't, he is. Well, I do think this one is into me so let's hope my normal scenario isn't the case this time. Anyway, I'm totally freaking out and really worried. I don't want to cause either of us to feel awkward around one another at work, and I don't want to put him on the spot if he isn't interested.

See? This is why I'm a member of adult sites. I don't have to worry about what someone else thinks or whether anyone else will find out, etc. And, I can pretty much know for sure that everyone who's interested does mostly want sex. So that eliminates some guesswork.

So...guesses at to what his reaction will be? Or, at least, what would your reaction be if a woman you work with passed you that kind of note?

GossipJunkie 40F

5/3/2006 3:08 pm

I've done similar things so I completely understand the second guessing action. I wouldn't stress over it though. If he's any kind of quality person, he'll feel flattered--whether he's interested or not. I would just play it cool though. Be as friendly as ever but not overly so. Good luck.

"Dance like nobody's watching"

blondietickler 43F
295 posts
5/3/2006 3:30 pm

totally what gossipjunkie said. hope the best for you.


5/8/2006 7:32 am

Wished I worked where you do I would love to get a note like that.

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