i feel dumb  

rm_oneeyedbob2 52M
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12/22/2005 5:54 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

i feel dumb

anyway went out of the house today and met this very pretty lady on the city bus. and she was hitting on me so much. i talked to her but i never even asked her if i could see her again. i feel dumb. like i could have got laid but just blew it. anyway now i probably wont ever know. although she told me where she lives. do you think i should go see if i can find it. oh wait that last time i did that i met the last lady and she tore my heart out and then stabbed it many times before running it over with her van and then sticking it up my ass. why cant i just say what i want to say in person. why do i say it fine in letters or email. but cant for the life of me say what i want to the ladies. teach me how and what to say someone. pleaseeeeeeee. i might have got lucky tonight but now will never know.

Kimmers777 106F

12/22/2005 6:39 pm

The comments left days ago were not meant to make you feel bad. They were offered so that you might modify your behavior and hopefully see better results.

I'll give you some credit that you've at least toned down the blatant vomiting of your sexual frustrations. Big plus! And although the "pity my existence" posts might be therapeutic in the short term, they need to stay short term. Otherwise you'll come across as somebody who is chronically depressed and / or helpless.

My last thought before I climb off my soapbox - In this post you spoke about meeting someone and not asking if you could see her again. That was a good place to stop. Cursing yourself because you missed your chance to get laid borders on too much information. It might be more endearing if you lamented the fact that you'll never know what kind of music she likes, what her favorite foods are, or if she appreciates the influence of sixteenth century art on the pre-industrial world.

Have some fun. Laugh now and then. I could be wrong, but I doubt that there are many women here hoping to find a self pitying introvert focused on the holy grail of nailing the next girl who stops long enough.

Or not. Just my worthless thoughts.

rm_oneeyedbob2 52M

12/22/2005 7:21 pm

wow. first off I am human i have bad days. and the pity stuff is not for pity. it is for help to figure out what to do. like your suggestion this evening. very thoughtful. and very too the point. and your right about the sex part tonight. probably wouldnt have let it happen anyway im too nice of a guy. but i was too or am too shy to most of the time talk to the ladies. i have no clue what to say when to say it. never have so i stayed away from having too. but i hate being alone so i am looking for help in this area. some of my qualities are these. im too sintememntal, i over give, i pay too much attention. and i have no clue what i am doing. but am i perfect. not a chance in heck am i that. never will be. just someone who needs lots of advise. im not here to get laid. im even too afraid to even make the first move on someone. but im just lonely half the time and from the viewing of the blogs alot of us are out here. everything i write in others blogs i do. and if one puts it all together then it might be way too much. maybe i need to stop and just forget about all this. and who knows maybe a friend will fall from the sky and land in my lap. probably a good thing to do. anyway thanks for your advise.

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