Call or don't call.  

rm_nickster270 37M
14 posts
5/7/2006 5:00 pm

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5/17/2006 6:52 pm

Call or don't call.

Should you call your EX when you tell them that you care so much about them and you want to be there for them and you want to be friends.

LateralPhantasm 35M
33 posts
5/7/2006 5:37 pm

I am a firm believer in friends afterwards. I have many ex's and they are mostly all my friends. They are great for many reasons, just friends, and someone you are comfortable with already, or if you want to be more devious, they are great for jealousy traps with someone later! LoL.

rm_nickster270 replies on 5/7/2006 6:02 pm:
I don't know about this one.

funontheside4you 41M/38F

5/7/2006 5:59 pm

If they dumped you then no. Wait for them to call you first, and even then don't call them more than they call you until an established relationship is formed....
If you dumped her than yes... If she wants a friendship, it will
be great. But don't get to close to fast, as you may unknowingly be
playing with her emotions......

rm_nickster270 replies on 5/7/2006 6:05 pm:


5/7/2006 7:09 pm

why be broken up if there are such deep feelings still there?
Actions speak louder than words, you know that darling.

rm_nickster270 replies on 5/8/2006 4:08 am:
Actions do speak louder then words but i don't know about this one.

imsohorny19822 34F
1728 posts
5/17/2006 6:25 pm

I think that it is great to stay friends after a relationship, sometimes it can be difficult, but mostly its good to still have them around, what is the point to being bitter to them for the rest of your life??

The only time its hard is when you still have feeling for them and they dont feel the same way. Trust me, i know that its hard as i am in that situation at the moment. I ran into a ex and we haven't see each other in about 6 years. We have spent a bit of time together and talked and are still friends, however, the more time i spend with him the more my feeling towards him get stronger. He is someone that i thought i was over, but i guess i was wrong. Just hard when i know that he doesn't feel the same

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