How Bi Is She?  

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2/12/2006 12:28 pm

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How Bi Is She?

Men love women who love women. After all, if the woman you're with also likes women, then the two of you have an important interest in common. What could be better?

Furthermore, you can be a Player in front of a woman and have it work out for, rather than against, you, right?

Well, yes and no. Or maybe I should say yes, but not necessarily yes, oh yes, more, more!

No matter how much you try, as a Player, to distill the emotion and attachment out of sex and make it a purely fun exercise, these elements will always still be there underneath, always on the verge of emerging and complicating things. Like the perfect storm, bisexual encounters can bring together the exact combination of circumstances to complicate what has always been pretty straightforward for the hetero Player.

So before you go double-diving, consider the following points to know whether it's right for the situation you have at hand, so to speak.

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First off, let's be clear about what we mean by "bisexual." If you've seen the movie Kinsey , you'll know about the work of Alfred Kinsey, a pioneering scientist on human sexuality. Kinsey proposed that one's sexuality can be pinpointed along a spectrum, and not neatly into one of the three discrete pigeonholes of hetero, homo and bi. To represent this spectrum, he devised the Kinsey Scale. The scale runs from 0 to 6, with 0 representing purely heterosexual tendencies and 6 purely homosexual.
According to Kinsey's extensive sampling of the U.S. population, there are actually fewer people who rate either 0 or 6 than those who fall somewhere in between -- into the vast gray area corresponding to bisexuality.

But hang on -- am I saying that most women have had lesbian experiences?

Not necessarily.

Remember that it's not just what a person has actually done that determines his or her sexuality. Their sexuality also depends on what they fantasize about. Many women -- and men, too -- are too timid to go from thoughts to deeds when it comes to homosexual acts. But if you asked these people, they'd probably say they just haven't had the opportunity. As a Player, you know these are two sides of the same coin -- you see and create opportunities when you overcome your fear of rejection.

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