in need of some good support  

rm_nellbellz 32F
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9/6/2006 7:53 pm

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9/28/2006 11:22 pm

in need of some good support

so....last night i received some shocking, yet not shocking news. I just was informed that my uncle(my moms brother) is most likely gonna die within the next week. My uncle has always had a drinking problem like my mom did. Within the past couple years, he has gotten worse and worse. When I went up to california a couple years ago to visit my gma, gpa and uncle rob, I was informed that he wasn't looking too good and maybe if I said something about it, he would try to get better. So I did that, I intervened and got him to go to the doctor and try to get better. When I left california, i kept in touch with my gma and she was telling me that he had started to get better. Well, it's now 2 years later and I get a call from my aunt renne saying that they tried to get him to go to the hospital, cuz he couldn't walk, but he refused to go. So in order for them to get him to go, they had to call the police. He is in the hospital as I am writing this with failed kidneys and his liver is completely damaged. This is just another thing to add to my horrible summer. I really don't know what to think or feel, i guess that's why this blog is titled "in need of some good support"

somerandomguy72 44M

9/11/2006 10:50 pm

Geez -- so many views and nobody writes you back. I guess if you're not saying "I want 12 hot cocks" nobody cares around here.

I'm sorry that you have to be going through this right now (ever, really). It's a rough spot to be in, especially when you care so much about something that is totally out of your control. You've done everything you can, and you've got to realize that sometimes you just can't make things better. Take care of yourself -- your life goes on and you must make the most of it!

agoodphxfriend 105M

9/27/2006 11:16 pm

My sentiments exactly 'somerandomguy'. I got tired of pouring my heart out on my blog to a bunch of people that didn't care enough to comment. I stopped. I have better things to do with my time.

'Nellbellz' I wish there was something I could say that would make it better. You are a good person for caring and it is that hurt that shapes the soul and makes us wiser people. I think most of us can easily accept that our older relatives are going to pass but what I think is so upsetting is the fear that is surrounding your uncle. If its not too late, all you can do is be there for him and make sure he knows you care. This is one of life's fine examples of how one life can affect many other lives. ...its not your fault.

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