Can you advise or help me.!!!!!!!  

rm_needyounow63 62M
7 posts
2/15/2006 12:55 pm

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Can you advise or help me.!!!!!!!

I am in a desperate situation. I am married to a lady I love but she does not sex at all, even a cuddle or now a kiss is out of the question. We have tried talking but as soon as the subject of sex turns up she clamps up. We have tried relate counseling but this just made things worse. This has been ongoing for the last three years steadily getting worse. I am very frustrated now, having a high sex drive but not had any for the last six months or so. I wish there was a way to fix the problem but can see us ending up separated. Thanks for Reading my ramblings but I feel better for putting them on paper. I need someone for a kiss and a cuddle and if it progresses further then so much better.

nautee_n_nice 45F

2/15/2006 2:03 pm

Be honest and tell her you see each other separated..until she knows how you truly feel she will never take you seriously..and after she knows if she doesn't do anything about it does she really love you? communication is key.

angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
2/15/2006 2:07 pm

~kiss~ ~cuddle~ Now, I know that didn't help much! But the thought was there.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
2/15/2006 2:43 pm

First big hug. Second, have you two ever made love? If so, was there an event that changed this?

Purry {=}


southrnpeach333 50F

2/15/2006 4:51 pm

I think I would have to agree with seeing another counselor. Maybe let her see on by herself for a while. A little more patience (easy for me to say) for a little longer. I feel your frustration and wish I had and easy answer.

rm_needyounow63 62M
2 posts
2/17/2006 12:03 pm

First, thanks for your comments, I do believe there are real people out there. The hugs do help. We had a very good sex life in the beginning and wish we could get back to that but I don't think it will happen. I will try the communicating bit first. Will keep you posted.

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