Need help with my boyfriend  

rm_needhelpbad 31M/31F
25 posts
4/3/2005 9:12 pm

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Need help with my boyfriend

Hey, I dont really know how to go about asking this but its for men or women to help me with. This is a problem I'm not really use to. My current boyfriend, dustin, is very... gifted? and i dont know if its just me but i dont know how to deal with it. I have had sex with at least 10 guys and hes simply the largest i have ever had, length wise and around, 10 long (yea i measured...) and about as big around as a beer bottle bottem. He is diffently the largest i have ever had. we have been dateing for a few months and have only had sex once, it hurts me like crazy to let him fuck me, i loosen up a bit but hes just to big, i like him a whole lot and dont want to lose him, does anyone have any idea how i can get past his shear size?


luvs2suck5 44M
1 post
4/4/2005 12:03 am

YES DEAR, TRY SOME LUBE.THE WETTER THE BETTER,I'M NOT 10 IN BUT 7 3/8 HAS THE SAME AFECT ON MY GIRLFRIEND.GO TO YOUR NOT SO LOCAL SEX SHOP,YOU SHOULD FIND A WIDE ARAY OF LUBRACANTS.ANAL IS ANOTHER OPTION,IT I'LL HURT THE FIRST COUPLE OF TIMES.BUT YOUR BODY WILL AJUST OVER TIME.OR SHOULD I SAY STRECH ENOUGH THAT AFTER A WHILE YOU'LL LOVE IT.YOU'LL HAVE THE BEST ORGASAM OF YOUR LIFE.YOU CAN ALSO LET HIM TIT FUCK YOU?? TRY LOTS OF LUBE YOUR A PETITE GIRL, HE COULD BE JUST TO BIG.DARRYLL GOOD LUCK


DjMacGyver 33M
1 post
4/4/2005 12:20 am

Reading this was intersting and my only suggestion i can give is have u try lubercation more or oral sex only or worst if u want him that bad is drug urself from pain but i recommand if u have to go this far ask your family physician


ExcitedSenses 38M

4/4/2005 1:11 am

yes keep fucking slowly your pussy can expand slowly but only if u both take the time and effort. this is one of the few times i'm glad i'm 'only' 7 inches long and 2 inches thick in diameter all i know is if i had a girl like u i wouldnt want to lose u either i would do everything i could to get my big cock in that tight pussy for you


manuwant1373 35M/35F

4/4/2005 1:44 am

start with me and i will prepare you for it..no further questions asked..hehe try me this is your for sure solve to your problem yu are very hot!


daydreamer928 55F

4/4/2005 2:06 am

Relax,if you are waiting for the pain you won't be as relaxed as you could be..Lots of lube,I mean lots.
Have him go slow,because once you get that monster cock in you,you won't ever want to let it out!


nightstogether 56M

4/4/2005 2:14 am

If you post your question on the Advice Questions section in the Magazine, you'll probably get more answers.

However, as a tip. You need to be relaxed. He needs to be careful and understanding. When it starts hurting, you stop and work from there. It takes a good deal of patience and perhaps a bit of lube, but above all care and patience!

nightstogether
private-intellectual (.de)


throbing8 51M
1 post
4/4/2005 2:35 am

I think you should try getting a little bit tipsy to loosen yourself up , beer, wine, whatever you like and then add a good quality lube. if that doesnt work youve got a problem that certainly sucks.


drteeltlmnd 51M
2 posts
4/4/2005 2:57 am

Hello pretty ladie...wow every women should have this problem huh???do you two ever just lay ther e and play with a vibrator for a while....im thinking that might get you off a cpl of times and therfore relaxed and more able to accept him....do you ever us K_Y jellie to ease the friction of the first point of entry....????i dought i have helped any ....but i did evjoy gauwkingat your boy toys large cock....i would love to try and mount him....good luck...


adventurer99502 57M
2 posts
4/4/2005 3:59 am

think you might get a big dildo to make it more used to it so when you fuck next time it will not hurt so bad may still hurt and sometimes pain is not a good thing hearing your plight anm glad to be a little bigger than average have not found anyone that said it was to big thanks for readin


dirtyoldman51 56M
6 posts
4/4/2005 4:02 am

Explain to him that it's uncomfortable and until you get used to his size, would he mind if you used extra lube and took it real slow. Also, if you're on top, you can better control the speed and action, might make it easier.


rm_Lickableones 58M/35F
26 posts
4/4/2005 4:47 am

Talk to him about it. If it's been months and you've only done it once he must be guessing there is a problem. Maybe when you do have sex ask him not to fully enter you....if length is the problem that may help. After you have sex a few times your body will become used to his size...take it slow and each time he can try going further into you until your body can accomodate his size. I had a situation like that with a guy I was with as well. As far as width...I don't know how to help there. Hope I was able to help. Let us know how it all works out and good luck!


cloud1945 67M

4/4/2005 5:15 am

No joke---------Practice, practice and more practice. You will stretch but may need lubricant.
The length may be the greatest problem. Maybe he will be kind enough not to put it all in. you will accomidate more of him as time go on.
I am not a doctor and this is only a opinon--so be careful.


rm_3sumislander 43M

4/4/2005 5:52 am

Well you are one unlucky chick.....specially at your age......Try not think about the length,width..try alot of foreplay...but i do think you may have to tell of your issue...Most guys with big cocks don't know that they are hurting chicks until they are told...Maybe just suck his cock....till he cums to escape his big dong


chowbox2004 43M
210 posts
4/4/2005 7:19 am

First of all, Beautiful pic! You have a very lucky man there! I've heard about this problem before (unfortunatly I'm not as gifted as that! lol) Its every womans, and mans fantasy for that matter to have a big penis. But not all keys fit the same keyhole. Some ladies have larger openings, and some have deeper ones. Ive heard of one lady who had a shallow box, and she couldnt let her guy go deep because he was a biggie. I can only suggest that you talk to your man about this, you will probably have to take it slow for a while, and not let him go all in, until your body adjusts to the size. It can be very difficult for a guy to resist the urge to push it all the way in, so maybe try by putting one hand around the base of his shaft, it will help with the depth problem, and he can kida get a half hand job at the same time? Dont know if this helps, but its all i got.
Good Luck Beautiful! LOVE, CHOW XXX


clitlicker6932 54M
1 post
4/4/2005 7:24 am

You are not the only lady that has this problem and I never had to deal with it till I met my beatiful 52 year old wife of 5 years. this was a big problem for us because she is very hot like yourself and how we dealt with it on the advice of her OBGYN is to go verrry slow at first and plety of lubricate it will work trust me also I got her a dildo that we use in foreplay to help get her ready..it will turn him on to see you fucking your tight pussy getting ready for his and his monster cock...mine is not as large only 7" good luck sexy......


HAWKEYE949 67M

8/16/2005 1:25 pm

Tell DUSTIN he REALLY needs to eat more PUSSY (YOURS)...Once you are loosened up and relaxed from a few (MULIPLE) orgasms then you should be able to mount him from above...Slide down on it when YOU are HOT and JUICY...Have a friend with HIS (DUSTINS) problem..Said that was the ONLY thing that worked for him...Don said ""Tell her if he doesn't want to relax the PUSSY with ORAL HE doesn't deserve it....DON also says a BIG DICK ts HIS (THE GUYS) PROBLEM NOT HERS (THE GIRLS)...Ask your hairdresser how he handles a BIG DICK....It ain't LOVE if HE RIPS YOUR PUSSY APART....Really does happen...If you can't get it all in your mouth,you'll never get it up your snatch....GOOD LUCK!!!!


hornygirl650 51F
1 post
9/28/2005 7:33 am

can i have him fuck me i like big cocks yummy


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