Help me understand  

rm_ncsnowbunni 51F
17 posts
7/30/2005 10:51 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Help me understand

How do I find what my soul needs?

slimNhung2005 30M
1 post
7/30/2005 11:52 pm

get high or drunk... think under diff mind settings

ih8usrnames 40M

7/30/2005 11:55 pm

Thats perplexing.

2ofusfor3 53M/48F

7/31/2005 12:13 pm

I started in on this comment from an angle that had me thinking you might need to grow up. But I read your profile and have a better understanding of where you are coming from. I take it you are looking for an extramarital relation with a partner... does that mean you plan on staying married? What I would suggest is finding a couple who needs someone to be with them as much as you will allow. There are so many couples out there that are looking for a female. You would have your choice. Or perhaps if you have good communication with your husband, you could ask him how he would feel about you and a woman... with him in the room. that way you wouldn't be cheating on him. Please blog on and explain what you think you want.

overworkedloon 56M
400 posts
7/31/2005 1:17 pm

I guess you should just search for it. Try new things meet new people. See where and who it leads you to.

rm_theupbeatguy 50M

8/3/2005 12:17 pm

Maybe you need to try different things, different types of guys to see what makes you happy and to see if you can find a person that you cherish and they can dominate you the way you want it, I'm sure there are lots of guys who would love a woman like you and I'm in the category if you would like to know.

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Rawhide0416 56M
1 post
11/15/2005 5:11 am

Very good question ! When you find your answer let me know.

gspotfinder4her 57M

2/25/2006 2:49 pm

The thing is what do you wont ? I would if you find the right guy let him love you from head toe, please you to the max in avery thing orgasems to then once he have fill that need, he would let you please him in the same way. but you too would need to convay this to each other first. To be able to comumicat in most inportent.

gspotfinder4her 57M

3/3/2006 7:56 am

bunni that is a search that many look for and seek the search is the begainning to finding your ancer the bible is one place, you may not evern know what your looking for until you go find it! you'll know when you do !

ovy101 70M  
564 posts
3/25/2006 8:29 am

i think you need to talk to as many people as you can. try some of the things that you listed. keep and open mind and trust your heart.

mick3714 53M
1 post
3/26/2006 1:44 pm

...for insight, see your inbox...

rm_aries2u2 55M

4/11/2006 6:30 pm

It seems to me you want to be a sub, but need to find the right person to be your top or dom. It has to be someone you trust and want to give control too. It also has to be someone who understands that you are giving them control and they have a responsiblity to understand your inner needs and nonjudgementally, caringly give you that exquisite combination of control, pain, passion and pleasure in just the right proportion that you need. You'll make the right person very happy. I hope you find both yourself and him or her. On another note, I've also sent you an email.

labrat11 53M
1 post
4/15/2006 3:41 pm

to truly know what you want you have to look within yourself at the real you not the one that other people see but you know yourself better than anyone. some of us are afraid to let the real us show through because we fear the backlash of the way they look at us as we really are. be open be honest be real

tantriclover56 60M

4/24/2006 7:55 pm

I operate in the soulful spirit world where fire meets rain, sensuality meets spirituality and souls are healed. God has blessed me with this gift and its offered freely to all that receive me.

rm_spoogequeen1 61M/59F
1 post
5/17/2006 8:41 am

Everyone has wants and desires and it is up to you to make the things that you need come true.Your soul craves someone to nurture it and fulfill the fantasies that you have longed for and missed for a while.
You are the only one that can make all that come true and only you are the one that knows deep within yourself what it is that you're looking for .
Only do not confuse sex for love or love for sex cause you pretty much screwed yourself in that matter , can't always get what we want in life should know this cause of reading your profile .
Just be cautious and remember that you are the one that knows yourself and knows what your soul has to have to continue on to be happy.

gspotfinder4her 57M

6/4/2006 9:07 pm

You have asked a loaded ? So find what the body needs and soul needs?
Ok soul give it a search read the bible for the soul needs !
The body needs are flesh and needs to be held and cuddled.
This is a struggel that we all find and search for the ancer.
So go to my blogs and see how to chat with me and we can talk about it !

rm_free_dog 56M

11/19/2006 8:06 pm

Hey we all have questions about what we truely want... not only in our daily lives but also in a romantic relationship. I am comfortable in who I am and how I live for the most part, but also have a few question I end up asking myself, sometime I find the answer easily and sometime I dont. To want to please, pleasure, worship your man (yet you still should be an equal) doesn't necessarily make or mean you should be sub... but in you make sure and wanting to please you guy... there should be plenty of him wanting to and pleasing you too. Whether it being a nice word, flowers a surprise or just awesomely taking care of your fantasies and needs too... well that is my two cents.... best to you!

rm_tab1269 47M
1 post
12/3/2006 9:45 pm

Snowbunni, Try starting off with a hot bath, one that would put steam on your livingroom windows. Next move to a nice body rub down with some aromatherapy and music playing in the background ever so quietly. About 20 minutes of peacefully deap meditation clearing your mind of all of your thoughts should come next. Maybe by doing a good thing like taking time for yourself, you can truely find what your soul not only wants but also needs.

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