lover defined  

rm_naisaevoli 60M
4 posts
4/24/2006 7:24 am

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4/28/2006 9:00 am

lover defined

1 A couple in love with each other.

2 One who loves another, especially one who feels sexual love.

3 A significant other to whom you are not related by marriage.

She will be very significant to me, not my wife, who is already my lover, for I am in love with her, but my affections for her will be different, one of great sexual value to me, one who will give me great happiness and many smiles, for she is my perfect sexual match, as we journey on a great personal journey together where her soft skin, lips and body will mean the world to me. Along a journey that began with a physical focus, I'm sure I will fall in love with her mind and heart. I fear it. For I will want her as my wife.


timeforfun219 41M/42F  
2155 posts
4/24/2006 10:06 am

So you are saying that your lover can not be the person you are married to? Seems to me that your spouse should be your best-friend and your lover... Of course if it were always that way, this site probably wouldn't have nearly as many members...

If my boobs were bigger I'd be a BBW!


rm_naisaevoli 60M

4/24/2006 10:58 am

    Quoting timeforfun219:
    So you are saying that your lover can not be the person you are married to? Seems to me that your spouse should be your best-friend and your lover... Of course if it were always that way, this site probably wouldn't have nearly as many members...
Yes, I agree. Mine is. Like you say, I believe this site is for discovering feelings, desires, fantasies, imaginings, experiences and journeys apart from your spouse or with them for some. My wife is not of Asian ancestry. I did not know how sexy and attracted to Asian women I would grow to be. So, my wife is my friend and lover using one definition of the word, but often a lover is thought of as another individual outside your marriage. Yes, there are probably many here that are seeking that lover, outside there marriage to feel a need, or soothe a hurt that their marriage relationship does not fulfill. I do not wish to turn my blog into a debate on marriage and what it means. I just wish to express my feelings and my own desire to live my life fully and with a kind, respectful and gentle touch in word and hand and in heart. Thank you for expressing yours with me today ~ nahtani


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