rm_mzhunyhole 65F
60250 posts
12/6/2005 11:26 am

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I know people are gonna say MZHuny is just being a whinny old bitch maybe...but I just gotta say this....

Once upon a time Blogland was a very happy town..where everyone wrote blogs to entertain one another..make each other laugh..turn each other on..touch each others hearts..help each other with our problems...or just utter nonsense...

Now ya got people coming on here back stabbing ya...calling ya names..putting your family down...saying things about you and they don't even know ya !!!!

In the last two days...I..myself have been called..a slut..a whore..and a gold digger..by people that don't even know me.

The blogs aren't even meant for that !...The blogs were meant to write stories that moved ya to write a comment...one comment or maybe two ...not even the endless string of silly comments that I see at times ..and thats all I have to say on that matter...I am too old for those games you younguns play and don't understand that anyway.

But Blogland is getting out of hand...it just isn't what it used to be...people are getting ruder on here every day.

WHY ??????

And this is the holiday season too...Am I just too old to understand that you younger people do stuff different?

One thing I do know is ya don't say mean things to people ya don't even know !...I have never written the first mean word to anyone one on here....

Ya think things on here have never upset me?...well sure they have...but I wouldn't air it in public !!

If any of ya all have a problem with me ..please email me personally...don't call me names on my blog anymore ..please...

All my friends have just about all been run off...I am really trying to stay..but each day and more crap makes MZHuny sadder...

What do you all think ??????

When someone comes along,gonna give ya some love and affection,I say..Get it while ya can.

will65556 63M
1 post
12/6/2005 11:55 am

believe we met yesterday on broad st....... maybe willow?

cock_4_cplz 54M

12/6/2005 12:07 pm

Don't worry about those morons.

Merry X-Mas and I will work up a present for you

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
12/6/2005 12:20 pm

I've dealt with it by just avoiding the blogs of people who go on rants. I simply don't go there. Rants about the frustrations of life - that's fine, and I do it myself. But anything that even remotely bitches about any other blog or blogger, I just hit the back button and don't return. I've even done that in cases where the communication btwn the blogger and me is fine, but I just don't want to deal with the drama between them and another. Couple of those were hard to let go of, but I did.

Also, there's the delete option. If I get a mean spirited comment, I'll just delete it.

We're all here for whatever reasons, and mine has nothing to do with being pissed off at other bloggers or getting caught in that stuff.

I must say, however, that I DO enjoy twisted perverted humor!

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

rm_DarknStar 54F
2823 posts
12/6/2005 12:33 pm

WHY??..I have NO answers for you. But I can only tell you what I think!!

I dont think!! Your a whinny old bitch!! I LOVE your blog, you have a special way of puttin things down on paper, for others to read!! I Thank-You for that!!!

And for the name calling!! I understand that words can hurt sometimes. Even if we dont know the people that says them to us.

My opinion: They are JEALOUS of you!

You just got back from a great trip, from TX! You had the time of your life! You found that special someone to make you HAPPY! and You have a great BLOG!!

Keep your chin HIGH!!. You have a great support team rooting for you!

And for the little people, that want to bash you! Excuse me for saying this F**K them!!!!!!

oldman1776 78M
3164 posts
12/6/2005 12:49 pm

I haven't been a blogger long but there seem to be more and more people that oss they want to do is be rude and mean to people and it seems like it is the new ones that do it more than not.

I think that they can't hook up with anyone on AdultFriendFinder and they use the blogs to hurt people and say things so they will be noticed.

Just my thought.

I'm realy happy for you. and good luck.

cockman4u8x6 49M
6 posts
12/6/2005 12:56 pm

Here's a hug mzhunyhole

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
12/6/2005 1:07 pm

hugs huny ,sorry to see that a few ass holes have called you some rotten names,please try and ignore them ,like real life this place has its evil nutters and folk who just cannot find a friend let alone a fuck.

I'm a

i'm here to stay

Chuckk48 60M
1082 posts
12/6/2005 1:36 pm

Ok obviously if people are saying mean things to people they don't even know then they must have another motive for doing what they do. Most likely it's attention, so the thing to do is ignore them. Then they will go away and try to piss somebody off that will respond. What we need to do is just let the children play their games while we continue on as if they don't even exist. I mean really, this is the internet, they can't do a damn thing if we don't let them. So just don't let it get to you, use the one main advantage you have over them. Your an adult......their not!

jdon414 69M
24 posts
12/6/2005 1:39 pm

I dont normally comment to these blogs but I have become a fan of your blog.I enjoy the way you look at life and the things you ponder.I hope you dont let a few bad apples spoil your fun.

DTduzDallas 50F

12/6/2005 1:41 pm

I just read the comment left in your previous post from girlfriend2000. Just like the one left the other day, it's obvious it comes from someone who made the profile just long enough to post a rude comment. It disgusts me to think that a fellow blogger could be behind such, not having the balls to come forward under his/her known handle, or contact you in person.

Hang in there MzHuny **hugs**

freetime648 52F

12/6/2005 1:50 pm

Mzhuny, don't let it bother you!!! I know easier said than done but hey..you are a strong person, strong willed and just old enough to know not to let the small shit bother you!!! Blog on and forget the people that make it their sole purpose to be whiny asses!!!!!!

xx FREETIME648 xx

SaucyNSassy 39F

12/6/2005 1:52 pm

Huny, Don't leave blogdom. I have seen your name so many times that I decided to read your blog and I'm glad I did today. I have had one or two obnoxious or rude comments on my blog but I don't care what they have to say and the men/women who read and comment on my blog usually attack them for me..lol. Not that I need that but you know what I mean. Don't let immature people with simple minds bother you. You obviously have a successful blog that people enjoy reading! Take Care!

hornyneedhelp00 39M
3 posts
12/6/2005 2:12 pm

Everyone should just be on here to have a good time and maybe meet new and interesting people. Just ignore people who are negative...works for me!

weineroftheworld 66M

12/6/2005 2:18 pm

People posting those cut ya down msgs are usually newbies or do not frequent blogs much and do not understand what blogs really are. One great thing about those msgs, ya can delete them, especially if they have no blog for your retort.
You have to remember, these are just words - and they can't hurt you unless you let them. You have the power. You have the control. Little minds think little thoughts and type stupid msgs. You just keep on a bloggin'. More than likely you will never see them again.

caressmewell 53F

12/6/2005 2:29 pm

MsHuny, don't give the whiner wankers a second of concern. Blog on and play with those of us that are here for fun and to make friends.

qyxx 60F
3267 posts
12/6/2005 3:11 pm

Don't leave.

I am a relative newcomer to Blogland. I must say that I was about to leave this site, when I stumbled upon the blogs. And some of them are quite amusing. I find myself checking them out everyday. I really pass over the negative blogs. I suspect that what we have on here is a sudden influx of young-uns. Ignore them and continue to do your thing.


bangingmyhead 54M
157 posts
12/6/2005 4:15 pm

mzhuny, those people aren't worth the time or trouble. Just delete 'em and ignore 'em, because there are lots more that appreciate your thoughts and ramblings.

barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
12/6/2005 4:26 pm

Remember to use the delete comment link

Its good to be...ME

daves_rock 68M

12/6/2005 4:45 pm

All this is new to me... Blogland… however it appears that portions of the Internet are fast becoming ghetto’s where weird wacko’s can wreak havoc on the innocent. Much like graffiti, some can be tasteful, others just downright rude! You just gotta look the other way and ignore!

mistymommie 39F

12/6/2005 4:58 pm

I have been watching your blog for awile now and never commented before, but now seems as good a time as any. You don't strike me as the kinda gal who would take to heart the silly words of morons. You yourself and only you know who you are. Everyone here sees what you want them too, so....Tell them to kick rocks. Who needs their comments anyways? Certainly not you!


rm_punilinguist 47M

12/6/2005 6:45 pm

It doesn't make sense, it's rude, and it's just plain stupid for people to start calling others names in a blog. Most people here with some experience with blogs and their distant cousins, newsgroups and chat have probably heard (or used) the term "troll."

A "troll" is someone who joins a chat or newsgroup and posts inflammatory, derogatory, or just idiotic statements in order to provoke a reaction. Wikipedia has this to say:

"Users may have various motives for trolling. A common factor for many is the desire to draw attention to the troll. Inflammatory, sarcastic, disruptive or humorous content is posted, meant to draw other users into engaging the troll in a fruitless confrontation. The more attention the troll's activities draw from users, the more persistent the troll's behavior in the forum. This gives rise to the often repeated protocol in internet culture: 'Do not feed the trolls.'"

So, like everyone else here has said ignore them. Don't Feed the Trolls.

Stick around. I like your blogging.

WordyMavinBeaut 70M
1 post
12/6/2005 6:52 pm

hey people have been getting ruder for years!! maybe you just haven't noticed. It is allright. most of us get so hung up in oursleves that we don't look around to see what others are doing or care about. It is sad. maybe more meditaiton and introspection wouldbe helpful. how about just letting go and laughing and enjoying being . Life is good and way to short.Hustle bustle and stree rule. Some times you need a shrieking tree to vent. then you can cope
just some thoughts

rm_imtheone42 74M
485 posts
12/6/2005 7:00 pm

I don`t usually comment on blogs but I have been looking forward to reading yours lately. You have a real gift with words. It would be a shame to let someone who doesn`t have your talent run you off with their stupidity. Keep writing...I enjoy it to much for you to stop.

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
12/6/2005 7:03 pm

"Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver, the other gold."

It is difficult when old friends leave. But being friends, you still have them. Even if you have to read their blogs elsewhere, or go without blogs altogether. But there are new people finding you every day... Most of them good Don't give up hope. And some of these new friends will, soon enough, be new "old friends".

And congratulations on your upcoming wedding

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
12/6/2005 7:07 pm

See..Bunz said to use the delete option, and she has the BEST ADVICE in Blogland!

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
12/6/2005 7:21 pm

People leaving has effected those visiting my blog as well. As for the drama in blogland, I avoid it at all cost. I miss the bloggers who left and I know where they blog, but this is blog home to me and I'll stay in my corner of blogville. Those who have attacked you in your blogs will be attacked by karma sometime. Remember what goes around, comes around.


teechoo 40M
9 posts
12/6/2005 8:22 pm

je ne comprends pas tout se qui se dit sur ton blog mais qu'est ce que t'es bandante wouaouh

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
12/6/2005 9:08 pm

don't let the turkeys get you down, mzhoney..
you are one who flies with the eagles...

you are loved and you are clear with who you are.
it is sad that many people on this planet do not
know who they are and they live in the fear that
there is not enough love for everyone to have all
they need and want and then some. jealously is bred
from insecurity. shrink school teaches us that you know

i, for one, continue to applaud the very
angels in heaven for your honest and brave spirit
for love and life. {=}

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
12/6/2005 9:50 pm

Well Mzhuny I can understand your frustrations with the name calling. I have been through it myself and it sucks. I defended myself in my blog and people stopped reading me because of it, but I am the one getting attacked. Anyway dont let it get you down, you have a lot of supporters. They thought they would run me off but I am still here. The best way to kill ignorance is to simply ignore it. I learned that a while back.

Or delete the comment and go on as if it was never there.

Keep on blogging huny

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

blue_1959 57M
71 posts
12/6/2005 9:58 pm

Granted this sight in general may not be about (true)love. For many it is. For some it's the love of sex.
Either way you're all right, the negative in geneal doesn't belong here.
Some comments have me rethinking wether or not my blog is too negative, though it's not meant to be I guess it is a winey post, and I really should revamp.
Thanks guys and gals!
Keep it cool honey, yours is one of the first I read, and I'm stayin with you.

rm_69atchcook 60M

12/6/2005 10:37 pm

HANG IN THERE , don't let them get to you . your great to hell with a few miss led people.
have a good one MZ

rm_lucytart 50F
590 posts
12/7/2005 12:16 am

I agree wholeheartedly, MzHuny. Happiness is contagious, and I love to catch it here.

To that end, I posted a new story for you all... An office visit...

And the anti-spam-number is 269. What more happiness could I ask?

xxxhandyman4u2 55M

12/7/2005 9:40 am

Do what makes ya happy....tell the rest ta fuck off....Its your life and you do what ya want ......I'm rootin for ya here in Pa.....Sounds to me like ya got one hell of a christmas Gift .....

frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
12/7/2005 5:03 pm

I do so hope you stay... ban them from leaving comments on your blog.. those of us who have gotten to know you from your writtings...know you are not any of those things.. idnore the stupid people.. I have no patience for them either... T


bardicman 50M

12/7/2005 6:04 pm

I write my blogs to entertain. Its all know. I have been blasted, harrassed, stalked. I am here. I blog for me and I am happy that enough people enjoy my humor to visit my little roof top.
Ignore the naysayers and the problem makers and the shit stirrers.. They go away if they are not fed.

I am not dead yet

beewulf9 38M

12/8/2005 3:12 am

Personally, I am happy you are happy and hope that you continue to be that way, here and in real life. My best wishes.

keithcancook 60M
17795 posts
12/8/2005 7:21 am

I'm still with ya, my little wildflower.


(Princess Lips)

12/8/2005 8:09 pm

Blogland, like everything else will evolve, change, grow...

It is up to its neighbors to set the tone, and keep the peace...

It is not so much a place, but a group of PEOPLE


smackyman 46M
3845 posts
12/8/2005 9:12 pm

What do I think? I think that you're wonderful mzhuny. Maybe that will in some small way make up for a nasty name that someone called you. Make like a duck my dear...and let it all roll off of your back...


rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
12/9/2005 9:13 pm

The delete comment link is for wussies.

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