I WANT YOU AND YOU AND YOU AND YOU  

rm_mzhunyhole 65F
60250 posts
12/7/2005 9:51 am

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I WANT YOU AND YOU AND YOU AND YOU

If my fella wanted an open relationship..first I'd knock his dick off ,then he'd never see me again.

I couldn't cope with that and it doesn't sit right with me...I am a one man woman.But why is that? Let me think..mmmmm..and as usual... my thoughts turn to porn....

Porn stars have one of the greatest jobs in the world.They epitomise the "animal" which is in all of us.Utter self confidence in their bodies and the blissful peace of fucking in public...plus the greatest kudo of all..having millions of people around the world getting off to your antics. And oh yeah..they get paid shitloads too !

But ya know the sad part??..Surely they miss out on the love thing.Who'd date and truely love a porn star?

"Hey..I saw your Mrs. getting frisky with 4 big hung dudes last night."
"So?"
"Like ya ain't mad?"
"Not really man..thats her job."
"But she was getting dildoed in the face!
"Oh.. thats fine"

I would be lieing to say it ain't crossed my mind to maybe have a threesome ...maybe..just maybe...but no..I can't do it.. cheat..no swapping...not gonna happen.

So maybe porn stars fall in love with porn stars...I like to think that,there is someone for everyone.

You all wouldn't wanna see your baby rolling around in everybodys arms ..would ya?.....or are you and your baby more into the free love ...you could be like porn stars ...love them all...a different one every week ...maybe even every night.....

How about that fantasy???? ...a new lover every night???..

Or are you like me?...when you find the one ...and you are finally sure ...after you spend time together and get to know everthing about each other....a one man or woman person....

Is cheating the deal breaker for you?


When someone comes along,gonna give ya some love and affection,I say..Get it while ya can.


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
12/7/2005 10:19 am

That depends... if it's in the early stages of dating, or even when "taking a break," well, I'm not sure it's really cheating. If it's a relationship where you've had The Talk, and are dating exclusively or have even decided to take the next step, then it's a dealbreaker for sure.

Once trust is lost it's very hard -if not downright impossible- to get back.

I'm a one-man woman. The fact that I cheated on my last BF (he never found out ) tells me I subconscioulsy knew he didn't deserve my loyalty, he proved that later on... then again, we never did have The Talk....

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


slidein2meplz 61F
1994 posts
12/7/2005 10:40 am

One on One...for me. You did a post not too long ago similar to this one I think, where you ask "Is this cheating"....anyway, it inspired me to add a post to my blog on the same subject, but more to do with my experience and what I learned from it.

Cheating would be the deal breaker especially if there had been no prior agreement that as a couple you would participate in swinging, etc. and if there was that "openness" to that lifestyle, then it would be cheating if it's done behind your significant others back.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~


rm_JayandInn 48M/46F
5 posts
12/7/2005 10:55 am

I am a two or three woman man myself, and my wife is OK with that. She actually likes to watch me with annother woman. So it really does take all types, and you just have to keep searching to fing the one who is right for you.

And Yes, cheating would be a deal breaker for either of us. We have an honest relacionship where we talk about everything, and so to have an affair would be a relationship killer.

And before you ask, yes the rules are the same for my wife as they are for me - she can sleep with any woman she wants as long as I can watch.

Jay


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
12/7/2005 10:58 am

Well... some porn stars were entered in the business by their partner. Richard? is that the right name? He was on the Las Vegas/Casino show on Monday night.. but he has a PhD if i remember, possibly a couple of them. Was a teacher (might still be). His g/f entered his "picture" into a contest and he won (i think they're married now). That was essentially the start of his new career. I probably have the facts a little messed up. I'm not taking the time to look it up for sure. But he was at our campus last year giving a presentation (sex and freedom of speech i think. i did'nt go: had class), and the school newspaper did a full write-up about him. and i don't think porn stars are with a new person every night, are they? I'm assuming they have "casts". Not that i'd know... i've not watched too many of them to compare.

Cheating would be a deal breaker for me though. Because if you choose me: great. If you choose somebody else: great too. But choosing me, then being with another... you chose another. That's it. Khalas. Suvat. Finished.

I do have a deep, dark fantasy of being with 3 men at one time. But i'm OK knowing it will probably never happen. Even if the chance arose.

All that being said... I have been on a polyandry kick lately. I've got 4 "husbands" at the moment. (Not real life... 2 are AdultFriendFinder friends, 2 are non-AdultFriendFinder friends... all long distance. but they all expressed a wish to marry me and agreed to the idea of having co-husbands). Realistically, THAT would never happen either. 1: it's against my religion. 2: i can only marry somebody OF my religion. 3: I'm possessive. I don't want to share my husband with anybody else, even if he is allowed more than 1 wife by our religion. 4: i'm fair. Even if they would be willing to share me and all be faithful to me... i wouldn't let them if the situation were reversed. So i can't allow it for myself either. Despite that it would make my life easier It seems i'm cursed to always face either zero prospects or three prospects. NEVER just one.

Still: it's fun to imagine


fat9inblackcock 52M
1 post
12/7/2005 10:59 am

First off I think that if your with someone and just that someone then it is cool,but if you start to add this person and that person it changes everything.How do you know that when your not around that they won't continue the affair without you being there!If your going to have a open relationship then it should be discussed up front before feelings begin to get involved.


rm_MarkE_DeSade 60M
4 posts
12/7/2005 12:22 pm

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FriendlybutKinky 49M

12/7/2005 12:43 pm

As long as the two people agree on what the rules are, it seems crazy to cheat. If it isn't going well, people should just be honest and fix it, or get out first.

I think expectations should be clear between people. My ex-wife demanded absolute monogamy, and I was thrilled with that. It was fine and dandy. What she didn't mention was that there was apparently a secret vow of celibacy/chastity that went with that. To me, that is a form of cheating as well.

She used sex as a weapon in every dispute/argument, was very frigid, and not in touch with her own body and resented any notions that it could be different or interesting. All bodily functions were gross and repulsive to her. I tried what I could to help coax her along, but she would have none of it. I didn't cheat, but when it became clear that this, among other important issues, were becoming non-negotiable and unsolvable problems, the relationship had to end, and did.

If two people are committing to only be sexual with one another, that should include the sex!


digdug41 49M

12/7/2005 12:47 pm

hey I may talk alot've shit but I aint messing with no other chicks at this point in time because I have already been there and done that so I have to live up to my vows now and so far so good

roaming the cyber streets of blogland


2xTwiceShy 51M
470 posts
12/7/2005 1:02 pm

I respect those who are confident enough in their relationships to allow others to be a part of their sex lives, but personally I couldn't do it.

Sex and feelings of the heart are too closely tied together for me, and infidelity is the ultimate deal breaker once you've left the 'players' field.

I did participate in a threesome years ago, but the girl was a three month fukk buddy and we did little else together. The participation of her roommate was motivated by a combination of embarrassment and playful revenge. It lasted just one night and we were both confident that no feelings were stepped on.

I have no idea how porn stars come to terms with the issue, other than to accept from the beginning that it's just a fact of life. Perhaps it's differentiating between fukking and making love that keeps them on an even keel.


shaft200551 65M
1 post
12/7/2005 3:15 pm

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silkysmoothlegs3 105F

12/7/2005 3:37 pm

Im like u
Its hard to find one
when i do(like NOw)
I want him and only him
brilliant post babes
silky xx


rm_gent258 68M
486 posts
12/7/2005 4:21 pm

It's nice to share books, popcorn, and even breath mints, but there are two things I don't want to share:My toothbrush and my woman. That's where friendship ends and you have to get your own. That's what makes a relationship special that the person is yours and yours alone. Would you like some of my popcorn?


rm_fwtxcowboy51 64M

12/7/2005 4:36 pm

HELLO DARLIN' MZHUNYHOLE,

I MUST BEG OF YOU AN UNDESERVED IMMENSE FAVOR TO READ, WITH DILIGENCE AND PATIENCE, THIS RATHER LENGTHY 'COMMENT' DUE TO MY URGENCY TO CONVEY MY RATHER STRONG FEELINGS FOR YOU. I DO HOPE I DON'T PUBLICLY (AS FAR AS THIS WEBSITE IS CONCERNED) EMBARRASS OR IMPOSE FEAR FOR YOU, BUT I CAN'T THINK OF ANOTHER WAY OF COMMUNICATING WITH YOU. THAT IS, UNLESS YOU WANT ME TO UPGRADE MY MEMBERSHIP JUST FOR YOU. FOR I FEEL I HAVE NO MORE USE FOR THIS WEBSITE OR ANY OTHER 'DATING SERVICE' WEBSITE FOR THAT MATTER.

I HAVE SPENT ALL NIGHT READING 99.999% OF ALL YOUR AVAILABLE 'BLOGS' IN YOUR WONDERFUL DOWN-TO-EARTH 'THE HONEST HUNYHOLE' BLOGLAND. SO BEAR WITH MY RATHER EXHAUSTED, SEAMINGLY INEXHAUSTIVE, BUT BLISSFUL COMPOSITION. I AM PROBABLY STARTING TO SOUND LIKE ONE OF YOUR MENTIONED 'SILVER-TONGUED DEVILS', BUT AGAIN I BEG OF YOU TO 'COWGIRL-UP' WITH ME HERE.

I BECAME MESMERIZED WITH YOUR SALT-OF-THE-EARTH RED-NECK HONESTY AND INTRIGUING RESEARCH AND CONCERN FOR YOUR FELLOW BLOGLANDERS ON THIS INTERESTINGLY DECADENT PANDORA'S BOX WEB-SITE (I'VE HEARTBREAKINGLY EXPERIENCED SIMILAR GOSSIPY CHATROOMS). I COULD TELL YOU WERE REVEALING AT LEAST TO ME YOUR WONDERFULLY BLESSED WARM HEART.

LET ME INTRODUCE MYSELF BEFORE I GO ON. MY NAME IS CHRIS, STANDARD MEMBER HANDLE fwtxcowboy51, MY FULLY CLOTHED (HOPEFULLY IN TYPICAL CHARACTER COWBOY DUDS) PHOTO fwtxcowboy51. I ENCOURAGE YOU TO REVIEW MY ALMOST COMPLETED PROFILE. I PRACTICALLY READ YOUR WHOLE PROFILE PLUS A LOT OF YOUR AMAZINGLY OPENLY PERSONAL HISTORY INTO YOUR BLOGS FOR YOUR BLOGLANDERS.

I PRAY THAT YOU KEEP UP WITH ME HERE. YOU'LL FIND I WAS LIKE YOU (UNLIKE SOME OF THE CHARACTERS YOU'VE MENTIONED) THAT I WAS QUITE THE OPEN BOOK. AND NO, I DIDN'T MAKE MULTIPLE PROFILES TO BUFFALO FELLOW AdultFriendFinder'S OF THE OPPOSITE GENDER. I WASN'T GOING TO PAY FOR AN UPGRADED MEMBERSHIP UNTIL I WAS SATISFIED WITH FINDING SOMEONE TO MY LIKING. AND QUITE FRANKLY, I DID LEAVE SEVERAL 'WINKS' AND A FEW SHORT MESSAGES FOR UPGRADED MEMBERS I WAS SOMEWHAT INTERESTED IN FINDING OUT MORE ABOUT. SOME WERE LOCATED IN GEORGIA WHERE I LIVE FOR NOW.


HERE COMES THE BOMB, BABY! AFTER READING ABOUT YOU AND OF COURSE SEEING YOUR ABUNDANT AND LUSTY PHOTO THUMBNAILS, I IMMEDIATEDLY STOPPED (LIKE FLOORING THE AIR BRAKES ON A SEM LEAVING SUPERFULOUS WINKS AND SUCH, BECAUSE I AM THOROUGHLY CONVINCED NOW THAT I COULD POSSIBLY VIRTUALLY TRIPPED (LITERALLY ACCIDENTLY CLICKED ON YOUR BLOGLAND HOT BUTTON) UPON WHAT I CALL MY 'SPIRITUAL MATE' (AS OPPOSED TO 'SOUL MATE') AND HOPEFULLY MY ULTIMATE LOVER FOR LIFE.

I SINCERELY SAY THIS FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY OWN PEA-PICKIN' BUT WARM HEART AFTER READING HOW MUCH WE HAVE IN COMMON WITH YOUR 'SPIRITUALITY' AND REDNECK NATURE (IE. YOUR FEELINGS ABOUT MURDERERS (ESPECIALLY ONE IN PARTICULAR YOU'RE CONCERNED ABOUT) ON ETERNAL DEATH ROW. I MYSELF SHARE STRONGER FEELINGS ABOUT THOSE 'TWO-LEGGED COYOTES' WITH THOSE SHARED IN THE SONG 'SIMPLE MAN' BY CHARLIE DANIELS BAND. LISTEN TO IT CLOSELY SOMETIME IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY....YOU JUST MIGHT FEEL THE SAME WAY.

YOU SEE, I AM AN ETERNAL STUDENT OF THIS WORLD'S HISTORY AND IT'S MORE MEMORABLE HUMAN CHARACTERS AMONGST MANY OTHER SUBJECTS. ONE ANTHROPOLOGICAL SUBJECT IN PARTICULAR I'M MOST INTRIGUED WITH IS THE STUDY OF THE NORTH AMERICAN NATIVES (HORRIBLY MISTAKENLY MISLABELED 'INDIANS') WHICH WAS STARTED IN MY ELEMENTARY SCHOOLING IN MY HOME TOWN OF FORT WORTH, TEXAS (THE COMANCHES, IN PARTICULAR). I WAS VERY FORTUNATE TO STUDY MOST OF THE REST OF THE GREAT PLAINS TRIBES IN JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL IN MONTANA.

THE MOST FASCINATING FOR ME WERE THE CHEYENNE (WHICH I BELIEVE MEANS 'HUMAN BEING')(YOUR ANCESTORS)TRIBE. I AM THOROUGHLY CONVINCED THIS TRIBE AMONGST SOME OTHERS, HAVE THE STRONGEST SPIRITUALITY OF THE 'GREAT FATHER', UNDERSTANDING OF MOTHER EARTH, AND, AS A RESULT, THEMSELVES AND THEIR SEXUALITY (ANOTHER FASCINATING SUBJECT). I AM SO CONVINCED, I HAVE PRACTICALLY ABANDONED MY 'MORE CIVILIZED' CHRISTIAN FAITH TO JOIN THE 'INDIAN NATION' INSPITE MY EASTERN EUROPEAN ANCESTRY. AND LIKE MANY A MOUNTAIN MAN DID FOR VARIOUS TRIBES IN THE 1800'S, I WILL EVENTUALLY REQUEST FOR ADOPTION INTO THE CHEYENNE TRIBE.

wHOOOOOOOOOOOOO WHEEEEEEEEEEEEE! SO NOW FINALLY, MY DEAR, YOU SHOULD START TO SEE THE BOND I FEEL FOR YOUR ANCESTORS AND YOU. I AM TOTALLY INFATUATED WITH THEIR/YOUR SPIRITUALITY AND PHILOSOPHY OF LIFE AND THEIR FEMALE BEAUTY. I WOOD LUV TO EXPLORE OUR POSSUMBILLIES (OOPS, MY REDNECK'S SHOWIN'!) R U GAME, MY SWEET CHEYENNE PRINCESS?

NOW COMES THE CRUCIAL (JUST STOMP ON MY HEART) MOMENT OF TRUTH AND CONSEQUENCES FOR ME. IF THIS APPEARS AS A THREATENING (OF START OF A STALKER) CHARADE FOR YOU, BY CHANCE (MY MISFORTUNE), YOU ARE ALREADY DEDICATED TO A MAN, OR YOU WISH TO INDICATE IN'REST IN DIS HEER HEART-ON-HIS-SLEEVE COWBOY/MOUNTAIN MAN, YOU MAY CONTACT ME AT THE SAME HANDLE OF MINE AT THE 'MOUNTAIN DEW' YELP OF THE HILLBILLY.

HOW'S DAT FER A REDNECK DEESKRIPSHUN? LAWDY, LAWDY MISS CLAUDIE LOL! DAMN I SUUPRIZ MYSELF SOMETIMES!

IF'N YOU FEEL THREATENED OR ARE TAKEN, I WILL NAT'RLI UNERSTAND YUR RSVP (WHEW, IS THAT THAR PEA-SOUPER FRENCHIE STUFF?) AND YOU WILL NOT HEAR FROM ME AGIN THE REST OF YUR BLESS'D LIFE.

IF'N YOU WOOD TAKE A LIKEN TO 'SAVE A HORSE, RIDE A COWBOY' EVEN FER A SHORT RODEO YOU WOOD CREATE A MEMORY AN' SMILE I'LL TAKE TO THE HAPPY HUNTIN' GROUNDS AN' ROUNDUP, LIL DARLIN'!

BUTT (AS IN CHICK'N BUTT) I HAVE EV'RY ENTENSHUN TO TRY TO STEAL THAT PRESSUSH WILD-AS-NATURE CHEYENNE/HUNGARIAN HEART OF YURS AN' HOLD IT NEXT TO MINE FER A LIFETIME, FIGERLY SPEEKIN' A CORSE! AN' THAT'S AFTER A PRIM AN' PROPR CHEYENNE TRIBAL COURTIN' A CORSE! U WOOD A'MAKE MEE HAPPI'RN A NU BORN PUPPI WIT 2 PETERS!

I MIGHT SWEAR ON D' BIBLE HERE AN' NOW, AMAZIN'LI, THIS'N WUZ'NT WRIT'N UNNER NO ENFLUANC OF MOUNT'N DU, ROT-GUT WHISKI, NOR THAT THAR WACKY WEED, CUZ I WUZ TRIN' DURN HARD TO SHEW MY TRU SELF!

NOW,HOW WUZ DAT FER A LUV LETT'R, LIL DARLIN'! I'M SHUR AS SHOOTIN' STRAIT, IT'S A' GOTTA BEE YUR FURST LIKEN THIS, HUH? AIN'T DAT A HOOT! I MUSTA SPENT DURN NEER 4 HOURS ON DIS HEFFER. IT'A WUZ'N WORTH EVRI SEC'ND, BABY.

DIS HEER HILLBILLY, COWBOY, AN' MOUNTAIN MAN SHUR DUZ HOPE TA RONDAYVU'N (THAR'S DAT DURN SLIP'A FRENCHI TUNG, AGIN) WITCHA ONNA TRAIL SOMEWHAR'S IN KANETUCK!

I BETTR GO NOW, CUZ DIS HEER WRITIN' IS'A GITTIN' TUFFER AN' MI FRENCHI TUNG HIS SLIPPIN' OUT AGIN (NO IMPROPRITI, ENTEND'D...BUT THEM FRENCHI'S SHO' NUFF NO HOW TO KISS)! I MUSSEN GITTEN GIDDY FROM THE THRILL A' TALKIN' T' U AN' DA SIMPUL FACT I NEED SUM SHUTEYE! IT'S BIN A SHUR' FIRED LONG ARSE DAY OR 2 THUNKIN' 'BOUT U!

FER YURS AN' ONLI YURS, BABY DOLL

YURS FER THE TAK'N AN ORNRI HEART OF A COWBOY/MOUNTAIN MAN


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
12/7/2005 4:46 pm

I have been so jaded from the last two that I have been thinking that even one woman is too many.


TTigerAtty 62M

12/7/2005 6:52 pm

I'm afraid I'm in the same boat with keithcancook. It will have to be a very, very special lady! And now I'm heartbroken! I thought that woman just might be you, but now I see where you're goin' off and marrying [blog tavelingintexas].


weineroftheworld 66M

12/7/2005 7:30 pm

My first marriage ended because of cheatin'. Not me, her. She had a three year affair that I finally just had enough of. It may not have been so bad I could have had free reign but that wasn't to be. In fact, she smacked the shit out of be because a woman waved at the car. I didn't even see her and have no idea who the woman was. Anyway, after three years of trying to explain to my daughter where mom was, I moved out. And then I became the bad guy!!!


tillerbabe 55F

12/7/2005 7:41 pm

"Cheating" is always a deal breaker for me....but that depends what "cheating" is. I've been in open relationships and ones that were strictly monogamous..."cheating" therefor would only be "cheating" if it went against the standards and "rules" determined by me and my man.

I can be a possesive one though..... But, my enduring love is soooooooo goood!{=}


funtoplay1973 43M
69 posts
12/7/2005 7:42 pm

WOW. Quite the comments here. Basically, I think that for everyone who has commented, cheating is a deal breaker, BUT...

Remember the definition of cheating is to break the rules. This is a site, 99% populated by people who are all about defining their own rules. So, to my way of thinking, for one person, cheating is LOOKING at porn, for another, there are no rules.

Where does that leave this comment? Well, for me those rules are deffined between partners, and breaking them breaks trust, and as [PrincessKarma] states above, "Once trust is lost it's very hard -if not downright impossible- to get back."

So, sleeping with others isn't the issue. Breaking trust is. If sleeping with others breaks trust... If not...


randomofthebob 39M
1 post
12/7/2005 8:08 pm

Dam stright its a deal breaker(it's a trust thing)
Even worse is when they dump you so they don't have to tell you, like that would ever work


rm_cal90245 57M

12/7/2005 11:02 pm

I agree with FriendlybutKinky, cheating isn't just about running around on your partner. It can also be when a person changes there behavior after getting married. My wife and I had more sex in the two years that we dated than we have in the fifteen years we have been married. To me that is cheating, even with that I am not ready to give up on the relationship.


xxxhandyman4u2 55M

12/7/2005 11:18 pm

lets see,I've been married 3 times and had a few live ins...1 open relationship that lasted 5 years and 1 poly commitment that lasted 10....
the open relationship was truely troublesome because i didnt want to bang her GF's...or want a 3some with her and them...they just didnt turn me on....in the poly relationship, I consented to share her with another guy so I wouldnt lose her ...and yet i did ...eventually....but it seemed in both
cases I was expected to remain faithful unless they consented to my choices...wich was never, while they screwed anyone they had a mind to....
So I cheated ,ever so discretely.....or should I say, as discreetly as I'm capable of being....I'm more of a no strings person now .....but who knows what the future has in store for me ......


rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
12/8/2005 12:03 am

Got a question for you MzHUny. Lately you've been saying how BlogLand has changed, isn't nice anymore. Tell me how can you sanction your new guy threatening someone with "A nice little .44 right to the back of your ex-lover's head, and shoot him in the balls."???

Not a very nice thing to say at all.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


Camille61 50M
15 posts
12/8/2005 1:16 am

I think first and foremost is honesty between two people who commit to that principle of "us first" - anyone else second... out front and open... otherwise it's just lying, cheating, and stealing from another's soul

honesty is the principle between two lovers... what they agree on from there is between those two

To what level is the commitment? I guess is the question/answer for me. Have we discussed the boundaries of what we're doing together? If not... it's all fair game. I've learned through hard-won experience that is how it goes if you're not honest about what you want... and second, do you stick with what you don't want?

It's a great topic... worth exploring, thanks!


slidein2meplz 61F
1994 posts
12/8/2005 7:14 am

At first I wasn't going to say anything...but dangit, DaphneR makes a damn good point.

I believe that would be a gigantic red flag that ought to be discussed...and if not...why not? Even if it was said in "jest"...the underlying truth is not much further...IE: Apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Just be aware.

This is just a sincere question put to you...and I feel that Daphne's question is of the same thought..that's how I percieved it...Anyway, my comment is only intended to "open your eyes"... love doesn't have to be blind and hopefully people regardless of who they are or who they love...will take to heart concerns others may see. After all, one cannot see their own eyebrows....but others can. If I am out of line, I apologize...but it's truly meant in a most postitive way.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~


kyplowboy22 61M

12/8/2005 10:10 am

*kpb gives Huny a gentle hug and kiss on the forehead, before whispering in her ear*

"Justice? Where? There has to be a crime before one can obtain Justice. This was simply murder. Be all right, you'll see."

*Huny glimpses the sorrow in his eyes as he turns and walks back into the mist. She looks at the crimson trail on the ground marking his retreat and follows it to its source at the back of his head as he disappears from sight forever*

Huny wonders how it came to this. This ain't right.


hybridp6 33M

12/8/2005 3:19 pm

i think that true cheating is a deal breaker.
i just broke a deal with my ex cause she cheated on me with my best friend/roommate. i am a one woman man myself when i commit to someone. I love to entertain women and go on dates and such but when i enter into a relationship, its because i see better things to come from giving that person every part of me. With that in mind, i treat people the way i want to be treated and so i would expect that person to do the same. otherwise, why get into a relationship? why not just sleep with people and have fun. So i guess it says alot of a person whether or not they do. Although mistakes are made sometimes, but isn't there a little truth in every lie?


Foxy_12 65M

12/8/2005 10:14 pm

Yes.. you have to tink all over....

my thoughts turn to porn....
????
That`s not easy Job*gg*


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
12/8/2005 11:55 pm

Well, huny it seems to me that your new man isn't so nice. I hope you are careful in proceeding with this one. He's angry and his words show he has low self esteem and he is filled with jealousy. Huny, you are so much better than to have a man like that in your life.

DustStormDiva


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2 posts
12/9/2005 4:52 am

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rm_careful220 61F

12/14/2005 1:29 pm

I disagree with most of you.
Cheating is NOT a deal breaker. Sex is taken way too seriously by our culture. It's an act. If my man had an affair it would simply be a symptom of a problem, and the problem may not even be that big - mis-matched libidos, for example. A trying time for one while a horny time for the other are concurrent, for two. Absence, three. Bordom, four. After seven amazing sexual years with my husband I had an affair (for friendship and sex). The result was that it revved up my marital sex life. I was being fucked daily and I loved it; by one, the other or both. Many years pass - I become mother. I am very good at mothering but my sexuality is supressed. For may years. this is all changing now. However, hubby doesn't seem to want sex anymore. I don't want to end marriage (and, methinks, neither does he) but I am 50 and I'm not living the rest of my life sexless.


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