rm_mzhunyhole 65F
60250 posts
7/23/2006 7:22 am

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Its me alive and well out there in the wild blue younder.Today everything is better if that is possible in my little corner of the world.

I am telling ya all right now..
time is a wasting.Yall are spending too much time
on here just flirting back and forth over and over and then instead of hooking up with each other ya all are sitting home and going to bed alone.

Sooo many on here looking for somebody sooo many of you on here lonley.Soo many of you reaching out to other people.Time to get it together people.Pick somebody already.Quit being so picky about what they look like and try to look at their insides.How bout once just trying someone different..Not just by looks alone.Ya might just be surprised.Sometimes ya like someone real good ya never would imagine.Ya might be amazed.Ya could be passing up the person who could make your life perfect.

And could all of you who are together please be good to one another?
All the time.Strive to be good to one another for no friggen reason.Be so happy together.
Why look at other people and say...I wish I could be happy like that..Well hells friggen fire,Ya all are with the one ya picked to love,thats what ya wanted yall can be that just start doing it.Be so happy together.Why do ya make your lives miserable?

And those of ya that go out on a date.Make the most of your time together.Enjoy each other and savor your moments and each other.Really appreciate the person your with.Listen to them and get to know them.Ya never know. ..anyone could be the one ya are gonna see from that moment on.Be good to one another.

Come on people..pick somebody...Quit being alone..Be with someone..
So happy together....

By the way I said uncle first.My fella...he was all that and more.Mzhuny had the best weekend.

Whens the last time ya all went on a
a real date?

Are yall dating someone right now??
Never gonna...Or are ya married?

Whats the most money ya spent on
a date?

When someone comes along,gonna give ya some love and affection,I say..Get it while ya can.

rm_mmmgoodnova 106M/106F
1259 posts
7/23/2006 7:30 am

Wise words. Glad you had a wonderful time...couldn't have happened to a more deserving woman. Hope your next weekend together is really soon.

free2chose2 66F

7/23/2006 7:30 am

Well Sista Huny, it's about time you reappeared.
Now just because you had some"time" you gonna say we need it!!
Hell, I know I do

The guy I'm suppose to meet today now changed it to Friday
What's a gal to do?

Welocome back, glad you had fun

Don't worry, be Happy

rm_sloman44 60M
701 posts
7/23/2006 7:39 am

Another great post MzHuny! Excellent advice. Too many people only find the bad things around them. There are so many good things going on. I always try to enjoy the moment.
It's been over a year since I've been on a real date or had to yell uncle. Hmm, had to be that three day birthday date (hers). I don't know...

Glad you had a great time and glad you got you some.

luvtolick64154 62M

7/23/2006 7:59 am

Just a note Huny. I found that I really didn't need to look any further than my own sweet partner. Life's good right now, and it sounds like you might have found that slice of the good stuff to. Good luck to you and that new fellow.

rm_Benkai7 55M
2358 posts
7/23/2006 8:21 am

Dear "mzhunyhole".

smile ... you愉e right,
life愀 is right behind the door ... smile ... sometimes only a matter of view ... yes ... if I meet someone I like or like the way my mind is stimulated ... I date or like to ... it愀 not my decision only ...


RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
7/23/2006 8:24 am

Sound like you had a great time. You sure deserve it! Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

Greekgirl4u06 39F

7/23/2006 8:26 am

i remember one of my aunts telling me one time, if you go out with a good looking man who knows it, he will treat you like shit, if you go out with an ugly or average man he will treat you like gold....well, she was right, i was married to the most vain, self-centered asshole for 7 years, left him finally and now im dating a so-so looking MAN with quite a bit of extra weight,(and it doesnt bother me a bit) but he treats me the best i have ever been treated my whole you are so very right, people really need to try to look inside for a change......glad you had a great weekend mz huny

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
7/23/2006 8:29 am

Let's see ... last date was meeting my guy in San Diego for the weekend ... air fare, hotel, meals, drinks, concert tickets, a movie, condoms ... between the two of us, we spent a bundle, but it was worth it.

rm_smosmof2 67M
3240 posts
7/23/2006 8:43 am

no dates since xgf left me in November.

No one interested in anybody my age....

My girlfriend in Louisville back in the 90's used to have a taste for expensive restaurants. and wine. two or three glasses a night, at $10 each. brought the bill up rather quickly.....


7/23/2006 9:13 am

Mz.. you are sooo right.. me and the Mr. had no attraction to one another when we met.. we just liked each other as friends..and to hang out.. we had a blast together.. on our 3rd date I listen to his dreams and his goals and he grabed my heart.
3 months later I proposed to him.. He turned out to be everything I wanted and needed in a man..and just to think I almost did not go out with him.. wow..
and 12 yrs later.. here we are

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat

florallei 99F

7/23/2006 9:14 am

Oh MzHuny,

Am so pleased you are happy and had the best time with your new fella'...thanks for the encouragement.

meerkittykat 42F

7/23/2006 9:35 am

sweet.....sista's having a blast!!!

I found love when I wasn't looking, and everyday is like a first date. Most I ever spent on a date?? oooh...gosh, that's a big number...I don't even wanna say, but it was over 500 bucks

There is no shortage of amazing people that can be found out there. If you know what you're looking for and you want it bad enough, you'll go get it. I know rejection and disappointment can be scary things, but regret and living the rest of your life thinking "Only if" is the bigger disservice to me.

goodatpoetry2 67M
13177 posts
7/23/2006 10:30 am

Now you got yourself a little and your just clucking like a happy hen.
Go ahead, rub it in! LOL!

OboesHonedIambs 62F

7/23/2006 10:54 am

Ah Huny, I'm glad you had a great time! And you hollered Uncle first? That must've been something!

The most I ever spent on a date was in the UK in 1978 - spent nearly 500 quid.

Instant Human -- Just Add Coffee

libgemOH 56M/52F

7/23/2006 10:59 am

I LOVE that you had yourself some fun!!! And HE WORE YOU OUT????? Damn girl!

I wasn't looking for love when I found Jim, I was looking for sex, maybe a friend if possible. But love??? Didn't exist! Was only for fairytales! LOVE FOUND ME!!!

And when he's home, I'm not usually on here. I use the time he's away on business to catch up for the next time!! -B

ProtonicMan 48M

7/23/2006 11:08 am

Hi, MzHuny!

Welcome home. I'm glad you enjoyed yourself this weekend.

Last real date?
A bit over a month ago. For those really curious, search my blog for my post on June 17.

Are yall dating someone right now?
I have a good thing going with a great FWB right now. Then one I'm really hoping for remains elusive.

Whats the most money ya spent on a date?
I have never kept track.


mysticdreamangel 61F
2759 posts
7/23/2006 11:19 am

Welcome back girlfriend! Glad you had a good time...but of course you deserve it and more.

Your words today are so true...but wouldn't it be nice to find someone that looks as good on the outside as he is on the inside...

Glad your back and hope that your going to see your guy real soon!


sassy1296 51F

7/23/2006 11:23 am

Glad you had a great time. You surely deserve it. Now tell that fella you want more and it more often. lol.

Well my fwb cost me over 2000$ so far in hotels... yeah I know... smarten up girl....and move on. And believe me I have.

Hugs girls... glad your happy.

One day... maybe... I will meet someone.

moonfire2u 69F
2602 posts
7/23/2006 11:27 am

I think people are afraid...I think it is safer to sit behind the computer and play dating than to meet face to face...I prefer to meet someone almost right away...that way you know whether or not there is a connection...why waste time...theirs and yours...if it's there great...if it's harm done...I have met some lovely men...not all of them were right for me...but doesn't mean I didn't enjoy meeting them...glad you had a good time...and you finally met a man who could wear your ass

kind thoughts,

rm_sexxikritter 52F
2715 posts
7/23/2006 11:31 am

Oh Mz. Huny, you look just ravishing in that pic. It just fills me with such happiness he was all that and more.

I went on a real date three weeks ago this Monday evening. Although he lives 200 miles away, yes, we are dating. I think the most I've ever spent was $50 because I generally don't pay for dates.

2375 posts
7/23/2006 11:31 am

Well Mz Huny, I got lucky and married a guy who treats me like a queen and I try to treat him like a king. We ARE good to each other and you're right, it's the best ever. However, no sex due to meds. But he's worth whatever I have to do. Most expensive "date" was taking him to Aruba for a week. Even us old married folk still like a romantic getaway! I surprised him and I took care of everything. We had an awesome time! Glad you had a good weekend!

deliciousngood 64F
1666 posts
7/23/2006 11:42 am

BLessings on ya, MzHuny...if it's true you get what you give...then bluebirds of ahppiness are flying around YOUR head!

JaniSux 44F

7/23/2006 12:02 pm

Wise wonderful 'seize the day' kind of advice from my favorite person here in blogland. MzH, I'm sooo glad that you had a wonderful time.

Hmmmm... the last real date I went out on? I seriously don't remember..
- There was the time the ex and I were just gonna get together for fun and he ended up taking my mother and I to dinner..
- Or the time a married friend came up to 'spend the night' and he took me out to dinner..

but a real date... my memory fails me..

It's good to see you happy and satisfied big sis.

tadpudgy 56M

7/23/2006 12:16 pm

well mzhuny, without fear of being too repititious, that is why i first decided to join site. having a blast blogging. but, the well is dry in the sex department. i have waited 4+ years, and i don't mind waiting a little bit more. taking control of your life is one day at a time. maybe someone who i can make smile and treat like a princess will spot me here and give me a chance for romance!

norprin5 55M

7/23/2006 1:00 pm

glad you had fun, MZHuny

i'm married, in love with her, and currently my most expensive dae has cost me a house and several cars, not to mention room & board for two kids

King Nor XVIII

warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
7/23/2006 1:10 pm

Awwww MzHuny you had a great time. I'm so pleased!

warm xx

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
7/23/2006 1:17 pm

Whens the last time ya all went on a
a real date?
Um... what's a "real date"? i imagine the formal him picking me up, taking us somewhere, surprising me with evening.. i almost want to say never lol. but i guess it's been about a month and a half since one of my "friends" took me to dinner.

Are yall dating someone right now??
Never gonna...Or are ya married?
I'm emotionally involved (beyond mere friendship) with 2 men from this site. am somewhat seeing a couple more than that, if you include friends and friends with a few benefits.

Whats the most money ya spent on
a date?
I usually don't pay. though i did surprise a b/f once with a fancy dinner, gifts, and new lingerie (for me) on his bday once. always fun when the other isn't expecting anything and you can get the staff to join in on planning. i think i spent about $50.

canuhandle1968 49F

7/23/2006 1:36 pm

Congrats, MzHuny, on your great weekend. Your words are very powerful... Wonderful advice... I'd love for my "friend" to see this specific blog and maybe a light bulb will

Djeeper1987 47M

7/23/2006 1:42 pm

Well said. If it could be that simple. Everyone on here is playing it cautiously.

Carpe Diem

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
7/23/2006 1:56 pm

DAMN...I lost the bet...

Glad you're home safe, sound and happy

tootsiedippin 53M/53F
1078 posts
7/23/2006 2:13 pm

Are you kidding me I'm still dating Tootsie. About two week ago...WEG

Yes after all this time we still date each other. Last time we shared a date....its been a while...But thats doesn't mean we aint tryin though...

It's just all the good one live so far away.....**Sticking out lower lip times two**

Dippin < --- why am I Blue

rm_Rico0825 55M
483 posts
7/23/2006 3:00 pm

MzHuny- I am so happy you had a great weekend. There just had to be a good man out there for you!!

In all honesty, I am at a complete loss as to what a date is. I have four women in my life right now. All are friends. One is friends with bennies. Another is a friend I'm hoping will become more. I have had dinner with them all in the last two months. But are they dates? Don't know.

But in all honesty she intimidates me. She is highly educated and has an awesome job flying CEO's around the world. I always find myself asking why this women enjoys spending time with me.

But i know we have fun, so screw the questions in my head. I would like to get married, but it is not something that is a constant concern. Same thing with having a child. Fate will only tell.

Most expensive???? I guess around in A.C.

Balibabe19 42F

7/23/2006 3:06 pm

Glad you had a great time Ms Huny lets hope the good stuff keeps on coming!!

red_hot_trucker 58F

7/23/2006 3:23 pm

Ya know what, i did hook up with someone from this site, and he sent me on my way with my heart in a brown paper bag.

That's ok, I'll just sit right here, enjoy everyone's company from a distance, and keep my dogs right by my side. Thank you vey much.

[post 1785076]

moo_nips 57F

7/23/2006 3:43 pm

just hope to cook breakfast...a big aspirations...but.. whether so or not.....huny's place is where the grits is gonna be glad she moniters when the grits is hard...or not...and some of the other things

rm_magnet4u22 49F
18406 posts
7/23/2006 4:08 pm

You are is way too short and each day that goes by is another one gone. Glad you had a good time.


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/23/2006 4:33 pm

Welcome back MzHuny. I am glad you have returned safe and sound. By the way you look stunning in the todays picture.

Whens the last time ya all went on a a real date? Friday night.

Are yall dating someone right now?? Yes, and I am very very happy.

Never gonna...Or are ya married? We will one day. No rush though.

Whats the most money ya spent on a date? I don't know that I have ever paid for a date. If I cant' remember, then I must not have.


rm_shoulders55 62M
2 posts
7/23/2006 4:38 pm

well miz you made my day ive never read so much real shit in all my life ,you are a woman that woman should be proud to know. i am a proud scotsman i love the woman here in my own land , but by god ive never heard or read 1 as real as you ,keep it up pleeeease cuase when i read n see you i dont need viagra to keep it up , ha ha lots of love and happiness in your life. i liked the bit when you said you like to feel the cum on your legs . well may the cum be a regular event for the rest of your days. more power to the warrior.xxxxxx

curiousinlorain7 59F

7/23/2006 4:49 pm

mz huny I'll have to work on your advise this week... see what I can do. Sigh it takes two to tango


7/23/2006 5:00 pm

I don't know what the most expensive date cost????? Expen$ive!
I am committed. {=}

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

7/23/2006 5:33 pm

OH your blog descrip, that is what I am commenting about for you, and I am thankful that you take the time to read all of your comments, but I put you to challenge of your heart. I know you will accept, because you put soo much of your heart into words, and you wonder why people are soo nice to you.

I would like for you in one post, yes one post, no length of words, decide for yourself what you need of a man. I see the wanton's and I don't want to impede but challenge you, and you can do the same to me, and I will. In your post talk about captivation of your soul, of your heart of the very being of who you are in one post...if you can contain all of that in one post..challenge yes, it is. Yet I am a man of halfway and ya should know that about Cowboy's we hold our end of the bargain. I will be waiting to read and to dive into what you are, and I will do so the same, or if you challenge me to something different..look at your hand sweetie. I won't leave ya empty.


7/23/2006 5:47 pm

I'm trying. I really am.

oldude1946 71M

7/23/2006 6:24 pm

Whats the most money ya spent on
a date?

About $1500, took her to the Black Hills with me for a week

cuteNEway 41F

7/23/2006 6:24 pm

Whens the last time ya all went on a
a real date? The night before my birthday, I blogged it!

Are yall dating someone right now?? i'm not sure

Never gonna...Or are ya married? HA married. No one really wants to date me! how the hell would i be married

Whats the most money ya spent on
a date? about $15 for a bottle of wine

HandyMan15601 55M

7/23/2006 6:33 pm

It aint all about the Money Hunnie...Just Quality and comfort...I hooked up with one of my valentines this weekend and it were fine the cost was negligible...she had a wonderful time and a long drive home...but this date was right over the plate ...Aaand Its goin,goin,its over the right feild wall....It was my old blog that attracted her back when i had a different handle and was only a regular member....I see ya had a good weekend too!...Congrats....Ye deserve it...

Frugal Thrivalism. Preparedness. Self-Sufficiency.

Hot_n_Nasty_Love 35M
4 posts
7/23/2006 7:08 pm

Hi Mzhunny it's the first time I read your story and I found it wonderful, you look like a hot sexy woman. One question do you like younger fellas? I just love a mature woman, let me know,

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
7/23/2006 8:49 pm

Thank God.. Yeehaw! Yeah Buddy! kewl!
Am still waiting for those photos in my email box
along with what we talked about on the phone!

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

7/23/2006 8:53 pm

I'm with you good to one another.
All that kept coming to mind while reading your post was the song lyrics.."If you can't be with the one you love the one your with.. Sorry, we haven't been around much....we were on vacation and it has been hard catching up on the blog reading. Missed you.

tiyannah 47T

7/23/2006 9:04 pm


rm_DarknStar 54F
2823 posts
7/23/2006 9:06 pm

Glad your back home safely and had a SUPER Weekend!

TheRealThing655 48F
9558 posts
7/23/2006 9:20 pm

So happy you had a great weekend!
I'm kind of dating...but there is a man, here, that I plan to meet next month..and I can't wait.

rm_titsandtires 51M/41F
3656 posts
7/23/2006 9:45 pm

once when tits and i were both unemployed we went on a date including going to the second hand store for costumes for less than 20.00 we got outrageous outfits and then went to sing karaoke in them. we drank pop, which was free at the place we went, and had an absolute blast. I don't remember the date i spent the most on... guess that's a good guage of what's really important, eh?


rm_pussnballs4u 61M/54F
326 posts
7/23/2006 10:29 pm

Oh no!!! Tell me it ain't so!!! Oldman1776's prediction is coming to pass!!! The queen of Blogland is abdicating the throne!!! Or is it a coup???

**MzHuny stumbles on the cold marble steps in front of the throne, in the castle of Blog. The ring of heartless conspirators ripping the keyboard from her clutching fingers and smashing her mouse on the floor of the chamber with a sickening crunch. Her final words ring out above the clammer as she sees her monitor being disconnected, "Et tu, Caressmewell?"


rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
7/24/2006 12:07 am

I'm happy that it was a great time. We DO want details, tho!

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
7/24/2006 12:18 am

i just don't feel right dating other people while pregnant. maybe it's silly, but that's how i feel, even tho this means total sexual deprivation.

[blog freelove999]

ZZ_Todd 59M

7/24/2006 12:22 am

I think I might be getting a second chance... but this time we're keeping it strictly between us... where it should be, since it's really no body's business but ours. Glad you had a good time, and glad you're back safe and sound!

skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
7/24/2006 1:20 am

_____Funny you should write this. I've been reading your blog for awhile and noticed that you write about sex a lot but never seemed to actually have any. Then you've recently met your new guy and are espousing the glories of getting together with someone for sex. I wish you would have taken your own advice sooner. I am happy for you and your new gentleman, and also a little jealous that it wasn't me. Oh well.

VTLakesideVixen 60F
458 posts
7/24/2006 1:56 am

MzHuny, I am so glad that you are home safely and that you had the wonderful time you so richly deserved! I am a little surprised that you screamed "Uncle" first though!

I pray that your gentleman is/turns out to be the right one that you end up spending all of your "dancing in the moon-light" time with!

Hugs to you MzHuny!

sexyariesgirl 57F

7/24/2006 5:06 am glad you had a fantastic weekend!! We missed ya and are SO glad to have you cried uncle first???? SAY IT AIN'T SO!!!!!!!!

Power To FOK

pillowtalk4Uonly 59F
292 posts
7/24/2006 5:19 am

I'm So glad you had a Good time.. You deserve the Best!

I had a nice lunch date Friday with my Special AdultFriendFinder Fella...
But we are focusing more on our friendship now and not so hung up on the other stuff. You are So right that being Good to each other is the really important thing.

{{ Hugs to Ya Sista }}
~ pillowtalk ~

silverbreeze2 65F

7/24/2006 6:06 am

Glad your weekend was so good! I am happy for ya!
I don't date, I'm married and take care of my disabled husband. Years ago before I was married, I can't remember having expensive dates. I am a simply person, not one to go out and do fancy things so there was never much money spent...and that was really my choice.
Have a good day!

Addy19742 43F

7/24/2006 11:08 am

Hi Sweet Mzhuny! I am so glad for ya. I bet it was incredible! I so need to do exactly what you said. Sometimes I am just like lets get this over and move on, with the notion it will be bad. Now looking back if I would have been more into the date and shared more feelings maybe things would work out better. I am really going to try. I am going to check this post frequently so I won't forget what you said. Thanks sweetie!

bellbot123 72M  
126 posts
7/24/2006 11:13 am

Like all your friends and admirers here - congratulations on your weekend and your safe return, both to home and to blogland.

Personally I have been dateless this year, but not for lack of trying. It seems many ladies on AdultFriendFinder do not reply to emails. That is certainly their choice if they don't feel any compatibility, but it is discourteous. (Just my little rant.)

Certainly if travel is involved, a date can be expensive. A local dinner and drinks date varies according the the place, but a nicer dinner would be about $75.

spacecadet561 60M

7/24/2006 3:25 pm

Whens the last time ya all went on a
a real date? Over 21 years ago, before marriage.

Are yall dating someone right now??
Never gonna...Or are ya married? Married.

Whats the most money ya spent on
a date? Not a lot, being a casual cheapskate.


lightswitch1963 69M/53F

7/24/2006 3:54 pm

Mr.L and I admitted to each other long ago that we were not physically attracted to each other in the beginning. Now, he is the most handsome man I have ever laid eyes on....and he thinks I am beautiful!!!!!!!!!

We'll leave the light on for you.

8328 posts
7/25/2006 2:12 am

I'm sorry, mzhuny, but I am picky.

I'm not going to compromise on things that are important to me in a woman.

Of course I'm probably missing out on some interesting women, but I'm also resolute in what I want and I'm not going to settle.

Remember, though, I'm looking at a relationship not a sexual conquest.

I doubt there are very many here that are in the same boat.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

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