I AM A CYBER/STALKER  

rm_muffin162 55M
564 posts
7/20/2006 3:12 am

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I AM A CYBER/STALKER


YES ITS TRUE.

I have been branded a cyber/stalker,how did muffin come to this sad demise,why did he stalk? who did he stalk? I no what your thinking did he stalk out of love? obsession? infatuation? jealousy? hatred? who did he stalk in this tangeled web of compulsive stalking,lets examine the facts.


In the advice line section of the site you can ask a question, and receive a wide variety of replys or you could give people advice instead of asking a question.A guy i will call him Bozo uses this oppourtunity to offer newbies to the site his guidelines on how to behave on the site and get the most out of it [ which i did find slighty patronising ]but could see its worth to some people.I declined to post a comment to his sagely advice.2 people did post a reply to him which were both positive.Bozo then jumps back into the thread and slags them both off 30 odd replys later Bozo has had his ass throughly flammed.He retreats to his blog and makes a post on the whole episode and now realizes he has behaved foolishly,i leave him a short comment,which he deletes,i re write it and become a cyber stalker.What a fucking Bozo.

SolarPowered0 67M
8018 posts
7/20/2006 6:20 pm

Muff...

I presume this is the posting you referred to?

I had no problem with the posting of his info. I was a bit taken back by his condescension toward the general population, though. My comment to him was a trigger for him to come unglued - exactly as that previous member did (the one I mentioned to him.) I have seen hundreds of people post useful info without being condescending... so, I know, for a fact, it can be done.

It seems the easiest way for someone to retort to comments they may not want to hear, is for them to claim "cyber-stalking" of the one making the "distasteful" comment. The "victim" wears this as a badge of honor and uses it as a tool to label the offender as a "criminal" if you will. I have seen it and been a target of it. It is crap - pure and simple.

This is a public place and you will be faced with the public. I offer you some advice... get used to it. You will come to the realization most of the public is not interested in logic or reasoning and therefore, you will be seen as an outsider by many, if you attempt to reason with them.

Make the comments you feel are the truth and let everyone sort out that truth as they see fit.

Solar...


__iminatedaginst 43M

7/20/2006 7:58 pm

Which is what I've been tryyyyyying to tell you. No one loves you here. When people aren't nice to me, I have have know problem with letting them all have it. Especially when 99% of the nasty comments I have received are merely a result of ageeing with the previous comment. I started out with good intentions, but screw em!


rm_SultryVirgo 48F
567 posts
7/20/2006 9:16 pm

Well muffin, thank you for pointing it out. My goodness he can stretch the truth a bit can't he? Why am I not surprised? He reposts a few, not all of the comments made on the line, says nothing about the fact that no one called him anything until he called me a sour apple, solar a grandpa, with a dildo in his mouth, and both of us grumps. While he dispenses his crap, covered in sugar to the sheep who think he's actually trying to help them! He's just feeding his own sad little ego, he wouldn't know how to help anyone but himself. Be we are in the wrong for telling him to shove it up his ass.

He is a child having a temper tantrum plain and simple, the best insult the man can come up with is in relation to how someone looks, my how creative is that? I mean really, that is the easiest thing in the world to do isn't, insult how one looks it does not take many brain cells to do that. Hell my 9 year old does the dramatic "poor me they are picking on me" crap better then this shit head does.

Yup, always love to see those blog postings that try and rewrite how things actually went down. Oh well it's all there in ad lines history for anyone to see. And you would think for someone with as much supposed brain power as he wants the world to believe, would realize the statement "they are all over 45" is wrong, I'm 37 and says so on my profile.

Muffin you are anything but a stalker, and one of the better one's out there for being counted on to speak your mind, no matter if it ingratiates you to the masses or not. So thank you for that.

And for just not putting with crap period, wish there where more like you around, guys like him wouldn't last a minute against the real men that go to the ad lines and call it like it is.

Sultry


rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
7/21/2006 8:00 am

Hey Solar i get what your saying,i did not invite you here to try and sway you into joining sides with me and starting to give this guy a hard time, i just say my bit and move on. I just wanted to show you another example of the way this guy behaves on the internet,which i say does interest me,not just his behaviour but folk in general.

His reply to you and Sultry was,well i do not have the words,the best i can come up with is mad.

He has penned a handbook on how to behave in AdultFriendFinder land so you will get the best possible results from using this site,then goes on to slag people off who respond to him.

Maybe he will add another chapter to the handbook,running along the lines of,what ever is written is written,do not look for hidden meanings in the words or clues.


rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
7/21/2006 8:04 am

Hey Liv you would be suprised who loves me,now run along and play in the add lines before you get deleted and have to come back with another bullshit profile.


rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
7/21/2006 9:09 am

Hello Sultry

Like i already said,it interests me the way folk behave on line,i am gonna guess because i do not know,but maybe its the same ways that they behave off line.This guys got an ego,we have all got one,we want people to respect us,maybe look up to us,flatter us sometimes,congratulate us sometimes.

Yes, this guy is trying to give the impression that somehow he has all the answers,he is such a good guy he is gonna share it with everyone not to stroke his own ego,but because he is the caring thoughtfully type who only thinks of his fellow man,he posts his handbook on how to get the best from the site and sits back and waits for the masses to congratulate him,dreaming of the day he is top responder the advice line guru,but wait whats this 2 people have responded and not written the words he wants to see,he reads them and re reads them, finding hidden meanings and clues,signs that they are both mocking me,laughing at me ,how dare they, and so it begins, midweek entertainment at its finest.

BTW i have completed the new Tomb Raider game,on the web it says you can complete it in 8 hours it took me 164 hours to finish it,its a nice game to play and i did not need to cheat by getting extra weapons or health like i had to in all the other past tomb raiders.

Have a good weekend.


lynnbluff 41F

7/21/2006 4:28 pm

Damn! I apparently missed something in the advice line...must go try to find what I missed...


lynnbluff 41F

7/21/2006 4:53 pm

muffin -

Thanks, for visiting my blog and leaving that comment, otherwise I wouldn't have visited yours and found out about all this 'drama'.


Lynn


rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
7/22/2006 8:29 am

No problem Lynn,often you can find a bit of drama to make a worthwhile contribution to lol.


rm_SultryVirgo 48F
567 posts
7/22/2006 8:59 am

LOL muffin I haven't had a chance yet to get the new tomb raider lol. I still giggle about your reference to the similarities tho.

As for that guy, well I agree he most likely is that way in life, I know that what I say here is nothing less then what I say in life. I am the same person for good or bad because I'm honest. Which is about they only good thing I can say about him, he's holding true to form. He's a narcissist plain and simple with visions of grander of being the god of the ad lines. His posting history for one week shows how true that is.

I think it's funny really, that someone places such value on it, the ad lines. Even when I had time and was using the place as entertainment I never posted more then 50 responses in a week, he's on every single question, check his stats that says all you need to know.

Sultry


rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
7/22/2006 11:26 am

Sultry

I did not need to check it out,it is written down in the post named. Confused for all to see.

2489 votes
217 responses all in one week

He reckons he does not sleep much,looks to me he hasn't got time to sleep,plus he reckons he has over 10 e mails a day to reply to,its virtually a full time job.


rm_SultryVirgo 48F
567 posts
7/22/2006 8:31 pm

Ya well muffin it looked liked I missed some shit today, haven't been near a computer. But I notice that there are two threads missing, which I find funny in the extreme. Sorry to anyone I may offend, but to have threads pulled because you don't come off looking so good, is the reaction of a child.

Oh well I'm sure someone will fill me in on it.

Sultry


rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
7/23/2006 4:44 am

Yeah Sultry, i noticed that late last night,the original thread appeared out of nowhere,with her whining thread right underneath it, people were making lots of posts telling her to get real,she must have pulled both of them,like you say its childish,i do not think anyone offended her, some just offered her a different viewpoint which she could not accept,then after more and more posts where being made telling her to stop focusing on one negative post. Solar dug something up from the archives,that ran along the lines,that she had indeed asked the question before under a different nickname,which if you remember was the start of all the fun.Also the women who is above you in this post has been pulling her threads she made a post asking how come you can change your handle and keep all your points,profile etc.You can check out how that one ended up in the funny lines.


SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
7/23/2006 7:33 am

That guy is a frickin’ puffed up bozo who flatters himself so. A regular loud mouth. These ding-a-lings get on the Advice Line and act as though they invented it. I think that Most Respected Respondent thing went to his fat head. Naturally, I call it the “I’m Talking and I Can’t Shut Up” list for the majority (not all) of the people on there. He’s a loose cannon and a homophobe to boot. You wouldn’t believe the email he sent me once when I disagreed on his theory that people choose to become homosexuals as the result of a bad heterosexual relationship. I couldn’t be bothered to reply.

Here’s my deal---[SIZE 3]anyone who has to use a font this big and this bold is obnoxious as hell in my book. Keep calling them like you see ‘em, you stalker, you!


SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
7/23/2006 7:41 am

See? I even managed to screw THAT up!

One more thing---how about that dame freaking out about one dissenting reply out of 82 responses? Sheesz! I also love people try and drop their G.P.A.'s! Big frickin' deal! A G.P.A. doesn't mean all that much in my book and mine is 3 points away from her's.

Talk about Bitchzilla!


rm_SultryVirgo 48F
567 posts
7/23/2006 8:16 am

Ya I saw the last of it muffin. Like I said my opinion on it is if you can't own what you say on here, don't say it. I've have posted things in the past that I haven't been overly comfortable still having on my profile, but the fact of the matter is this. I stand behind it, and wouldn't have any of it deleted period.

If the thread from lynn went down that road then people should just figure out how to handle it. To have a thread pulled because there are some heated posts, well that tells me that they now can say what they like, then have it pulled so it won't be on their history, not much character there as far as I'm concerned. We all make mistakes at times's and say things that either we shouldn't or wouldn't without some trigger. But still stand up and have it there, it showes your human. Now it's just turned into "if I don't look good then I'll just have it pulled" game, which is bullshit, but that's how some people are. They can criticize other's for the "drama" but can't deal with it on their profiles when it's them who is being called to task on it.

It may have been done in the one case because of a sense of "I got him into this mess" however he was doing just fine on his own, otherwise you wouldn't have had anyone say anything to him. If he was such a nice guy that didn't deserve it, then it wouldn't have happened in the first place. His archived history speaks to his attitude towards people, he thinks they are all idiots and I guess a few got fed up with it.

As for the other one, she will be back with another handle, from I can see this is her third with that same picture. She is simply a child unable to handle anyone in disagreement with her, if not then the threads would still be there.

Again sorry to anyone I may offend but that's my opinion on it, stand up and own what you way, otherwise your just playing a game and only you get hurt in the end.

Sultry


rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
7/23/2006 4:37 pm

I agree with you Sensuous,i also think that he is a loud mouth and somehow he believes that he is the guru of the advice lines,the man with all the answers,a regular good guy,mr wonderful,one of those guys that is in touch with his fe-mine side,a rock of a man,an all round good guy,shit his handle change should be to something like.Mr i am a brilliant guy.

Unfortunately, i do not see him that way,anyone who disagrees with him,he stamps on them,he cant take it,he will change the story around to make out that somehow he is a victim.

What i do know is that one day it will all come crashing down on him.

BTW.Is it ok if i start stalking you?


rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
7/23/2006 5:21 pm

I totally agree Sultry,if you start a thread you have no control over it,if people start to go off on some other subject, them so be it,she asked a question and people responded,then bozo posts and reckons once again people are having a go at him,this was a trigger for people to flame bozo,when i looked later the post had been pulled.Lyn has pulled her post.I agree it shows a lack of character she has also deleted blog posts and comments in her attempt to only look how she thinks others should see her.Also i feel the same way as you,what ever i write i will stand by,if at at a later date i feel i was wrong i have no problem in saying so,and admitting that,yes i got it wrong. I do not have all the answers and i am happy to admit it.

Bitchzilla,lol will be back no doubt about it.


TechSteve 49M

7/23/2006 7:55 pm

    Quoting __iminatedaginst:
    Which is what I've been tryyyyyying to tell you. No one loves you here. When people aren't nice to me, I have have know problem with letting them all have it. Especially when 99% of the nasty comments I have received are merely a result of ageeing with the previous comment. I started out with good intentions, but screw em!
She is friends with this thing.

That is enough for me.

Lynnbluffy, next time you are being flamed in the advice lines, maybe we should become friends with your flamer.

Steve


SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
7/24/2006 12:15 am

Stalk away, Muffin!


rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
7/24/2006 11:54 am

Hey Techsteve,hardly any of this post is about Lynnbluff,but somehow she belives it is,and has made a blog post thinking that we are all having a bitchfest about her and she is called Bitchzilla,check it out.


TechSteve 49M

7/24/2006 4:03 pm

    Quoting rm_muffin162:
    Hey Techsteve,hardly any of this post is about Lynnbluff,but somehow she belives it is,and has made a blog post thinking that we are all having a bitchfest about her and she is called Bitchzilla,check it out.
If we are not only talking about lynnbluffs, who are we talking about ?

Are we talking about a juicy person ?

I agree with you guys. I cannot take people seriously who delete things.

I put my input in that question and that offended me that it was deleted by the person who asked the question.

If the person really felt bad, they should have issued a public apology in the same post.

Steve


rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
7/24/2006 6:31 pm

Techsteve.

I cannot remember the womens handle,but yes it is not Lynnbluff.

She has red hair and has made at least 3 profiles,so i am led to belive? She asked a question regarding sizes of breasts and got over 80 positive replys,one guy gave her a mild tounge in cheek respone,so she made another post haveing a go at him,when folk pointed out to her that she was in the wrong,she deleted both posts and probobly her profile? no doubt she will be back with another profile and if someone says something she does not like the post will be deleted.

Some folk just cant take it,and think that they have to only have a blog or advice line history that shows them in a ,i am not sure what light,possibly one that says nothing about them?


SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
7/24/2006 10:48 pm

Hmmm....I've never had a bone to pick with lynnbluff---I only know her from the advice line, but do not host any ill will toward her. I know MY reference to bitchzilla was about the red-haired 50 year-old dame who lives in Minnesota----Mistress something, I believe.

You mean that SHE was able to delete her questions and threads from the Advice Line, too? Gees!


rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
7/25/2006 4:08 am

Sensuous

Lynnbluff posted a question asking, how come you can change your handle and keep your points.It started off ok,then folk turned it into a slanging match,none of the flameing was directed at Lynnbluff,but after some behind the scences e mail exchanges she pulled the thread,then she visited my blog and went away to post in her own that everyone was having a bitchfest at her and calling her bitchzilla,which she has since deleted ,no one has any problem with her she just got the facts wrong.


SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
7/25/2006 8:27 am

I saw her post and commented that I was wondering the same thing. I heard it got crazy and thickdick (head) or whatever his new and improved name is freaked out all over the place.

I think he is a loose cannon and anyone who insists upon consistently writing in a huge font is just as annoying as someone who "shouts" all in capital letters!

Sorry, Muffin. I lost me bloomin' head for a moment!


rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
7/25/2006 10:52 am

Sensuous

Check out his post in the rants section,someone has given him something to think about. That is if he has not seen it and gone and pulled his post.

We all lose are heads sometimes,do not worry about it lol.


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