painful things  

rm_mtnravyn 60M
501 posts
1/25/2006 6:01 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

painful things


PAINFUL THINGS

1. falling in love for the first time

2. bringing back the feeling you've learned to forget

3. having the right love at the wrong time

4. finding a way to mend a broken heart

5. learning that you've been used by someone you truly love

6. saying "i love you" when you mean it and when you don't

7. letting go of a person you've just learned to love

8. realizing that you love somebody you've just taken for granted

9. realizing that you love the person you've just broken up with

10. waiting for promises you know she or he'll never keep

11. saving your love for someone who loves somebody else

12. not being appreciated when you know you've given your best

13. unshielding your heart to love somebody

14. trying to hide what you really feel

15. making a commitment w/ someone that you know won’t last

16. trying to hide tears that are falling from your eyes

17. taking the risk to fall in love again

18. loving a person too much

19. giving up someone you never thought of giving up

20. exerting effort to make a fading relationship last

21. choosing between two persons whom you really love

22. finding out that you can never have the person you just let go of

23. seeing the person you love with someone else

24. learning that the person who claimed to have loved you so much never really cared

25. falling for your best friend and knowing that things can never be the same again

26. learning to trust after you have been betrayed

27. accepting that it was not meant to be

28. smiling when all you want to do is cry

29. not being able to love the person who truly cares for you

30. saying that you can never love a person the way he/she loves you

31. hearing that they can never love you the way that you love them

32. saying that you are over someone you still love

33. being friends again and learning to let go of each other coz you both know it is better that way

34. convincing oneself that you are not in love when you know that you are

35. trying not to remember how perfect everything used to be

sweetalyssum 47F

1/26/2006 6:12 pm



How does one comment on things that are so painful to read, because somewhere...deep down...they are so very true.


tillerbabe 55F

1/26/2006 11:10 pm

BEAUTIFUL THINGS

1. falling in love for the first time

2. bringing back the feeling you've learned to forget

3. having the right love at the wrong time and learning from it.

4. finding a way to mend a broken heart.

5. learning that you've been used by someone you truly love and having no regrets

6. saying "i love you" when you mean it only.

7. letting go of a person you've just learned to love, so they can grow

8. realizing that you love somebody you've just taken for granted and moving back to them.

9. realizing that you love the person you've just broken up with and rekindling the fire.

10. waiting for promises you know she or he'll never keep so youstop waiting and are thankful for what was.

11. saving your love for someone who loves somebody else and then deciding to e a good friend.

12. not being appreciated when you know you've given your best, but learning to appreciate yourself for your efforts

13. unshielding your heart to love somebody.

14. not hiding what you really feel

15. making a commitment only when you have your heart into it to last.

16. trying to hide tears that are falling from your eyes, then being held by someone that sees them.

17. taking the risk to fall in love again.

18. loving a person too much ....it's never too much...

19. giving up someone you never thought of giving up..so you both can grow

20. exerting effort to make a fading relationship last, so that you can walk away knowing you gave it your best.

21. choosing between two persons whom you really love and appreciating that you have the choice.

22. finding out that you can never have the person you just let go of, but it was so sweet while it was here.

23. seeing the person you love with someone else and they are happy, so you are happy.

24. learning that the person who claimed to have loved you so much never really cared, and learning about the choices you amde to get there.

25. falling for your best friend and knowing that things can never be the same again; why would you want them to be?

26. learning to trust after you have been betrayed.

27. accepting that it was not meant to be.

28. smiling when all you want to do is cry..then crying so you can smile again.

29. not being able to love the person who truly cares for you, but being their friend and feeling honored that they love you.

30. saying that you can never love a person the way he/she loves you, and the honesty is so beautiful.

31. hearing that they can never love you the way that you love them but knowing that the love you feel is a gift.

32. saying that you aren't over someone you still love.

33. being friends again and learning to let go of each other coz you both know it is better that way and so much more enduring.

34. convincing oneself that you are not in love when you know that you are - why?

35. trying not to remember how perfect everything used to be - great memories {=}


rm_mtnravyn 60M
890 posts
1/27/2006 9:25 am

Thanks til and sweet I believe without having the experience of the pain we cannot fully appreciate the beauty. And I do have some of thsoe you list tils.


mm0206 68F
7767 posts
2/14/2006 1:24 am

I need to keep this list.......tiller's also.

they are painful and beautiful

Thanks mtnravyn


HeparFewerRayed 54M
99 posts
2/19/2006 6:25 pm

You fucking bastard! (Said not with offense, but with recognition and admiration.)

Great list! (And tiller's too.) But you, you reminded me that I used to live in constant pain. Not physical, emotional. And did you know that emotional pain causes the same physiological stress on the body as physical pain? You also reminded me that I have a poem I started many years ago. I think I'll have to see if I can finally finish it.

Thank you.


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