Wake me if I'm dreaming  

rm_mrbigd6 52M
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12/12/2005 6:13 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Wake me if I'm dreaming

People expect a psychologist to actually analyze them as they are in conversation. Or should I say, some women are suspect that they are being analyzed when they are talking to me. I guess I don't blame them. I wonder if they think that if they meet a dentist on the street, in the store, at church, the dentist is examining their teeth as they talk, also. I doubt if a avg dentist has the energy. Same with me. I try to listen intently, but I'm not analyzing my friends.

What I wonder about is what I actually SEE. For example, if I go to a woman's apt and it is unclean, unkempt, or generally smelly, I wonder what her inner life is like. In other words, what does the external say about the internal. Does disorganization outside mean disorganization in the mind and body and spirit? So far, I don't have any simple answers to this question, but sometimes it does seem to follow.

I believe an organized life is a good thing. It is necessary? That depends on many things. For example, how much does one have going on at one time. If you only work and go home to watch TV, perhaps, you can stand for less organization than if you belong to several groups or have several jobs and kids to attend to on a daily basis. It would be nice to meet someone on this site that wants good sex and has an organized situation at home. That could be a lethal combination leading to combustion in more ways than one for me! That would be like discovering TNT in a bottle and being able to take it home and use over and over again.

Maybe I am dreaming. If I am, can someone wake me up in a hurry. Then, point me in the right direction. Peace.

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