On being daddy II  

rm_mn00333 62M
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11/26/2005 4:20 pm

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On being daddy II


I get asked this so many times... Well, ok, not asked overtly but in so many words the question is; so you're a daddy, what do I have to be to be with you?

Silly, silly girls... It has nothing to do with you you, it's what I am. A daddy, a true daddy can love, appreciate and cherish any kind of girl. because I believe every girl has a little girl deep down inside. As for my druthers, I'd love to see her be true to that little girl as often as possible. To let her free whenever possible. Butt as long as that little girl exists knowingly, that's enough for any daddy.

Care to know why?

I believe the little girl inside you is the purest form of you. Little girls can be loving, bratty, spoiled, angry, happy, sexy, innocent (and many other things) all at the same time without conflict all the conflict over those seemingly opposite emotions that adults feel. They are true to their feelings, ask for what they want and know (this is soooooo important that their daddys love them without end. That the can be, do anything and daddy will love them.

That is the crux of it... Unconditional love. I'm not foolish (well, sometimes I am) enough to believe this makes a relationship last forever... But I do believe the more that little girl finds her way out, the long the relationship will last. Think about it. You can resolve differences easier; after all she's your girl and what wouldn't you do for her. You can show your love and caring in so many ways... But it's hinged on dealing with that little girl (who is the adult) so you are dealing on a much deeper level without a lot of adult baggage. It's a pure relationship.

Who knows, maybe I'm wrong but I have felt this in action and believe it is true...

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
11/28/2005 7:06 pm

How I wish I had found someone like you nearer to me... *sniffle*

You're the only other person aside from a friend I met here who seems to understand that real love appreciates virtues and accepts flaws - unless said flaws are extremely serious. There are some things even I cannot or will not put up with.

Maybe my blog can explain things better than what this limited space permits, if you're interested in following up the discussion?

Background music: I get the impression George Michael's song "Father Figure" is one of your favorites

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


rm_mn00333 62M
7 posts
11/30/2005 3:01 pm

Thank you Princess... You blog explained a lot to me. I'd love to follow up on the discussion.


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
12/2/2005 11:48 am

So, from what I understand, a trusting, openly affectionate relationship has a better chance of working out with you. What about when the little girl in you finds out she has been lied to and made fun of by whom she trusted implicitly? Is lashing out against those who hurt her an uderstandable rection or not?

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


rm_mn00333 62M
7 posts
12/3/2005 2:17 pm

Made fun of? By someone you trusted at this level? Lashing out is way to good for them... And it's way to little satisfaction for you. Come rest a moment, cry on my chest then walk away. As much as we'd like to get even, we never will be, not with them.

Understandable? Certainly. Good for you? Not. It just lets them steal even more.

Be good.


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
12/4/2005 4:59 pm

*chin wobbles*

It's true... you can never truly get even, not at this distance, but... it certainly felt good.

*tries to hold back the tears*

I wish I did have someone to cry with... I'm so tired of crying alone in the dark...

*curls up in a little ball and hides her tears*

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


rm_mn00333 62M
7 posts
12/5/2005 3:45 pm

I'm sorry princess,

I wish there was something I could say or do to alleviate your pain. Maybe there is; this will pass, you'll be stronger because of it and sometime you find someone who will recoganize the gift that you are...

Be strong babygirl..


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
12/5/2005 4:32 pm

*hides her face in his shirt and cries*

Thank you....

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


rm_mn00333 62M
7 posts
12/8/2005 9:02 pm

*holds her close, strokes her hair and lets her cry*


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