Lessons for Women  

WardsSiegeValse 40M
13 posts
8/11/2005 11:19 pm

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Lessons for Women

I found this on the page of a freind of a freind... giggles... however thought it was just outstanding.
Enjoy and take to heart.

* If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you,nothing can make him stay.

* Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

*Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

*Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

*Slower is better.

* Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

* If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend would not mistreat a friend.

* Don't settle.

* If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "you think it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

* The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

* Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

* Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

* Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

* You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

* Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.

* Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

* Never let a man define who you are.

* Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

* A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

* All men are NOT dogs.

* You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two waystreet.

* You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship you should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

* Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

* Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

*Never move into his mother's house.

*Never co-sign for a man. (Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)

* Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others also.

redmustang91 57M  
8604 posts
8/12/2005 12:07 am

People need to look out for number one, and that means having boundaries and limits to what they give and will take. some women forget this and become a sucker. Not good for anyone. Give your heart but not your soul.

readytolay3 56F

8/12/2005 4:22 am

And that saids it ALL!!!

rm_savsum4mepls 44F
2 posts
8/12/2005 6:45 am

words to live by--I can honestly say that I have felt a good many of those pearls of wisdom come to be true!!!!damn it man--what do ya do now?

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