First Time  

rm_miss_del 59T
2 posts
6/28/2006 2:58 pm
First Time

This is my first time reading/writing a blog. I want to correspond with members that can help me understand/cope with my situation.

Miss Kitty's is a LA Goth/Fetish club. I recently visited made up as a Goth Vixen??. It took some doing to coax myself into actually going out in public, but once I did, I really enjoyed myself. At Kitty's, nobody even gave me a second look which was a real confort. It gave me enough confidence that on the way home I went to a drive-thru burger place. Must have been a shocker for the girl at the window .

As I try to gain more confidence in my new identity, I want to meet an understanding woman to help me grow as a woman and to have a sexual relationship with. I am soooo jealous of friends that have accepting/tolerating spouses. What do I have to do to meet a woman like that. I want to meet someone that is understanding and accepting of me/her. I don't know, but somehow, I think that a lot of woman see the alternate personae as the competition. Does anyone else have a better explaination as to why most women can't deal with crossdressing?

rm_Honeyluce 45F
15 posts
6/28/2006 3:27 pm

hello miss del, as always, the key with other people acceptin u, is u being confident in who u are and acceptin ur self. There is nothing wrong/bad/unaceptable in who u are..
Go out there and show the world that u are happy and comfortable with who urself

An if u get a negitive reaction, who r they to u??? no one.. its there loss an small mindedness ..

good luck

rm_girl_or_boy 41M
61 posts
6/30/2006 11:25 am

hi ya, first step is acepting who you are second is going out. You seem to have done both. U are both strong and brave.

go girl

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