Why am I here?  

rm_mickii4fun 50F
10 posts
9/23/2005 8:19 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why am I here?

I came to this site in search of something I've fantasized for what seems like all of my life. I want to have sex with another woman.

I want to kiss and lick and nibble and be kissed and licked and nibbled in return. I imagine the FF experience to be soft, sweet and sexy and last a long, long time. I love sex with men, but I imagine a woman will fill a void in my sex life.

So why start looking now, since the fantasies have been ongoing for all of my sexually mature life?

It's a combination of things.

My age for one. I have reached a point in my life where I don't want to look back with any regrets. It also seems like the older I get, the less concerned I am with living up to anyone else's expectations.

I have also come to a point where I want to get more out of sex than a one on one experience with a man can give me. It's not that I'm exactly bored with sex, I just know there's more out there for me.

The final, and the one that finally put me over the edge, is my current boyfriend. He's wonderful. However, he isn't physically present right now. I want to remain faithful to him, but I can't imagine going without sex for the 6 months we will be apart. He doesn't feel like I am cheating on him if I have sex with another woman.

So there you go, the reason why I am here.

I'll try to keep posting on how it all goes.

rm_mickii4fun 50F

9/24/2005 7:10 am

Thanks WW.

In defense of MrB, at first I took it as a put down, but then I spent last night asking myself the same question. Here's what I came up with:

1) I am new to this area, so have no idea where the female gay bars are. I don't even know where the straight bars are!

2) If I did know where they were, I still more than likely wouldn't go. I have never liked cruising bars for a hook up.

3) So far I am having pretty good luck on this site. I have met some great women. I believe it's just a matter of time.

4) I am enjoying the hell outta this site, so why waste my time posing at a meat market when I can be here checking out all the hot people and hot photos?

WW, did you read MrB's blog? I read some of it, and it definitely seems like the man has some issues with women and sexuality. I thought the views he holds were dying off with men in my father's generation. I hate it that I was wrong.

purejoy4fem 46F/44F
682 posts
9/24/2005 5:36 pm

The gay bars are not where you want to be. We once took a lesbian cruise, and though better than the bars, it still left alot to be desired. We decided we like it here, a chance to get to know someone before you actually meet them.

Good Luck

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