Playtime issues  

rm_mesquitemom 43
108 posts
3/16/2006 12:53 am

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3/31/2006 7:17 pm

Playtime issues


Ok, I've run across a couple situations where I wonder if I am the only one realizing this.

First of all, I hear a lot of guys say, "If I write to you, the least you can do is respond even if to say not interested." So far, quick responses has been great. But I've ran across a few who have that statement posted in thier profile, yet when I send a response showing disinterest I have to deal with foul, rude responses in return. So, if "you" feel the way your nasty remarks say, why did you respond in the first place? Or is it simply because "you're" pissed because I don't want to fuck you?

Now, when it comes to playing around and fun time I hate that I still run across the old double standard. You know ladies - a guy fucks many women he's "cool" and "a player". BUT if us women do, we're "sluts" and "hoes". Shit, I love sex as much if not more than most. I think if we're adults, open, honest and safe - what difference does it make if you're a man or a woman.

Should I just cave and say, "Fine! I'm a hoe."???

penguinluvr 58M
1083 posts
3/16/2006 9:21 am

You are not a hoe, a hoe is a garden tool. Neither are you a "ho" or whore, you are a woman who wants and enjoys sex, and sometimes requires multiple partners to find it. I do not believe in the double standard, if I like it I can't put someone else down for wanting the same thing, unless of course they have told me how awful and vile I am for wanting it. Then they are hypocrites and I can say anything I want about the subject.

And you live in easy bike distance for me, so say something. Even just to tell me I'm too old (I'm not, age is just a number unless it's under 1.


penguinluvr 58M
1083 posts
3/16/2006 9:22 am

That last one was not supposed to be a smiley it was supposed to be the number 18 and a close paren.


rm_mesquitemom 43
23 posts
3/16/2006 10:43 pm

LOL - and thank you penguin. I didn't realize I used the wrong spelling until you said something, lol. Oh well ... just goes to show I'm not a Ho. I wish all men saw it the way you do.
No, you're not too old for me, but I did read your profile ... from what I saw I am not something you're looking for. If that changes, let me know ....


penguinluvr 58M
1083 posts
3/17/2006 9:16 am

Ah well then , there's the rub. Standards, can't live without them but for some of us they can be very frustrating. If you really want to know me click on over to my blog penguinluvr and see what a madman I am. I love women, singly and in groups, as often as they let me. Unfortunately that isn't very often, and I find sex without true desire to be merely masturbating with a vagina. I will not fulfill anyone's desire for a fantasy, it just isn't in me, also not much into BDSM or Master/Slave types of relationships.


nightnsa 48M  
415 posts
3/17/2006 5:34 pm

does not make a difference...if you are a ho then i guess i am a male ho...what ever that means...


penguinluvr 58M
1083 posts
3/18/2006 7:47 am

Just to know, since your profile is shut down for now, what are you looking for, and where do I miss your specifications? The only reason I made specifications was I don't want just any female, and the site requires some specificity, I can't just say I want women between the ages of 18 and 99 who want lots of sex ( well, I suppose I could ). What I really want is women that want me, want to have fun, want to be appreciated for who and what they are, and who want to have lots of sex. I admit to sounding monomaniacal about the bicycle, but when you're trying to save the world a little mania is a good thing, right? Anywho, if you could tell me where I fall short, or exceed maximum parameters, that would be nice.


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