Why Fucking Bother????  

rm_melisiousxo 49F
123 posts
8/23/2006 4:43 pm

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6/20/2007 7:02 am

Why Fucking Bother????

I've been married for 14 long ass years. I have resigned myself to the fact that I will never have a decent sex life with my husband. Nevertheless..I try ..sometimes to spice things up. To perhaps get a rise..pardon the pun..out of him. Well Monday was our 14th wedding anniversary. He asked me if I wanted to go out. ( I always want to go out ) but I said no lets stay in..have a nice quiet dinner at home. He made a fabulous dinner, I bought some fablous wine..we ate and drank..and for the most part had a really nice time. After dinner I had a little surprise planned. I had stopped at the mall and bought some lingerie for the hell of it. It was more for me I guess, I was feeling sexy and wanted to strut my stuff a bit. So I jumped in the shower..got all nice and smooth..smelling all girly..and put the first of two little numbers I had purchased on. Well when I walked out into the living room..the look on his face was pretty much worth the price of admission. It was a sexy black bustier and garters..stillettos included.. I could tell he was shocked. Amazing how you can still elicit that kind of response after being married for so long I knew he would like it, but I knew he would like the more demure one better. So after I did a little strip tease..I put the other one on..It was a white mesh see thru thingy with cotton panties. Very virginal..HA HA HA..And yes I was correct..he liked it better. I guess 14 years does account for something. So I completed my second act for the evening..Hoping to get a little action. Well you want to know what I got..a big fat NAD-SKI!! not a godamn thing. He said it was a great show, but he was tired from all the wine I had been forcing down his throat.. (HEY..I was hoping it would help)

WTF?????

I give up. No fucking wonder I'm looking for other men to fulfill me sexually. Its his own godamn fault if you ask me.

Anywhooo..I just needed to get that off my chest
Mel


luv2tri3 49M/48F
14 posts
8/26/2006 6:21 am

Hey girl, if you ever want to strutt your stuff and get all girly again, Just let us know.


liketoeatu1967 49M
46 posts
8/26/2006 6:06 pm

Can I strip for you?


rm_ohsolustful 58M
859 posts
8/28/2006 9:33 am

Sorry to hear about your situation. I am sure you put on one hell of a fine show. What a waste, most Guys are dieing for something like that. I would rather have the black outfit with the heels as my personal choice, but would settle for a burlap bag and sneaks if I could get her in the mood..DAMN SHAME, what a waste....Best of luck to you.........................


TallandLanky56 60M

8/28/2006 2:09 pm

That just plain sucks sweetie. I'd love to offer you an option next time you need to finish what you started.


rm_dvndunlop 41M

9/20/2006 5:12 pm

Dude... Not is your husband gay?

Long time no talk, drop me a line let's talk.


rm_billyvegas2 50M
2 posts
9/27/2006 3:31 pm

Well i gotta tell you, I was married for nineteen years ands no matter if she wanted to or not, I always just flat out "FUCKED THE SHIT OUT OF HER" and made her remember why I married her. GET yours however you need to get yours and if you are ever in VEGAS my dear..... LOOK ME UP. I would love to fuck you for hours and make sure that you go home all girly and slutty, and fucking horny to come back for more and more and more and more.....


slowmotion130 53M

9/30/2006 9:29 am

LMAO Mel don't get mad at me your story was funny to read. I guess if you really need >>! it wasn't to you. Ok wheeew ok Here's what you do do the act again this time before you feed him food and while he drinks the wine. but only use one (1) outfit not the one he likes, that is what you are going to be talking to him about during the lap dance. You will be telling what the next one will look like how it feels, thats is what you thing he want it to feel like, what it makes you feel like when he looks at you the way he is now. Ask him what he wants you to do to him, Then tell him what you want him to do to you. BET he wont be too tired then!!!

Let us know how it works out.


redmustang91 57M  
8664 posts
10/6/2006 3:39 pm

You know there are many volunteers hoping to take the dumb bunny's place!


xoLetsplaytodayx 55M

10/10/2006 11:35 am

That's just wrong, wrong. Even if you only do it once a year you have to do it on your anniversary. If you had walked out in that black number and stillettos you never would have gotten a chance to put the other outfit on.


rm_melisiousxo 49F
182 posts
10/10/2006 2:59 pm

    Quoting xoLetsplaytodayx:
    That's just wrong, wrong. Even if you only do it once a year you have to do it on your anniversary. If you had walked out in that black number and stillettos you never would have gotten a chance to put the other outfit on.
NOW THATS WHAT I WANNA HEAR!!


rm_melisiousxo 49F
182 posts
10/10/2006 3:00 pm

    Quoting rm_billyvegas2:
    Well i gotta tell you, I was married for nineteen years ands no matter if she wanted to or not, I always just flat out "FUCKED THE SHIT OUT OF HER" and made her remember why I married her. GET yours however you need to get yours and if you are ever in VEGAS my dear..... LOOK ME UP. I would love to fuck you for hours and make sure that you go home all girly and slutty, and fucking horny to come back for more and more and more and more.....
VEGAS HERE I COME!!!..


xoLetsplaytodayx 55M

10/10/2006 4:49 pm

"NOW THATS WHAT I WANNA HEAR!!"

Yes, good Lord I'm a sucker for a woman in stillettos. I would have done several things differently:

First I would have bought the stuff for you to wear.
Second when you came out in it I would not have been sitting in the chair for very long. Instead I would have come to you and started kissing and nibbling all over your body.
Third we would have found a couch, bent you over the back of it and then I would have hammered you from behind.
Fourth then we'd go take another shower
Fifth then you could put on that white outfit if you wanted before we retired to the bedroom for some slow passionate love making.


NotPC
343 posts
10/17/2006 7:35 pm

Nobody...and I mean nobody, ever appreciates what they have until they don't have it anymore. Apparently your other half hasn't figured that out yet. Like xo said...lingerie and stilettos would get any other guy into high gear in a heartbeat. Perhaps you should figure out a way to make him realize what everyone else sees and wants in you...before someone arrives and takes it from him permanently. There are men and women everywhere who would give anything to have had that kind of heads-up beforehand but never got it.


rm_just4fun7631 41M
14 posts
11/10/2006 1:54 pm

I agree with dunlop I think hes gay. How could he say no to that.


doctatlanta 52M

11/15/2006 4:10 pm

um... um..

a "man" TOO TIRED for sex? with a hot woman in sexy lingerie?

How can...???

DAMN... I'm trying to come up with something intelligent to say...but... I cannot fathom this... I got nuthin


parkershellby45 56M

4/30/2007 5:11 am

I WISH my wife would try that on me....she would get "some" and so would you, baby you got it going on!

Take care of those you call your own, and keep good company...


DexDamian 58M  
2106 posts
5/2/2007 9:04 am

How much more lucky could one man be, to hav a woman validate his manhood, by doing something special for him. You deserve better Mel

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