This time its personal.......  

rm_melisiousxo 48F
123 posts
5/25/2006 4:26 pm

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10/19/2006 9:14 am

This time its personal.......


I guess its time to get this off my chest. What do you do, you reach the point when you've met someone, you like eachother and its time to take the next step? I shudder in horror at the thought of anyone seeing me il flagrante for lack of a better term. I am one of those people that looks pretty ok with clothes on. Its practically deceiving really. I think to myself..this poor sap thinks I just might actually look good under this dress..Is that drool on the corner of his mouth? The second thought I have.....humm could I actually have sex with all my clothes on?...probably not. I'm one of those people that talks the talk..but geezus..am I gonna be able to walk the walk?..(walk of shame in my case). I do everything I can to prepare said victim The conversation goes something like this... "I've had a child".."I could really use about 15 grand in plastic surgery".."my stomach looks like death valley after a long hot summer" And I get the ..oh cummon..I'm sure you are exaggerating..I AM NOT EXAGGERATING!!! I know you are listening..but are you hearing me hon?
To be honest, I'm a pretty confident person. (With my clothes on of course)... I have a good personality, wicked sense of humor..cute, fun..blah blah blah....But I feel like I'm a faker when it comes to actually doin the deed. Not to say that I'm not a porn star in my own mind.... I don't know..I'm seriously flummoxed. ..I Want it bad enough that I'm willing to let someone other than that man I live with see me naked.. But I don't think I get the point across unless I just strip..and say see..LOOK ..this is what I'm talking about..

And all the while wondering how the fuck I'm going to loose 20 pounds by Friday..LOL

I guess it all boils down to normal insecurities..

Nothing 5 or 6 grey goose and sodas can't help.. RIGHT?
Adios

rm_atta_girl 45F
219 posts
5/25/2006 5:28 pm

sexy men like sexy woman with ahtever imperfectiosn they've got. i used to have handups and i'm over it now. mostly anywayz, lots less worried. . .


liketoeatu1967 48M
46 posts
5/26/2006 4:02 am

I am sure you are absolutely beautiful, If that guy cant see that, then he isnt worth giving yourself too. I, on the other would kill to see you naked and have my way with you, lol.


rm_melisiousxo 48F
182 posts
5/26/2006 3:04 pm

    Quoting liketoeatu1967:
    I am sure you are absolutely beautiful, If that guy cant see that, then he isnt worth giving yourself too. I, on the other would kill to see you naked and have my way with you, lol.
Aw shuks..(totally blushing) thanks likto..such a sweetheart. Big ole kiss to you love.

mel


rm_melisiousxo 48F
182 posts
5/26/2006 3:06 pm

    Quoting rm_atta_girl:
    sexy men like sexy woman with ahtever imperfectiosn they've got. i used to have handups and i'm over it now. mostly anywayz, lots less worried. . .
I appreciate the comments, I've already just said fuck it..Lifes too short Right..
mel


lovetotouch93 58M
1 post
5/26/2006 7:04 pm

We all have imperfections to one degree or another,if you really like the guy, and he likes you, then there must be a little chemistry there, so go for it. I am sure once you 2 start making love, and the passion heats up along with all the teasing, touching and tasting, you guys will feel incredible in each others hands....most men just love the way a woman feels in their hands, so I am sure you guys will have an amazing time together.Enjoy


rm_xxxtheline 53M

5/28/2006 10:55 pm

First, I would guess you're a lot harder on yourself than men are.
Second, you can have sex with your clothes on. Corsets, Garter belts, teddy's, etc...
p.s. don't forget the heels...somehow high heels change a woman's entire figure.


BransFizzyHello 51M
1 post
5/29/2006 7:17 am

I am sure the other person has his own insecurities. Just go for it. If he minds he is certainly not worth anything... Don't forget he might be the one who should be insecure. I am perfectly sure he heard you and does not mind.
j.


pcbober 57M

8/1/2006 12:10 pm

I sure hope you'll let me be the judge of that. I bet everything will go just fine.


redmustang91 57M  
8559 posts
10/6/2006 3:48 pm

Most guys are not concerned about a little extra weight or flabby wrinkles so long as you are fun and energetic when enjoying sex. So do not sweat the small stuff. Perhaps dimming the lights will make you feel less inhibited and upset over trivial body issues. You could also blindfold your lover, but that can decrease some of the fun...


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