Lies from your significant other....  

rm_max_is_back 43M
15 posts
7/22/2006 8:00 am

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9/9/2006 3:25 pm

Lies from your significant other....

OK - I've pretty much had it with BS lies. Hey - com'on - everybody tells lies, has secrets. I'll admit - I am one.

BUT---

Why does? your significant other have to constantly and repeatedly LIE?!?!

I was the first to lie in the relationship I was in. I should have never did what I did. OK - my very bad. But can't I receive some kind of forgiveness? NOOOOO..... I was used and abused for the next 7 months. I was lied to my face. She returned to being the sorry person she was before I met her - total POS. Why didn't I get out? I truly loved the woman.

But now - it is over, it has been over, forever will be over. The gloves are off and the game is on.

I did deserve to be punished. But I didn't deserve to be treated the way I was. Dog shit got better treatment than me. I'm not saying that I am a totally innocent person - I have my faults.

Ok - I was a fool for staying in for so long. I guess anyone would do just about anything for the person they love - right? Or am I wrong?

So here i am. I am taking a break from the dating scene. Right now - I am just wanting some fun and meet a few new friends. And I have. The women who I gotten to meet are really nice and friendly. One even said after our 2 hour first time meeting lunch said it was the best non-sexual, most adult conversation she has had! From the women I have met - I know where they stand and wont BS me. If something develops from this - hey, great - I'm all for it.

So be nice - be real - be open - be honest. Maybe we can weed out the POS that lurk around here. Most of all - be courteous to everyone.


steamyandsexybi 43F
2784 posts
7/23/2006 2:31 pm

Oh yes...
I've been there with my ex before. and basically "dealt with it" for 4 years straight because I loved him. As stupid as that sounds, its true. But a person can only take so much!
This all sounds too familiar....the continuous lies, staying out and being M.I.A. all night long, his partying,etc...the list is endless. (Ugh!) Whats even dumber is I stayed faithful to him, even though I knew he didnt deserve it!

Ahhh well, life still goes on!....

Happy Bloggin'!


tight_n_tasty2 50F

8/2/2006 8:50 am

I'm on the other side of, this most people tell me I'm to forward and honest..( when you speak the truth all the time people say your heartless and mean *oh well sorry I have no times for games and I tell men that I'm not looking to MEET up!! I do *cyber them* chat on the phone and we had fun together with No expectations.They know I'm married and I won't leave him even tho we have problems..I think when your in love you always make poor decisions because of our emotions getting the best of us.. even a bad relationship can be good because it teaches you what to look out for the next time around,Most great lovers start out as friends so I think your on the right path.I tell men the truth and they don't want to hear it..they want me to mess up my life for thier own benfit and games(maybe for a peice of ass I'm not sure)..I have two cyber lovers and they both want me to tell them both I'm with only them!!! I told them both All I want is stimulating conversation NOT a relationship but some people can't handle the truth that's why they have to lie and live in la la land


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