Cat's outa' the bag!  

maverick1255 51M
2992 posts
6/20/2006 7:32 pm
Cat's outa' the bag!

Ok, I finally let one of my close friends take a look at my blog on this site.

Well, did not go like I expected. He was not impressed with what I had been up to. Nor, did he understand why I would even consider doing this blog on this site. Or would even be a member on this site. He was taken aback.

I think he will re-evaluate our friendship, over me showing him this site. We will have to see.

Anyones friends have a similar reaction to showing someone your blog or this site? What happened?

Mav, seeking advice

JuicyBBW1001 54F

6/20/2006 8:18 pm

I showed one of my friend's my blog and he was wanting to know how to join so he could blog too. But seriously some people it seems are just uptight about things that should only happen behind closed doors with the lights out.


maverick1255 replies on 6/20/2006 8:51 pm:
Well, we will see. I was kinda shocked at how he took it. I really expected more from him. But it is not the norm.

JuicyBBW1001 54F

6/20/2006 8:59 pm

aww chin up Mav we still wuvs ya. I think your hilarious for one.


maverick1255 replies on 6/20/2006 9:12 pm:
Thanks. I have my ups and downs!

freetime648 52F

6/21/2006 12:51 am

Well, I am known for my brutally honest ways ya go....if this person was a true friend..they would understand why you are doing this blogging and even if they did not agree with it....they would not have to "re-evaluate" diddly!!!

Just my opinion and I am sticking to it...


xx FREETIME648 xx

maverick1255 replies on 6/21/2006 7:02 am:
I think so too!! And what are you up to today?

curious082385 31F
4925 posts
6/21/2006 2:31 am

The people who know about me being here are ok with it. Some of them don't understand my addiction to it though. But my closest friends have seen the differences in me and know that I owe a lot of that to being here.

maverick1255 replies on 6/21/2006 7:05 am:
I agree. I feel I have changed for the better just going through the process of being here and blogging. My outlook and how I approach things is different. I feel more open and honest.

papyrina 50F
21133 posts
6/21/2006 6:57 am

i have managed to get my best friend to join and she loves it,mind a bit shocked with all the dic pics but within a week dating

I'm a

i'm here to stay

maverick1255 replies on 6/21/2006 7:22 am:
Wow, that was a GREAT out come!! Yea, I think my friend is still in shock. Traumatized by the imagery!! Thanks for the comment.

Kancana 46F

6/21/2006 8:36 am

I did show to one of my close friend, she's been wondering why this lady is soooo busy nowadays. She is the one, whom I wrote about her in one of my blogs. I only showed to her once. She knows why I am here...

Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.
~ Helen Keller

maverick1255 replies on 6/21/2006 10:46 am:
It has taken a lot of my time. But I told my friend, it is just like an online game - you play a lot!!

jst4fun915 34F

6/21/2006 1:44 pm

Well, I blogged about how a few of Jersey's friends found out he was a member here, and that's how we met. They took it without any judging or criticism, which surprised me. If you are close enough to reveal a secret part of yourself to a friend, the friend should not be judgemental. I'd say he's not as good a friend as you had thought, and do you really think you want such a judgemental person in your life? JMO!!

maverick1255 replies on 6/21/2006 4:23 pm:
Yep, I have to agree. We will see!

EE407 41F
3903 posts
6/22/2006 12:12 am

Most of my friends know about the site.. what with 2 bloggersmeet and plenty of playdates, how could I not tell them.

Most don't really understand the site, but ALL of them support me. I'm happy to say I have good friends.

I'm sorry your friend doesn't understand or stand behind you on this

maverick1255 replies on 6/22/2006 8:37 am:
Wow, sounds like you have an active community!! I live in a big city - and no one has taken the lead to organize M&G or bloggers meets. Hummmmm .... maybe I will need to do something about that? Thanks for dropping in!

941 posts
6/23/2006 9:51 pm

I don`t shove my sex, my sexuality,nor my sexual preferences in anyone I knows face, nor would I ever show them my blogs nor my profile willingly. To me this is personal, yes, on a site where you can search engine profiles, read any blogs if you click the I`m 18+ hyperlink, I won`t do it, EVER

maverick1255 replies on 6/24/2006 4:41 am:
That's cool.

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