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What Makes a Swinger?
What Makes a Swinger?
I admit that am no expert in swinger protocol, but i am very surprised at how many times I come accross a statement in a woman's profile with words to the effect of, " I do not have sex with people I do not know, so don'task if you aren't willing to put in the time to get to know me.", only worded with varying degrees of hostility. I can understand that being a woman on this site must somewhere between a being a kid in a candy store and being trampled to death by a herd of marauding steer.
On the other hand, there many milder sites for those who are looking for their soul mates and other such sites with more or less a degree of raciness implied in their introductions. AdultFriendFinder, I thought, is for people who want to hook up and get something rather quickly, discreetly, and/or, anonymously. I start getting to know some women on this site and I am asked to divulge much of my personal life, as if I were being considered for matrimony. I have nothing to hide, so I am okay, but I often wonder what would happen if I tossed, "Living with Mom" into my profile?
If you are looking for a one-time-only, or even an on-going thing behind-the-scenes, does it matter if you maintain good communications with your siblings? Volunteer at the local soup kitchen? Make over $75,000 a minute? Or whether your degree is a 2, 4, 6 or no year degree? I realize that Liz Taylor and Larry Fortensky were doomed to a failed marriage because of her public and celebrated life experience and Larry's lack thereof, but the main thing that brought them together and blinded them to the futillity of their marriage attempt was the sexual communication they had with eachother. It did not require Larry to have a degree in anything, nor had he to have met some heads of state in his earlier years, but just that he maybe have slept with a coupla chix at some point near enough to present as to remain in working memory for the next time.
I ask all of you ladies out there, if a guy seems decent and clean, and something in his profile has attracted you, maybe you should think about what you would want from a lover that might just be a night or a few nights, instead of putting him through the bring home to show the parents and high school friends at the reunion test.
Just a thought...