Don't Understand  

PlotsStackElfin 59M
8 posts
12/16/2005 8:37 am

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Don't Understand

Can a lady explain something to me please.

What is it with ladies who post actual sexual in the act photos, or at least nude or topless photos who then say they don't want dick photos from the men!

They usually say things like, want to see your head on your shoulders, not the head below the waist, yet they give you their own photos and they are very explicit.

Someone got an answer to this?

zoopc42 47M

12/16/2005 9:08 am

maybe becasue women are attracted to the fantasy behind the man and not nesseccarily the dick that will be doing them. blows it I guess.

i could be wrong

SexyRycheBabe 45F
820 posts
12/16/2005 9:13 am

Yes. It's simple. Sex sells. Women use a "sex" pic to get attention. We want to see your top-of-the-body head pic so that we know you have a brain. LOL And we make you prove that by sending us emails that say more than, "lets hook up" or "call me" or "I think we could get along."

SexyRycheBabe 45F
820 posts
12/16/2005 9:18 am

And one last thing:


It doesn't matter if you're fat, bald, scarred, tattooed, look like hell, etc... USE THE MOST RECENT PHOTO YOU GOT. If you haven't had one taken in TEN years (and you don't have a camera...whatever!!!) then go buy a throw-away camera and have your pics put onto a disc by any of the operating photo labs. It's not hard. It's not that expensive. If you can pay money to do this site, you can afford a throw-away camera.

PlotsStackElfin 59M
3 posts
12/16/2005 12:06 pm

Well speak for your own experiences, because I ALWAYS try to give emails that tell more than just "lets hook up"

So I guess you can sell the sex, but we can't? LOL

SexyRycheBabe 45F
820 posts
12/16/2005 12:22 pm

Well, that's good that you give more than a "lets hook up" email but the majority of men don't. They use a variation of that line w/a few other things thrown in.

Sex doesn't sell quite as strongly to women as it does to men.

I guess you didn't read the line where I said that using other body parts as your profile pic is okay. For privacy, and all. But you still have to be prepared to deliver the goods eventually. And not just with a pic... if, ultimately, you do hook up, you have to be able to deliver then, too. That's why I said send a recent pic. It's frustrating as hell to show up for a meeting and see the aged-by-10-years version of the guy.

PlotsStackElfin 59M
3 posts
12/16/2005 1:31 pm

I can appreciate that last comment about the recent photo-guess the more i do this the more I'll see the types of things you have.

Well delivering the goods, as you say, in the end is what it is about for both parties

too bad you don't live here, we could have fun

rm_mjcarr2927 42M

12/16/2005 1:54 pm

good point!

Being married for 6 years, sharing everything with a woman (who by the way, is quite sexual), it is clear that what drives men is not the same as what drives women. Why do you think men watch more porn while women read more erotica.

this was a great thread. think we can all learn a bunch from it.


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