the amazing puzzle of life  

rm_lovelyLady 64F
552 posts
9/24/2005 7:13 am
the amazing puzzle of life

I woke up after a nap, thinking about something that happened to me in the grocery store. I was standing with a girlfriend, talking and laughing. She knows I am interested in meeting mr right. As we were cheerfully yakking, this guy walked by with a smile on his face and it was obvious that clearly had eyes only for my womanly attributes, and my girl friend grinned and jokingly said to me, after he was out of hearing range, that he “wanted me” We laughed and went on with our conversation…

I was just thinking, that is why I am not with anyone right now
is because I want more than just the physical…
If that was all that I wanted, I would not be here…
But I am here…
because I think
the physical is an important piece
of the amazing puzzle of life…

I think maybe one of the reasons people have problems meeting up,
really connecting,
or staying together…
is that they try to separate the parts from the whole.
I can’t do that…
don’t want to do that.
It is all connected…
Physical, mental, emotional,
Who I am looking for…
What I am looking for…
What I can imagine…
What I will wait for…

is a relationship where we would compliment each other nicely.
Where we both enjoy working hard and playing hard,
and numerous possibilities in between…
These are good characteristics, whether on the job,
or in a more relaxed atmosphere.
Along with his obvious sensitivities and creativity,
I think my passion for learning and sharing
would be a comfortable fit.
I greatly admire gentle ways,
and I imagine those would translate well
into touch as well intention…

With these thoughts in mind,
I would try to give 100 %
to pleasure, play, learning, teaching,
or just enjoying the moment,
whether together, or apart.
As I believe we also need to
experience quiet time
as well as time together,
some very very close time together…


sleeplessknight1 68M

9/24/2005 11:38 am

So many parts make up the whole person.
I am sure I am not the first to say this, but this medium of getting to know someone has one great merit... you get a glimpse of the real person, the inner person, and their inner beauty.
So a picture is really not that important.

I hope you get to find the person you seek..a person who is "the half to make the whole".

rm_lovelyLady 64F
434 posts
9/25/2005 7:12 am

Thanks for the kind words sleeplessknight1
I wish the same for you, too.... "to find the person you seek..a person who is "the half to make the whole".

rm_bandr23 93M

9/25/2005 10:07 am

Such a sensitive view of relationship, makes me wish I were younger.

rm_lovelyLady 64F
434 posts
9/27/2005 10:09 am

Thank you shaken_storm for your very kind words...
it makes me feel nice to know I was missed, and I am noticing more and more
people that are looking for a more substantial relationship.......


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