Something special  

rm_lovelyLady 64F
552 posts
5/14/2005 11:11 am
Something special

Something special brought us all together. Could it be something more than our Intense sexual feelings?? All my life I have looked at past experiences, and tried to learn the lesson from what ever has just happened. What was it that made me, or that person do what they did?? There is always a reason… where they were born, how they were raised, their own personal physical make up (tall short, white, black, mental or physical handicap
We are all human beings…. With something to learn or share) What I have done is look for the good out of the bad. It doesn’t always come to me fast. Sometimes it takes years to figure it out. But it is my positive nature to “find the good”…

I want to take this time to thank you all for your very kind comments. As I think you can all tell I have an intense desire for something I am not getting right now. Can you try to imagine this experience you are having now at AdultFriendFinder as a learning experience??
I know that sounds funny. But it just occurred to me in the shower that maybe I Can do something for you all, although it is not what you think you want… I have learned so much about my self and my sexuality, being here, writing, reading all of your wonderful stories (more of you should try opening up and writing more ‒ let your sexuality flow in your writing), also what I see here is a lot of very frustrated horny people. I am not quite sure what to do about that. I truly am sorry I can not satisfy you all… but what I Can Do is pass along some of the things I have experienced here… that have made me who I am. I have been searching for the “answer all my life” and I see now it is made up of puzzle pieces. The individual things that have happened in my life that make me who I am. They are made up of Good (16 orgasms ‒ that is Definitely a Good Thing) experiences and Bad experiences (one experience with mental abuse ‒ that was enough for me)… We all have experiences in our lives that make us change, learn, grow, vegetate at times… The thing about our experiences is how we ‘choose’ to relate or react to what “comes to us…. My theory always comes back to “what was I supposed to learn from this........ Mostly, everything makes me stronger ‒ probably because ultimately I choose to find the Good and focus on that… So all my friends, I guess I have brought you all here to share some things… in the hopes it will help you along the way.. and maybe for some you younger ones - in 20 or 30 years you will say ‒ hey she was right. So with that thought in mind… These are some special things that have been shared with me since coming to AdultFriendFinder that have shaped who I am.

By the way - I Do hope you ALL find what you need and want...

This one is my goal ‒ “ look for the good in everything”

• one of ‘you’ said ‒ “All we need is love”

• my best friend told me ‒ “You are right where you are supposed to be”

• one of ‘you’ told me ‒ “Smile, it WILL CHANGE who you are”

• And this one too

THE FINAL ANALYSIS
People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered; Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies; Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; Be honest and frank anyway.
What you spend years building, someone may destroy overnight; Build anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous; Be happy anyway.
The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough; Give the world the best you've got anyway.
You see, in the final analysis, it is all between you and God;
It was never between you and them anyway.

Mother Teresa of Calcutta XOXOXO

LOL LL


rm_lovelyLady 64F
434 posts
5/14/2005 10:54 pm

Mmmmmmmm - just for the record -I believe there is a good possibility of a higher power, but I 'Do Not' believe in organized religion. I think everyone should practice what they believe and let everyone else practice what they believe.

Personally - I just try to do my best - and also try to be understanding of why people do the things they do. I am not into holding a grudge. We all make mistakes and there is usually a good reason why things happen. I believe we are here to enjoy life and to learn from our experiences........

Always remember you're unique....... Just like everyone else.

Never test the depth of the water with both feet.

Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their
shoes. That way, when you criticize them you're a mile away
and you have their shoes.

"wine comes in at the mouth and love comes in at the eye; That is all we know for truth, Before we grow old and die. I would lift the glass to my mouth, I look at you and sigh". Passion like that poem is meant for now before we indeed grow old and die..
XOXOXO LL


rm_lovelyLady 64F
434 posts
5/29/2005 10:23 pm

Mmmmmmmm ‒I just want to say, just for the record -I believe there is a good possibility of a higher power, but I 'Do Not' believe in organized religion. I think everyone should practice what they believe and let everyone else practice what they believe.

Personally - I just try to do my best - and also try to be understanding of why people do the things they do. I am not into holding a grudge. We all make mistakes and there is usually a good reason why things happen. I believe we are here to enjoy life and to learn from our experiences........

XOXOXO LL


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