Do not compare  

rm_lovelyLady 64F
552 posts
8/8/2005 1:51 am
Do not compare

It is very important that you do not compare your actions to your partner's or judge your partner's behavior as unskillful. Rather, focus on your own actions and take responsibility for them. Recall those times when you looked into your partner's eyes and saw the pain you caused this person you love to suffer. If you can admit your own faults, if you can see how hurtful your actions were and tap into a sense of concern for your partner's well-being, then compassion and loving-friendliness will flow.
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-Bhante Henepola Gunaratana
"Eight Mindful Steps to Happiness"



MsLoveRose 33F  
2432 posts
8/12/2005 4:26 pm

and even better you open yourself to a higher level of understanding about love, life, and someone else!!!!

(I didnt even know you had a blog...until just now...(DUH) didnt think to check...)

if you are responsible enough to know that your way may not be the way of another you can always understand what you are doing...getting into...or just know. Pride should never be a negative thing....take pride in knowing that you a human with a chance to make yourself right with yourself and others around you...that starts with trust and honesty!!!! you know...i feel better after reading this...thanks lovely!!!!

live more, laugh often, love much


rm_lovelyLady 64F
434 posts
8/13/2005 9:02 am

asianlady Thanks for being around....... Thanks for being you......
I am enjoying [blog asianlady4love] also.


rm_lovelyLady 64F
434 posts
8/13/2005 8:53 pm

Hi sunrisegirl I am glad this was in the right place at the right time for you......

I love that........ synchronicity

I enjoy your outlook on life in general....... I also really enjoy your [blog sunrisegirl1983]

XOXO LL


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