you can't push a rope  

WivesRailsRubor 54M
14 posts
7/26/2006 11:15 am

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5/30/2008 10:55 am

you can't push a rope


How is it passable that there are people who can be totally happy with out a sex life? As I think back, my wife and I at least "made love" often enough that I would not feel horny all the time.That has changed to the point that if we have sex once in a month I would have to call it a good month. I guess I made the mistake of not trying to get us to expand our sexual activity (toys, xxx books,fantasy's) when she was more in to "making love". we did "make love a few times the week the kids were not home,but it was anything but hot. I guess I am now feeling that she can not or will not see that there is a difference between "making love " and having sex just for the fun of having sex. I am just hoping that I can find a way to push a rope. I am beginning to think that will be an easter task than to find a way to get my wife in to having hot sex!

rm_sexytommy26 38F
11 posts
2/14/2008 3:57 am

I have read alot of books why women dont open up or want to have sex w/ guys all the time..one of the reason is stress, worried about household stuffs, children, etc. And alot of women complain that men dont help in household chores..so if u help her (think of it as a bonus points of having sex w/ u). And give her a massage, after the day..be sensitive to her needs..instead of focusing too much on how to get her into bed..why not try to think of making your wife fall more in love to you by being romantic, sweet,etc..use ur creativity..I tell u, women loves foreplay and more foreplay u use, the more active ur sex life is..so please..try to please her more and u will get what u want..a wife that is hot for u Give her alot of Attention, time and love..and she's all urs

p.s. Women love sex..only in the right mood or circumstances..so u need to work that out..and I know ur wife is not exempted..u just need to find what's her weakness (her likes, what turns her on, seduce her and try to make her want u..try not to right away have sex..but prolong the agony..and u will have an awesome experience)


rm_jezL00kin 51F
269 posts
5/28/2008 9:31 am

Here's the deal, I love sex, but the more my husband whines about not getting it enough, the less turned on I am. He pouts if he doesn't get laid at least once a week. It doesn't matter if I'm sick, busy, raggin it or whatever. Sex has become such a big issue that I actually don't like having sex with him anymore. It's just one more chore on my list to take care of. I still screw him, but it's just to shut him up. And he doesn't care as long as he's getting it.


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