WivesRailsRubor 54M
14 posts
7/3/2006 12:12 pm

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I am looking to be happy and develop my wife into a hot wife. I have a long way to go in obtaining my goal. My first step is to get her to open up to the idea of a MFM encounter. She will not watch porn (I do not think she has ever watched any, definitely not with me)our sex life has dropped way down over the last few years. We have at least started to talk about how important having a sex life is to me. I have tried to have her talk about her fantasies, but she said she just does not think that way. I have indirectly brought up the idea of her with another by telling her of what i thought was the sexiest dream I ever had. I told her I woke up in the middle of the night with the hardest hard on I ever had. She said it must have been some dream. I told her it was , and my dream was that I was watching her really having fun having sex with another man. She did not have a negative or positive reaction to that. The other time I brought it up was when we were having sex . She was on top of me and I was retelling her of my dream and I came really strong. After I came I called her a tickler and she said that it was not her but I tickled my self. I am happy to say she did not have a negative reaction to my comments. I am looking for other settle ways to bring up the idea back up. She has begun to read "romance books" from the library. I was hoping to find a book/Arther that wrights a positive story with a MFM story line. I would , like to find some movies NC17 or hard R rated with the same story line. I have posted in a few of the groups I have joined for help , but there have been no responses as of yet. I will write again upon moving forward with my goal. This is My first blog, I hope I did it correctly

VATraveler1948 68M

7/3/2006 1:48 pm

You did fine. Welcome to the blogs! I have this same type of fantasy about my wife for many years. We had a non-existent sex life for more than two years and then, all of a sudden, the drought was over and she turned back into a very adventurous lover. We have done some pretty wild things (for us at least) but my fantasy is still unfulfilled. I think we are getting much closer, at least she talks about it quite freely now. She has her own account here on AdultFriendFinder and has really surprised me with how much of a sexual being she has become.

My advice to you is to not push, just let your wife find her own way. The porn might work but it needs to be something that will appeal to her. The "other man" dream needs to be something that she fully shares, don't push her into that.

Good luck with your quest.

hrnycpl92 46M/42F

7/3/2006 1:54 pm

When my husband first started dropping subtle hints about bringing other people into our sex life, I was curious. I didn't say much to him about it because I didn't know if it was a just fantasy for him or he really wanted to do it. It took him a couple years to finally open up and talk about it. Once I knew what he actually wanted, I could give him an answer. Of course, the hints he'd given had gotten my mind working. Maybe I wouldn't have been as receptive to it. lol Ok, so I don't know what your next step should be, but if she hasn't told you to give it up, you still have hope. Good Luck.

want2teaseher 44M
18 posts
8/11/2006 4:19 pm

Not to put a bummer on your dream,
when I was still married I shared the same fantasy I would love watched my wife with another man.
We watched Porn occasionally and I discovered that she really enjoys watching 2 guys please 1 girl. After watching this type of porn she had very powerful orgasms. This got me really turned on. After taking advice from some MFM groups I talked to her about how turned on she gets by watching the MFM porn. She admitted she enjoys watching it and fantasizes about it. I told her I also fantasize and would love to share her with another man.
She told me it would never happen, yes she loves to watch it and she fantasizes about it but it will not happen. She told me if I try she would leave. I didn't try to push the subject any more but wish I did
I hope you have better luck than I did.
If you are success full I would be interested in helping

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