Yes, I am a toad!.  

rm_larrylicksu 66M
21 posts
2/9/2006 5:10 pm

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3/7/2006 7:49 am

Yes, I am a toad!.

Well, I just had a really embarassing experience. Actually, it was all my fault. But of course I feel the need to place blame elsewhere... I'm only human... I think!? But more about blame later.

I went into the personal cam area looking for... well, you know... don'tcha? That's right, ladies doffing their clothing, talking dirty and pleasuring themselves for all of us perverts to enjoy. (Sorta) I like to find the ones that are using a microphone... it makes the experience a bit more erotic, at least for me. Well, anyway I happen upon a lovely lady with the little microphone symbol next to her name. So... clik click and I'm in. There she is, very lovely... but fully clothed. So I think, "No big deal, I'll just watch for a while and see what happens." Well, she's just chatting nicely and looking great! But, as usual... I say something really stupid! Yeah, that's right... I type something really gross... about what I'd like to see. Now, as is my experience on AdultFriendFinder, these comments are met with a laugh and sometimes my request is granted. Well, this time I did nothing but really offend this nice lady. She's there looking for a really nice guy... and who show's his ugly head? Big ugly me!

Well, I have since apoloized to her. But somehow that doesn't seem enough. You know, in real life, (a life beyond AdultFriendFinder), I'm every bit a gentleman. I respect women (I have two daughters) and hope they are respected too.

Ok, now here comes the blame part. Certainly I was at fault here... no doubt! I just think that those of us who use AdultFriendFinder regularly tend to fall into the trap of assuming all AdultFriendFinder women are ready to drop their drawers for you at the drop of a hat (Or my boxer/briefs). Well, as I have so shamefully discovered... that is not the case at all. In fact, this particular lady is a TRUE lady and even was classy enough to accept my lame apology.

Ok, am I blaming AdultFriendFinder? Well, not really. They are certainly not responsible for our online conduct. However, I think the somewhat lurid atmosphere causes some of us to lose sight of who and what we really are... in real(non-AdultFriendFinder) life.

Guys, here's a tip for what it's worth. Pay attention to who you're talking to. Read their profile and find out what they're about. Don't assume all AdultFriendFinder members engage in slutty behavior. Hey, I enjoy it as much as the next guy... but that woman you're talking with may not.

Once again, to the gorgeous lady in Missouri, I'm truly sorry and wish I could take it back. I hope all your future AdultFriendFinder experiences are positive ones and that you find that perfect guy soon.

P.S. For you few who have read my blogs in the past... you might have noticed my attitude has changed a bit. Just proves there's still a lot to learn... even at my age!

rm_twilightskin 45F
17 posts
2/9/2006 5:53 pm

Personally, I wouldnt' blame you. I would assume that anyone in a chat room on passion can expect that sort of behaviour. I mean, c'mon. How can someone possibly be offended by sexual banter on a sex site for goodness sakes??? No, you don't have to talk that way to everyone, but at the same time, I dont think it can be held against you.

But then again, I'm often wrong. Apparently I'm not like anyone else on the planet.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
2/9/2006 6:21 pm

Glad you learned your lesson

Purry {=}


YachtTitusLeers 58F

2/9/2006 10:56 pm

Wow.... this from the guy who said this site was only from Sex... I am impressed!

When you fish for love, bait with your heart and not your brain. Mark Twain
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