rm_lagano 51M
395 posts
6/18/2006 7:19 pm

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6/19/2006 6:09 pm


I have a handful of friends on AdultFriendFinder, people I know, like, occasional chat with, maybe if I am lucky, meet someday.

But it seems friends and network "Friends" are two quite different things. Most invites it seems to me are to look at the private pics in my album, occasionally its mutual as they too have pics. Oddly though all the friends that I have in my friends network are people I have never met, hmm wonder if they see the pics and lose interest

I think I have about 7 network friends but I see other people with a thousand and I even saw one profile today with 15000 friends and I think how can you have 15000 friends!!!

Do you have many people in your network friends, do you send out invites or do you get a lot of invites?

Are they from people you ae interested in or you are just interested in looking at pics nothing more?

rm_mmmgoodnova 105M/105F
1259 posts
6/18/2006 8:02 pm

1. Don't have tons and tons of people...and I'd say it's mostly we that get the invites, but sometimes I do send one out. I send winks occasionally, usually in response to others' winks, but not always.

2. Seeing others' pics is not the main motivation although sure, it's interesting. And I don't really care to see the pics of someone I'm not interested in, based on their profile, blog, or whatever. have a thing about having to see a face pic and some sort of mental connection. For me, the face is more important than the body. I've gotta be able to like the face of someone I might end up having sex with...also to be able to talk to them, have normal/interesting conversation. The mind and pen are sexier than the sword.

I end up deleting the people from our network who were obviously just pic shopping/collecting or never respond so seem not interested or ambivalent about meeting; only interested in cybersex; or susbsequently piss me/us off. (Usually because they seem to be phony.) That's my rationale.

rm_lagano replies on 6/19/2006 1:10 am:
Well for me I think the limit is the number I can count up to without needing a calculator which is about 21...

If its goes beyond that it times for a cull....

rm_mmmgoodnova 105M/105F
1259 posts
6/19/2006 5:47 am

Now, take you, for instance--you're continents away but I'm not culling you, 'cause you're interesting. And the photos aren't bad, either

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