Being watched  

rm_lagano 51M
395 posts
5/10/2006 6:15 pm

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5/11/2006 8:55 pm

Being watched

So "being watched" has been on my mind for some reason these last couple of days, and I was thinking do you like being watched having sex or fooling around, is it a turn on or turn off?

Now I have had a few threesomes over the years so I have been watched and video'd as well and I will admit it is a turn on, though in those scenarios I think there was more to it than just being watched.

I think being video'd was mainly a turn on to the extent that the person holding the camera was watching though, in one case it was about knowing that someone was going to watch the video later.

I have wondered though about people who do the webcam sex on AdultFriendFinder, I mean they can get several hundred people watching which you might think was a big turn on if you are into being watched but then again the only "presence" is a little webcam, there is no one actually there. You wouldn't know the difference between having the webcam on with no one watching and having it on and 600 watching so can webcam sex really be a turn on for the "performers".

So what do you think, turn on or turn off to be watched and ever tried webcam sex?

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rm_pagan380 64M
4405 posts
5/10/2006 6:39 pm

I was wondering why your so hell bent to buff up. Your gonna start caming aren't you? LMAO
Truly, bullshiting

Come play naked in the sunshine and dance naked under the stars.


rm_lagano replies on 5/10/2006 11:17 pm:
Well I have never thought of caming lol

It does seem a bit too impersonal to get anything out of as silky says, unless I guess, you knew someone who was going to be watching.

As for buffing up, well you get to a point when u realise (or someone else does for u ) that you have let yourself slip. For me I have always been reasonably fit but the last year though injury I have let myself slip a bit and I finally woke up to the point that the injury wasnt going to go away, so a holiday coinciding with my birthday coming up was an incentitve and a good target to find an alternative way to rectify that.

Actually I do feel better (mentally and physically) for being fit, I dont like feeling out of condition.

rm_pagan380 64M
4405 posts
5/11/2006 5:25 pm

"You look mauvolous" (Billy Crystal doing Fernando Llamas)
I never slip! For me, life is just one long down hill slide.

Come play naked in the sunshine and dance naked under the stars.


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