what is it about older men????  

rm_kwaki2000 33M
41 posts
5/9/2006 11:19 am

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what is it about older men????

I was blessed with a curse, I love mature women.... not that I am complaining but lets face it most women love older men and I am not talking just a few months or years older, I am talking generations older.Is it the assumption that older is more experienced? Well that is the only assumption I have based on what some older women I managed 2 seduce gave me as the reason for not having sex with me although clearly they wanted me, unless wet pussy's lie.

So my question is what is it about older men?

moonlightphoenix 45F
6508 posts
5/9/2006 12:31 pm

It's definitely partly them being more experienced. The idea of "teaching" has never appealed to me at all. It's also the mental stimulation of having more in common and being able to discuss all kinds of things. Older men have usually travelled a bit, been through a lot of things and weathered many a storm. They know what's a big deal and what isn't. They aren't trying to "prove" anything anymore. They are more accepting of women as a total package and not just a physical recepticle. Older men don't expect women to be perfect...they appreciate a woman's body.

I know that not all younger men are shallow or inexperienced or unappreciative of older women. But it's a comfort thing. When you're sleeping with a guy in his 20's, you can't help comparing yourself to the girls he's also sleeping with...the skinny little waif's who have no emotional baggage or expectations. Regardless of how many times he tells you how hot he thinks you are, or what else you discuss, you know you are just a pit stop on his sexual journey. With older men, sex is savoured.

At least in my experience. Don't worry...some day you'll be an older man

honeycomb1974 44M/43F
282 posts
5/9/2006 12:33 pm

Older men seem to understand the need to see that the woman's needs are taken care of before he takes care of himself. They seem to have more stamina to wait and withhold until the time is right. Honey

mm0206 69F
7767 posts
5/9/2006 1:01 pm

Although, Sir there are exceptions to every rule...

generally older men are mellower and more accepting and more compassionate,
which is not to say that there arent some younger men with those qualities in lesser degrees, wisdom is gleaned though life and the living of such.
They are somewhat more generous with their time and affection and tend to be more of a mentor statesman type.. even the rednecks, at least some of them.

Eros40 53F

5/9/2006 1:08 pm

I am one that prefers my men at least 10 years older than myself. Older men..... sexy, handsome, POLITE, gentlemanly, sensitive, erotic, passionate. They do not believe they know everything about a woman...just the opposite... they admit they don't have a clue about us, but are willing to learn. They believe in quality vs. quantity with sexual partners. they are slow, easy, and loving partners. They are not in any hurry....they know its the JOURNEY that matters, not the destination. They are not afraid to ask, not afraid to tell, not afraid to listen. These are things that come with experience and wisdom...... I agree with moonlightphoenix ..... you too, shall be an older man some day! Take your time and enjoy the journey.......E.

rm_kwaki2000 33M
27 posts
5/9/2006 7:45 pm

Well thank you for all the comments, I guess some things can not be rushed. Although some things you say define older men could also be used to define me. So I guess its true, there are exceptions.

solar_eclipse999 54M

5/9/2006 8:31 pm

I am an older guy and I think that whats makes a difference to women is the accumulation of experiences and how you translate that to care and respect the one you are with and have fun. When I think back to when I was younger boy did i chase and have success. But it was very much carnal and women i think also get aroused through the mind as much if not more.

Power has something to do with it as well

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