whats a woman gotta do?  

rm_kndtndrhrt4u 53F
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9/10/2005 4:32 pm

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whats a woman gotta do?

To know who you are and to be who you are is all that anyone asks of us in life. However, when I try to be me no one will take me seriously enough to know I can be the woman of thier dreams and can love them with all my heart and not give it to anyone else. WHats a woman gotta do to show someone how much they mean to you and how much you want to care for them and to make them happy. I have found in my life that no matter how hard you try or how little you try the woman you are looking for never shows up. Or the ones you have found and like you get scared due to the fact they dont know what love can be like for they have never had any true love in thier lives. So do we always step back behind the gate and wait and wait for the one to come along that you dont have to really take a cahnce on or do we open that door and take a chance and leap of faith and see if she might be the real one for us. We cant always live life being totally careful for we might never find the one we are looking for. So take a chance get to know her and get to know me and see who you find on the inside of this woman and see if she might be the one for you, if you take that chance, know you will always have a friend on the other side and never have to worry about it. And you never know I might be the soulmate you been looking for. Always know if you protect your heart all the time you will never grow and become a better person for it, its by lifes ups and downs that we grow and become who we are. Beauty comes from within. So whats inside of you?

funsailor84 32M

9/10/2005 7:09 pm

Well said. Life is to short to just sit around and wait for your soulmate to come find you. Sometimes you just have to go out on a limb and take your heart out from behind the walls we put up to "protect" ourselves. Life's no fun without taking chances.

dishevelled 61F

9/13/2005 2:23 pm

Gosh, I felt as if your two posts could have been written by myself hun. Like you I consider myself one of the lucky ones; I found the love of my life. I discovered my soulmate, the person who made my heart sing and put a smile on my face. I dont regret one second I had with her. In the words of the master himself "it is better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all".

I, like you, have a void in my life that friends and family just cant fill. I dont expect to ever experience what I had with her again. However, I do so want to be loved for me. I want to be with someone who (like me) has a ready smile and where laughter plays a major role in her life. I want to be the most important person in her life. I want to experience the butterflies in my stomach when the phone rings. I want to know that she waits for my phone call. I want to be the last thought in her mind as she difts asleep and the first thought when she awakes. I'm needy what can I say!!! I just wanted you to know that how you are feeling is not uncommon.... reading your post I felt as if you had stolen the thoughts from my mind.

I think you and I may spend hours in msn sharing memories....and its highly probably could end up being close friends.


bfemme 40F

9/15/2005 1:38 pm

How did you all came not to be with your soul mates any more? Being someone who had thought I had fund my soul mate and then had to rethink things a bit. I wonder.

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