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Welcome to my world...
Welcome to my world...
You all wonder what its like to live as a lesbian.. well try to walk in my shoes for even a week and see what its like... The wordl tells you it is wrong to love women if you are a woman.. but your heart tells you its ok to love women... wow and what a feeling to love a woman the way you want to be loved because you know what women want and how to make them feel good and feel those feelings of ecstacy. But living in a world where lesbianism is not right, makes it hard for you to realize its ok to be who you are and live the way you feel is right. NOw, people are looking at you and wanting to know why what is better about loving the same sex... Well loving the same sex is so much better than loving the opposite sex because we understand each other..women know what women want and men know what men want. Plain and simple. BUt how about what the world wants?? Have you walked through life and wondered why you were made the way you are and try to change for the public? try to change because you were raised being told it is wrong to be gay? WELL tell me what is right about being heterosexual? Just because you can reproduce doesnt make it all right does it? COme follow me and see what I go through and how it is to try to make a life with a woman... damn what woman?? most of them hide in little towns like I do, I have to go out of town and out of state to try to find someone. and then its not so easy because they dont want a long distance relationship, even when youre trying to figure out if youre made for each other. SO tell me.. how do we do it? where do we go? well try living in my shoes and see how it feels and tell me how you feel.
10/6/2005 10:11 pm
just because it enables reproduction does make it more appropriate and if you make the effort you can understand each other....there isn't right and wrong in regard to heterosexuality and homosexuality...and personnally I understand men better than I do women I am not like most women as I am frequently told....|
LIVING with both biological parents is also the most beneficial environment for a child to be raised in provided it does not include violence....
I am not saying it is bad for children to be raised with only one parent , 2 parents of one gender or any of the other various possibilities BUT living with both biological parents is the best environment for children....
and in the same respect Homosexuality is not wrong.....it just isn't complete, requiring additional contribution by a 3rd party or science to enable the creation of a family....and although not detrimental for a child, there is influence on the child bilogically and emotionally resulting from being raised in such environment.
which biologically is the primary purpose of sexual relations....
and traditionally is the purpose of the instituion of marriage....
(to provide children with optimum environment through their developing years)
*my logic behind my refusal to support gay marriage but rather civil unions, the concept of marriage may have deteriorated in todays society resulting in a great amount of sociological breakdown and decay, but the solution isn't to completely abolish what is left but rather to reinforce and educate our society as to what it actually is, being so much more than just words spoken and living arrangement between two people*
for me to raise a family isn't something to consider lightly....they are the product of your life, your being.....and you want to put your best into it to give them the greatest outcome.....why only make a half assed effort of your life's work?