Do you really know your friends?  

rm_kndtndrhrt4u 53F
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1/29/2006 4:27 pm

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7/10/2006 11:34 am

Do you really know your friends?

Seeing life in a different view is always something special.. However why shold we look from and different perspective? Well put yourself in someone elses shoes and try to see where they are coming from. Maybe and only maybe then you can see who they are and why they do the things they do. However, noone can actually see where someone has been unless they have walked in the same circumstances but you will never know whow someone reacts. Life takes many truns and the turn we take depends on us. I have walked many miles and many paths and still am not sure which road to take. However, with some help from some great friends I find ways to get thru and to see where they have been and what they experienced. Do you really understand your friends or do you say you do and go from there ? Take time and get to know someone before you judge them and say things about them. Trust me one day you will be thankful you did get to know them and they wil be there for you. The ones you think are your friends will leave you hanging and not be there when you need them but the ones you get to know without a doubt you will have for life and will have no matter what happens in your life. Take a chance and get to know them you might find you have found the best friend or soulmate you ever knew. If you want someone who will be there for you then catch me. I make friends and when they are true friends they are in my life for life.

sensigirl2006 52F

1/30/2006 3:58 am

A true friend doesn't even have to understand me. A true friend just allows me to be who I am. I actually believe that all of us go through life not even knowing 100% about anything. If I don't know myself 100% how can I possibly state I know someone else better than I know me. We are what we are depending on what circumstances we meet on a day by day basis. I would say that the person I am yesterday I may not be today. I think the internet can allow so many of us open up more to how we think and feel but can also allow others who we don't interact with at that level to gain a false impression of how we are. How can anyone ever really know each one of us. I believe I will spend my life getting to know some people better but I will never totally know anyone nor them me. When I close my eyes at night how can someone else see what I see or have my thought process. And when I dream how can anyone even know what I dream if I can't even remember those dreams myself. Our minds our wonderful things. I try not to dwell too much on who are friends and who are acquaintances. Some people can be both at same time sometimes. My only true friend that I can say wholeheartedly is perhaps the person I see in mirror and even then I fall out with me!! knd i like reading your blogs you think hard and make me think even harder. and in case you're confused this is watergirl returned using her previous handle as people were getting confused as to who "sensi" was as many of the regs still referred to me as that name.

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