The problem  

rm_kilcouple 42M/41F
17 posts
5/31/2006 12:37 pm

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10/27/2006 1:56 am

The problem


We both find it more arousing to think of a strange man/couple with us (deffo not someone we know, and neither of us can imagine the 'drinks' thing making us feel comfortable.

Question is...how do you safely meet a stranger...and in such a cirumstance have him (or them) know the boundaries.

Our thought was toplace an ad and have people respond and be able to tell from the responses the type of guy/couple they are....but nearly all responses we get are short and its impossible to tell anything about the person

Any ideas?

rm_david690000 47M
17 posts
6/1/2006 5:02 am

If you just put an ad you'll receive lot's of responses
from fuck frenzy horny guys or couples. I think is difficult
to judge just from a simple response; you should ask more
personal details about the person/couple, request a picture
(and send your picture too), discuss about what they would like
and what are you prepared to, and finally, when you meet him/them
in the real world if you see
anything which is different from what they wrote you (e.g. forged
pictures, unreal descriptions, etc.) you immediatelly quit the event.


IrishKev 40M
1523 posts
6/1/2006 5:49 am

I've met a few couples on here now but we've never met until we had chatted on msn a good few times (sometimes using cam) and once we felt comfortable with each other we set up the date. I've not had a bad experience yet and hopefully looking forward to enjoying a few more.

It's a wee bit easier when you're a silver member here at least so you can send messages to everyone you think might be good for you and you can leave your outside e-mail address in the message and get chatting then because there are a lot of people who can't send e-mails here.

I'm a standard member now but when I was able to send e-mails off I put a bit of thought in them and told a bit about myself to show that I was a little more genuine and it has worked...once you do it you won't look back!


IrishKev 40M
1523 posts
6/1/2006 10:30 am

I replied to this already but the powers that be mustn't have liked it

Anyway i've met a few couples but you need to chat to the other people over e-mail/texts first and exchange photos etc first. You'll know when you're chatting to the people you want to meet up with. If you even want to set up a wee meeting somewhere out in the open first go for it...at least then you can check each other out and decide whether or not to go for it then


shar1 55F
606 posts
6/3/2006 2:59 am

it is a fantasy that is shared by quite a few, and some have even had the chance to fulfill it. The best way may be that one of yu takes the responsibility to contact a playmate, get to know them, ask the relevant questions, ensure that they are suitable and safe and sane, then maybe arrange a meet. At least this way one of you gets to have the stranger fantasy, and then maybe you could swop around next time.... worked for me!!!!


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