Seduction and romance...with sex!!!  

rm_kilcouple 41M/41F
17 posts
6/12/2006 5:18 am

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10/9/2006 5:57 am

Seduction and romance...with sex!!!


Hmm, since blog started we have got more replies...but apart from one or two they are all still short and crap....or still focussing on 'male type' fantasies.

I sometimes wonder is this a man/woman thing. Typically it is assumed men want sex more than women and that women want sex in a romantic way...but when you come to being more interested in sex and visit a site like this it seems to be assumed that therefore the woman has more of a mans appetite in sex...and therefore just wants to be fucked.

Is there a market out there where someone is interested in seduction & romance as well as sex. What we were hoping for was responses with ideas/fantasies of meeting and some flirting and some 'seduction type fun' leading to bedroom fun...whereas all the responses are 'I come in and take my cock out' type stuff.

After blogging this im not sure id even trust a rsponse like that now...but im disappointed that no men came up with it themselves

mikewv1967 49M

6/12/2006 5:55 am

Yes, this tends to be very much a male/female thing. The problem get generally blown out of proportion when women feel or think that men should be thinking the same way as the they do.

It isn't that men are by any means incapable of being romantic, but we need to be told that this is what is expected. If you want to be romanced, then by all means BE UPFRONT ABOUT IT. There are many good guys out there that are capable of it, but with the variety of women, being on a sex site, etc. they probably feel that they don't have to.

Here is what I would consider if I were in your shoes. I would put very clearly in my profile, e-mails without effort to romance me (or us) will NOT be considered. Make them MAKE the effort. But without that caviot UPFRONT, don't expect it to happen.

Good luck.


SirMounts 102M

6/15/2006 11:40 pm

Why yes, there are people here who are interested in such things. One need only look carefully and fully on here, to find them.
Welcome to blogging, kilcouple. *smiling*


hornyindublin3 35M
1 post
10/5/2006 11:43 am

hi. wud agree that its very hard 2 meet nice ppl. not only on line sumtimes. i have been looking 2 meet a cpl 4 a while now but have had no luck dis is only a quick msg so maybe u cud give me a txt or call? my name is john and my number is 0857614300


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