Am I doing this right?  

rm_kenwood109 35M/33F
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2/27/2006 10:29 am

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Am I doing this right?


OK everyone. You read my post, and I'm listed as a couple. I want to really know how everyone feels about this. I am married. I love my wife and I would love to have us try some new things with another woman or another couple. Yet she is hesitant about this whole idea. She continually jokes about letting me have another 'wife' or a mistress because my sex drive is more then twice what she can handle. But she says that we can have a threesome with a woman as soon as we have one with another man first. I think that this could be a defensive technique. Out love life has been a bit boring lately, and I'm just looking for ways to make it a bit more exciting again. I'm definitely not looking to hurt her in any way. No other woman could make me love my wife any less.
So I've posted 'our' profile on AdultFriendFinder. I have not talked to her about this, as I am a bit afraid about her reaction. I would like some honest opinions. Any advice about how to talk to the wife about this? Should I be listed on AdultFriendFinder as a couple? Should I take down my posting? Although I stated this info in my profile, the last thing that I want to do is to mislead people.
I am very interested about how couples decided to begin doing this, how the conversations went. I'm also interested in what signs I should look out for that I should completely drop the issue with the wife.
I've also been cautious about her feelings in this site. I've moved her birthday by a few day, and have not posted either of our pictures. I should not be posting those, right? I wish there was some set of rules, ethics, guidlines that I could know. The more I read, the more I understand that this is a community. I guess that I would like to know if I should be part of this community?

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