Weird people  

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
7027 posts
7/20/2006 8:45 pm

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Weird people

The past few days, I, along with most of the other people on the top of the watched blogs list, have been attacked. This has happened through at least one blog, but even more in comments an individual has left on numerous blogs.

There is evidence that this is a planned attack by a person, possibly two, who are known on this site under a different name. It has the appearance of a sick vendetta.

After this person spammed a malicious attack on me on multiple blogs yesterday, and made several hostile, venomous comments on my blog, I have decided to curtail my activities on this site.

I have closed my blog to comments except for those people included in my Friends Network. I have always kept my Network very small, feeling that the networks having thousands of people in them made the idea of "friends" a bit trite. Now, however, it allows me to screen access to my blog.

As we all know, banning someone from your blog only works if the person has a single profile. We also know that setting up a standard member profile takes less than half an hour, so banning an obsessive, hostile standard member is an exercise in futility. They're only gone for a very short while.

I've discovered that trying to send out a lot of network invites is a major pain in the ass. Over time, I will try to send invites to the legitimate people here. I've been going through my visitors list trying to do this.

If you care about leaving comments on my blog, please send me a network invite, and I'll include you.

The major thing that bothers me about this approach is that it excludes new people coming into this space, especially standard members. But I guess the fucktards who have targeted me are getting what they want. Hopefully after I slide off the front page they'll leave me alone.

Hugs to all the people who defended me. You folks are the best.

NSAAddict 42F

7/20/2006 9:06 pm

It sucks that it has to come to this Hopefully these idiots will give up and go away soon. Hugs girl, NSA

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/20/2006 9:37 pm:
It's bullshit, but the idiots can't take my friends away.

Glimmer_Man06 47M
3308 posts
7/20/2006 9:13 pm

I think that is the best idea I have heard of yet Kelli, but, you always do have good ideas.

It sucks that such an asshat has made you reduce your blog to this, but hopefully this will prove my point:

Kelli is NOT arrogant! X:

Kelli is NOT an attention whore! x:

Kelli is not a bitch!(but she sure is good at being bad!)

I am glad to be one of your friends. No need to thank me hon, that is what friends are for you know. To help in a time of need.


They say a woman ages like fine wine...

...mine ages like milk!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/20/2006 9:38 pm:

Transblucency 44M

7/20/2006 9:22 pm

This situation is total bullshit. Still, I am pleased you have deciding to keep on blogging and admire your tenacity. I hope that normal service will be resumed as soon as possible.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/20/2006 9:36 pm:
Yes, it is, but thanks for your support.

rm_smosmof2 67M
3240 posts
7/20/2006 9:39 pm

What a bizarre turn of events...

Just as I'm sailing along, taking such joy in the way things are going around here for me lately, crap like this comes along.

I truly hope you are able to weather this storm, and stay where I can keep an eye on you.

wtf is wrong with these people?

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/20/2006 10:14 pm:
Some people are so sick that they feel they have to pull other people down. This isn't the best solution, but I'd rather do it this way than deal with the ambushes.

I just hope it doesn't spill over. He was spamming my friends' blogs with garbage about me.

Damn, I at least try to kiss everyone I fuck.

maverick1255 51M
3953 posts
7/20/2006 9:47 pm

Thanks Kelli for the invite. And for the last few posts, I am 100 percent with you. I had my own attack just recently, and has left me a little weak.

Just trying to come back and see if I really want to wade thru the crap.

Thanks again,

Go gett'um!!!!


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/20/2006 10:10 pm:
This should be a civil place. ADULT, right? Post what you want, and have a good time.

florallei 99F

7/20/2006 9:49 pm

Hi Hun,

It is so friggin' ignoramus for these jerks to do this...can their words really hurt or affect you? I know you have to do what is right however they may look at this as a retreat...You have enough well wishers and supporters that no one will believe all these STUPID things they are saying...TY for inviting me in your network...Stay strong...

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/20/2006 10:09 pm:
It's just a hassle I don't want to deal with. I'm a happy person. I don't let bitter, unhappy people in my life in real time, and I don't want to deal with them here.

Don't think of it as a retreat, just a better idiot filter.

rm_macallan4u 46M
968 posts
7/20/2006 10:12 pm

An honor and a privilege. Like in real life, too often do the stupid few ruin a good thing for everyone. Count me in your camp and if you need a weapon (although knowing your sharp tongue I doubt that greatly) feel free to use me as I am blogless and therefore immune from attack! Bon courage and Spasiba for the invite.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/20/2006 10:16 pm:
Pazhalusta, moi drug.

caressmewell 53F

7/20/2006 10:30 pm

Unfortunately as long as we give them ANY attention they will continue to piss on the blogs. I pity them, their lives must be so miserable if they have to come to here and spew their venom.

Hang tight know that I am here for you.

tootsiedippin 53M/52F
1078 posts
7/20/2006 10:32 pm

Why have I not run into this? oh yeah I don't have a life....giggle

We will defend thee. Ya now your witt is a stronger defense than my muscles...silly smurf that I am

Dippin<--- Smurf in armour!

rm_smosmof2 67M
3240 posts
7/20/2006 10:41 pm

So, I did a little searching, and traced my way back to the source of the problem, via GlimmerMan.

Suddenly, a lot of comments that were being made in a number of the places I frequent make so much more sense.

I'm not an unbiased witness, because the comments that were made were directed at a number of people that I have come to like, and enjoy reading, but I have come to the following conclusions.

I've only been around here for not quite four months, but I do not ever recall before seeing such unprovoked, unfounded viciousness. The claims made by the blogger (and her supporter) are totally without merit. I find it curious that both of them are brand new, without photos, and yet they speak as though they are quite familiar with all of the parties that they tarnish with the same brush. I'm not really good at making this kind of identification, but I really couldn't detect any difference in the "voice" of the supporter from the one who made the original criticisms (such a misuse of that word--criticism, to me, implies some kind of constructive intent--I saw no such intent, merely a hostile attack directed at a number of individuals consisting of nothing more than baseless insults).

I'm floundering here a little... the original attack was leveled against someone who's name I am not familiar with-- I'm sure that I've never visited her blog, nor do I remember her leaving comments at the places I frequent (although maybe when I see a picture, the puzzle piece will fit in). And Digdug, in his Digdugish way, landed on the attacker with hobnailed boots. An overreaction, but consistent with what I've seen from him, even when I agree with the cause he represents.

The attacker then shreds him, and a large number of others with what amounts to a machine gun, firing insdiscriminately at almost everyone within range.

Clearly, says I, from a perch out of range of the bullets, this is an individual with an agenda. The agenda makes no sense to me, but then neither do the "criticisms" made against so many. The attacker suddenly has an anonymous supporter (out of nowhere, and with no connections or apparent familiarity with the blogs he discusses), who does nothing more than echo the baseless attacks already made.

These individuals (and I really don't believe that there is more than one writer behind both profiles, and that in and of itself strikes me as being strangely familiar, but then I think I'm the only one with the belief that certain events gone by were all the work of one hand) have been pointlessly cruel. Their arguments, while without any merit whatsoever, have only caused pain and anger--clearly the intent (for no apparent reason, except to disrupt).

I chose not to respond on the blog of the attacker. To do so would give them a form a validation they do not deserve. This individual deserves to be ignored, if possible.

A bit of irony... does anyone here know the original definition of Coventry? It's where this individual, in however many disguises he chooses to wear, should be consigned.

I apoligize for going on at such length. I started out puzzled, and having pieced the puzzle together, I am highly offended.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/20/2006 11:10 pm:
A very good analysis. You put together most of what several people have figured out.

The original attacks started with the "supporter" on digdug's blog July 4th. I think dug has banned him, but waiting on confirmation. If you look at the "supporter" comment history, it definitely shows an agenda. If you follow the blogger's comment history, her comments to some people (Sinn on her blog after her comment on Glimmer's) are way over the top hostile, as if there is a history there.

And I also think it's one person.

I have made a suggestion to luvpump that the list be ranked by number of views instead of comments. I believe that would show true readership, and put this "comment whore" crap to bed forever. I also don't think it would change the list very much.

Thanks, hon. {=}

ella1966 50F
1528 posts
7/20/2006 11:39 pm

Kelli, I am sorry it has come to this, hopefully it will only be a temporary measure, until the individual(s) concerned find their fuel source has been cut off...of course another way is to just "out them" but I know you may not wish to do this...ella x

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 12:00 am:
I think that the motivations behind these attacks will come to light.

funintheday2006 56M
9659 posts
7/20/2006 11:45 pm

Kel, this is so sad.
I really dont care about the bitch with the agenda, wants a scrap can pop over to mine anytime.
What I DO care about is the fact that both you and a couple of other friends have felt fit to withdraw and, as you say, the attacker gets his/her way.
What makes it so much sadder is the fact that new people here cannot comment, you will not know them and they will not have the pleasure of the full strength of your humour and character. They and you will be poorer for not experiencing that.
I am desperately trying to find the posts in question and no doubt will see them all but, its academic.
Please, please dont let this person spoil what we all have here, that is open discussion on our blogs for everyone.
I too, have started hitting the 'popular male' blogs but all that is is an indication that a number of people like reading what you write. The friendships and affection that comes from those people is the important aspect and both you and thecliticals are far too beautiful as people to be forced into hiding.
Being in that lists will get more people looking and more people will be enriched because of it. Thats a benefit for them as well as you.
The purpose of blogging here is to comment and be commented on, so the whole world of blog is 'whoring' unashamedly and good for them, they are upholding traditions here.
Its an honour to be able to post through the friends network but there is a deep regret that many who consider your blog as a focal point will miss out through shyness or other reasons.

Kel, come back you are far too important to be silenced by a fool.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/20/2006 11:59 pm:
I'm not use to you being serious. Brought tears to my eyes, really. Thank you.

I have found so many good bloggers by following the link when they left comments on my posts. That is something I'll miss by doing things this way. But I've seen others chased off this site by obsessive psychos who just wouldn't give up. I'll continue to write and post, and expand my friends list, and hope that some measure of civility returns to this community.

Have ya seen the new smilies?

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
7/21/2006 3:00 am

i'm sorry this is happening to you! hopefully it will be cleared up soon and you can reopen... blog character assassinations -- whatever next!

[blog freelove999]

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 10:39 am:
You mean you never felt the urgent need to trash someone's blog that you'd never read? How incredibly civilized of you ...

JazzDlight 59F

7/21/2006 3:01 am

Sorry Kelli that this has happened. I have seen someone say nasty comments on your blog the past few days. People need to grow the fuck up. As I said last night in someone else's blog about another nasty person, I do not like when people come onto another person's blog and pee on their carpet. This guy needs to be put in the corner, he needs a timeout. Thank you for your invite, I truly appreciate it. Hugs, Cheryl aka Jazz
PS-Is it me or is Blogville getting really hateful and nasty lately?

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 11:09 am:
PS-Is it me or is Blogville getting really hateful and nasty lately?

It seems to be. What just blows me away is the amount of jealousy pointed at those on "the list". Do these people act the same way toward coworkers who get promoted? Friends who get engaged?

I don't remember pointing a gun at anyone's head to make them comment on my blog ... The first post I ever did here, I was shocked that anyone read it.

TabithaElectra 37F

7/21/2006 3:03 am

I think it's crap that this person/persons have taken it upon themselves to cause these ructions. This comment thing you have set up, it is the only way to stop them from continuing to do this on your blog, but yet, it's still kind of a shame that you had to do this in the first place.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 11:11 am:

Do you think we could get that picture of you from a slightly different angle? Just turn to the right about 45 degrees ...

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
7/21/2006 3:18 am

Thank you for the invitation. It sucks it has to come to this. But as the comment tally is done by the month, you're not going to fall off the list anytime soon and after a look at her blog, she's not going to be making the list anytime soon.

Some people just have too much time on their hands.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 11:13 am:
I think you have to be a little nice to people who visit you if you want them to come back.

foghorn49 59M

7/21/2006 5:55 am

Keli, I am sorry that you had to take this measure, but I understand totally. I am new to the site and yet you have the generosity to include me in your network. I am honored. I have not spent enough time to see the trends and patterns that the veteran blogers do. It is a shame that there are people like that.

I do want to take this opportunity to let you know that blogers like you and others have been an eye opening experience for me. I came here with a certain preconceived notion about this site and found something totally different. It has helped me grow as a person and see people in a different light. thanks

Just keep doing what you do.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 11:14 am:
Yes, I spend my time on this site entirely differently than when I first signed up. It's a pretty amazing place!

rm_gorilla062 49M
232 posts
7/21/2006 6:04 am

the unfortunate part is they never go away...jealous bastards.. that is all they are.Makes me mad that someone couldbe so mean... makes me wanna peal them like a banana!

rm_JohnMacLaine 50M
585 posts
7/21/2006 6:18 am

Thanks for the invite Kelli, It IS a shame that it as to come to this, we all want new people to visit our blogs, and we all want them to commnt to make them feel welcome and not feel like outsiders. That is the one group this action will affect the most. But unfortunately, I understand why it had to be done. I have been involved with internet chat/message boards on several different sites forthe last 6+ years, and unfortunately each and every one are filled with these pathetic morons that feel they have to verbally attack someone simply because they feel there are no ramifications on the internet. My question to the violators would be how do you act in the "real" world, and is it a reflection of how you act here? My assumption would be no, because in the real world someone would have already kicked their ass.

Blog on Kel, I will continue to read..



"I can retain neither respect or affection for a government which has been moving from wrong to wrong in order to defend its own immorality" Mahatma Ghandi

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 11:15 am:
I assume the bitter, hateful attitude carried over from their real life. So very sad ...

JuicyBBW1001 54F

7/21/2006 6:46 am

Testing testing am I still on??? Listen kelli hun just tell me who the trash is and I will gladly sit on them and squash their fingers so they can't type such nonesense.
I personally enjoy your wit and charm and your ability to make others think. Your an awesome writer and a good friend to many on here. Please don't let one jealous person steal your thunder or your ability to come here and enjoy the interactions with us.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 11:17 am:
Oh, I don't like that image ... you'll get your skirt dirty!

Thanks, hon, and say hello to that beautiful daughter for me.

champagnechaser 41F
1639 posts
7/21/2006 7:18 am

I'm sorry you have to deal this bullshit from a bunch of assholes. These people need to get a life.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 10:37 am:
Hon, I need to get a life. If I was getting laid more regular, I wouldn't have all this time for blogging and the jealous bitch wouldn't have named me.

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
7/21/2006 8:10 am

Don't let them win Kel. Ahh, but you're probably right, it is a better idiot filter. It's just a shame that you have to put up with that. You're just gonna wind up with a hugh list of friends. Uncle Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 10:36 am:
Joe, I have a lot of friends. Just a lot of them never made it into my "network". I don't think the straight women were dying to see my photo albums. I really appreciate them, because I know they don't come here just to see my ass.

MillsShipsGayly 51M

7/21/2006 8:25 am

To all the assholes out there .....
by Tori Amos

Assholes are cheap today
Cheaper than yesterday
Small boys are half a crown
Standing up or lying down

Bigger ones for bigger dicks
Biggest ones for three-and-six
Get yours before their gone
Come now try one.

Come, come, come
Come, come, come,
Come, come, now try one

Now BE GONE, assholes !

sorry to hear of your troubs, kelli

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 10:33 am:
LMAO!!! Thanks! Just a tempest in a teapot.

sillyperv 54M

7/21/2006 8:46 am

Huh? Wha hoppen? You've pissed some people off? Really? Why? When? What'd I miss? I mean, sure, you drive me crazy, but then your picture always does. People have to learn to get a handle on things that make them edgy. From experience, I've found handling it a couple of times a week does the trick. The more extreme method to deal with this is a week of Dr Phil to become a happy drooler.
Pretty girl. Intelligence. Expressive. For a small minority that's a red flag!
Ole! Slay them at your leisure.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 10:32 am:
Some people are just bitter and unhappy, but I have no pity for people whose problems are self inflicted and feel the need to lash out at people they don't even know.


mickdevil 50M/52F
3496 posts
7/21/2006 9:51 am

ty for the invite to being able to post on your blog

I'm sorry that you had to go to this extreme because of dicks

Mick & Devil FWB
click me

Just Living Life

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 12:56 pm:
Me too.

blueguy1051 60M

7/21/2006 9:59 am

Well, Mr. IKnowItAllBecauseImSoSuperior has deleted his profile. It's too bad that trolls have more lives than a cat. If he had any integrity at all ~what did I say? ~, he'd have stuck around to fight. Wonder who the next victim for his new profile will be?

As for Ms. PMS who started the whole thing, she has posted that she's real as can be and not a cover for an old blogger with an axe to grind. That's her story, and she's stickin' to it.

Whatever. The amount of hostility she has shown in her posts, responses, and comments on others' blogs, pretty much guarantee she won't manage either of the things most people are here for. She won't build a readership, and she won't get laid unless she chases some poor sod down, beats him into unconsciousness, and him before he wakes up.

Blog on, my darling. You'll always have me to read your drivel.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 12:57 pm:
LMAO!!! Maybe I should forward some emails to her ... I have some candidates who might not run very fast.

Phuc_Buddy 46M

7/21/2006 10:23 am

I just wanted to stop by and say thanks for the invite and allowing me to post! I believe everyone has already told you this but honestly hon don't let the assholes get to you. Remember there are a great deal many more of us, who will defend you to the end, then there are of them.

You do whatever makes you happy and just know if you write it we will read it.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 10:27 am:
No matter what kind of 'twittering garbage' I write?

Thank you.

JuicyBBW1001 54F

7/21/2006 11:39 am

You write twittering garbage??? Why I never thought such a thing. And just because I am straight doesn't mean I can't fantasize about what it would be like to have an ass and a body like yours and some of the others. Ohh to be thin again.

And I will tell the diva in training aunt kelli says hello.


fmisvme 46M/36F

7/21/2006 12:36 pm

We were out of the loop for a few days and it appears the petulant posse has invaded. Hang in there...Blogville is a richer place with you in it. Keep up the good work!

Rock Chalk Jayhawk!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 12:55 pm:

Phuc_Buddy 46M

7/21/2006 1:23 pm

That's correct! No matter what twittering garbage you write!

You are welcome.

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
7/21/2006 1:58 pm

~warm hugz~

njoy your weekend....

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 2:55 pm:
You too.

For all the drama about "the list", reading your blog and a couple of others when I first came here was one of the reasons I started writing. You are truly inspirational.

cuteNEway 41F

7/21/2006 2:22 pm

OK I can understand wondering how some blogs are up there when they have little or no original content, but a flat out attack like that is uncalled for! Just like with the cliticals here's my support for you! you are great!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 3:52 pm:

That's enough to make me dizzy!

And incredibly humble. Thank you. I can't believe with all you've been going through you would take the time for me. Big hugs and sloppy kisses, sis.

HoopsPhymaUreal 41M
153 posts
7/21/2006 3:14 pm

Thanks for adding me Kelli!

I think we all know who the real attention whore is in all of this.

Love the new smileys!

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
7/21/2006 3:20 pm

Ok, now I figured out who it is, and read her blog. Gawd Kel, don't let a flea hound like that change your ways or your blog. She's so fucking clueless she thinks wistfull is a writer. As far as border collie or whatever, he's already gone, and would have been strung up if he didn't leave. Keep your blog open and free Darlin', don't let the bad guys win. You are well loved here. Uncle Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

bustybettyboop2 50F

7/21/2006 10:29 pm

the only problem i have on here is them deleting my profiles on here for no reason and never an explanation and then suddenly bringing it back the last time only to take it away again. i'm not sure if my old blog offended anyone or not. i can't imagine how id did..*sigh* but i haven't had what u have described. i'm sorry u had to go through that. i always enjoy reading your blog! hugz,busty

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/21/2006 10:57 pm:
Sometimes I don't know if it's incompetence and software bugs, or it's malicious people wanting to fuck with us. Amber has been having problems with her blog disappearing all week. Papy get booted so often it's sickening, and they can't figure out it's the same sick bitch reporting her over and over. ~sigh~

Hugs, and hope it gets better.

Kristofer32 46M

7/22/2006 7:19 am

Hey Kelli,

I am sorry that those of you who show up in the prominent positions on the "A-List" of bloggers are being molested by people who have that holier-than-thou spin on things. If you get specific info about any of them, send it my way...I get so much enjoyment from the posts of you and a very few others, any person who could take my daily relief would be the subject of my ire.

Thanks for sharing and sorry for the hassels.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/22/2006 9:08 am:
I've heard gripes about who is on the front page before, and there were different people there then, except for a few. I've never seen it get so nasty before. Hugs.

rm_Mr_Gaunt 43M

7/22/2006 12:06 pm

Uff, I am so glad to be here, thank you . I am only spoiling ... I mean, visiting three blogs with assiduity, and recently one dissapeared for a while, another ended half closed, and yours had to be restricted ... this is terrible.

And, about the recent mess, do you remember your post about the loneliness and the real life and friends? You probably have a real life and a real blog, funny sometimes, serious another. Enjoy your busy days and let the people without a proper life to waste theirs making stupid plots.


Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
7/22/2006 1:27 pm

Kelli, open your blog back up.

Assholes will always be there to harrass you, I've had my fair share of them myself. People don't want to put up the effort to get noticed and then get mad at those who have, leave them to there sickness and ignore it. You are better than that my friend.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 7/22/2006 1:37 pm:
It's open. I reserve the right to restrict it again, but I'm feeling a lot better now. Thanks.

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