How sexy do you dress?  

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
7027 posts
5/16/2006 6:00 pm

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How sexy do you dress?

When I'm at work, I dress very conservatively. Business suit, usually a skirt, though sometimes in winter I might wear slacks in very bad weather. It's not just expected, it's required. Men wear suits to the office every day.

But when I'm on my own time, I dress the way I feel comfortable. If I'm going out for the evening, I even get a bit naughty ...

I see a lot of women going out to bars dressed to where it would be difficult to tell them from hookers. A lot of young girls, even down to junior high age, are showing a lot of skin.

How suggestive are you comfortable with? How sexy would you go if you're out on the prowl? What is the most revealing thing you wear in public?

Most recent book read: "Sex, Lies, and Online Dating" by Rachel Gibson.

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
5/16/2006 7:02 pm

I tried to edit this post, and replace the pic after I found out it wouldn't expand, but editing doesn't seem to work either ...

GossipJunkie 40F

5/16/2006 7:04 pm

In my early 20s, it was all about "the shorter, the better" but since then I've learned that classy is better (and more successful) than trashy. I've also learned: cleavage or legs...not both simultaneously.

"Dance like nobody's watching"

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 6:14 am:
Words of wisdom ...

sleekmako 40F

5/16/2006 7:12 pm

after four kids most turtlenecks are too revealing for me

rm_suckssoftly 51F
6 posts
5/16/2006 7:13 pm

Dress is almost always about location. But what is beneath what seen publicly is another matter. It doesnt matter if your on your knees in church or on your knees elsewhere its what I wear close to my skin that makes me feel sexy

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 6:13 am:
I agree! Victoria's Secret under a business suit ... even if no one else knows!

MyRealLoverOne 45M

5/16/2006 7:21 pm

I wear a business suit during the day....but when play time cums...I go home and change from my boxers to my lacy thong.....

The most revealing thing I wear.....a hard on....

absolutelynormal 56F
6563 posts
5/16/2006 7:28 pm

I'll show cleavage but that's about it. I am a shy person by nature so I don't try to attract attention to myself. Mac

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 6:12 am:
Lovely lady, I'm sure you attract attention no matter how you're dressed!

ProFotoFreak 45M

5/16/2006 7:34 pm

"Clothes" like the "dress" in the pic you posted are horrible. It's like a train wreck; you don't want to look, but you have to.

I would be embarrassed to be seen with her.

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
5/16/2006 10:05 pm

I dress conservatively at work (dress shirt, tie, slacks)...

Casual when I'm out and about.....nice fitting jeans, comfortable fitting shirt....

I don't really have anything to flaunt, so I don't wear anything that would be considered 'revealing'....

NG61...fading back into the shadows...

reverend21 49M
1913 posts
5/16/2006 10:28 pm

i'll stick with jeans and a shirt, sorry shy country boy here

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
5/16/2006 10:36 pm

if i'm going out in public, i like to show a bit of cleavage, but keep some class. in private i'm prepared to go to extremes of sleaze... if a lover wanted me to dress sleazy and go out in public with him... i would have the confidence to do it, but not on my own!

[blog freelove999]

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 6:11 am:

Wordsmith2004 36M
7233 posts
5/16/2006 10:40 pm

shiiiiat....the Wordy looks totally fly in just about anything...I could make a friggin' smock look sexsaay!!

To put it....modestly

Conserve Water and Prevent Global Warming: Shower With A MILF!

alphuctup 40M

5/17/2006 1:09 am

I like you go out in nothing more than a pair of chaps and a stetson...that Christina what's her name is my fashion role model

_Adriane_ 47M

5/17/2006 2:12 am

I oersonally like to wear my favorite Armani suit when i go out, and I like to have my woman dressed really sexy. I enjoy knowing that everyone is looking at her and wanting her, but only I can have her. Dont get me wrong, I don't see her as a trophy, or boast with her, but it is simply enjoying the view of her. Why lock away a beautiful girl from the rest of the world?

curious082385 31F
4925 posts
5/17/2006 2:28 am

*looks again at the purple "dress"*

Well, I wouldn't ever go as revealing as that one, that's for sure. I think I'm with most of the other girls here...I'll show some cleavage or leg, but never too much of either. Always trying to walk that fine line between classy and sexy.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 6:10 am:
Honey, I'm sure you're always classy!

TabithaElectra79 37F

5/17/2006 3:39 am

I have no say in what I wear for work, when I'm at home it's comfort clothing all the way! When I go out I like something unusual, but nothing too revealing, I prefer to give glimpses rather than be the centerfold!!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 6:10 am:
I can't imagine you being anything other than the center of attention.

whats4dessert2 49M

5/17/2006 5:21 am

To work it's suit and tie. Suits are usually dark (very conservative company). However, even in my casual life I tend to wear dress pants and collared shirts Occasionally, I'll wear black jeans I only have one pair of blue denim jeans. I just always feel better when I'm dressed well. To me there's nothing sexier than a person who is dressed with class.

BTW Kel..congrats...I just now noticed that you're on the front page and all the way up at number 12.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 8:11 am:
A one-time phenomenon. I don't post regularly enough to stay there. It's due to the one post I made a couple of weeks ago.

GleesFlakyShawl 49M
1620 posts
5/17/2006 7:20 am

ladies who wear no undies are not sexy for me (except when its some kind of exhibitionist game)

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 8:10 am:
What I always wonder, if they don't wear panties, how do they keep their ankles warm?

papyrina 50F
21133 posts
5/17/2006 8:13 am

i'm fairly classic ,jeans and t shirt for work but now the summer months are nearly here my tops will get shorter and tighter,for evening i ususlly dress with a bit of clevage showing.

Me sexiest dress according to hubby is a long black summer dress,short sleaves,tightish boddice and long skirt it covers me up worse than the nun pic,but it touches and shows of all my curves,he loves it

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i'm here to stay

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 10:41 am:
I have a couple of LBDs that gentlemen seem to like a lot ... One is long with a deep slit and scoop neck that shows cleavage, the other is mid thigh with a choker neck. And yeah, it looks like I painted them on.

sillyperv 54M

5/17/2006 8:48 am

Class and elegance always stands out in a room and, unfortunately, in this "porn culture" not many woment know how to pull it off, particularly younger women. Personally, decent clothes without fuss, no rings or jewelry, or look like I'm trying too hard. God I'm old.

blueguy1051 60M

5/17/2006 9:38 am

Women are usually appreciative when I cover as much of my body as possible ...

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 10:37 am:
You can cover my body anytime ...

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
5/17/2006 10:53 am

Even if I had the body for it, I would rather die than wear that dress in the pic. Unless I'm going for kitsch value, then I'd wear it with giant granny panties.

I prefer modesty. I would say at least half my wardrobe is from Talbot's. I might show a bit of cleavage, but that's about it. Even in summer when I'm wearing a lot of gauze, I make sure I'm wearing a camisole underneath, no matter what the social situation.

Choozmi 50M

5/17/2006 10:58 am

How do I like to dress?

Frankly, if it's warm enough I love wearing shorts and a t-shirt. It's not about showing off but about being comfortable.

My "dress-up" clothes are fun to wear (good fabrics, good fit) but feel restrictive.

I have a couple of silk shirts that I really enjoy wearing, however, but that aren't always appropriate.

How do I like my dates to be dressed?

Hmmmm... That's a tough one. Quite often when I go out with women I don't know where I stand. I don't know whether the date is a precursor to a possible love or sexual relationship or a just-friends thing. One would think that I would get a clue about the relationship's potential nature from, among other things, the way my date dresses, but I've guessed wrong enough times that I no longer rely on that.

If I'm out with a woman with whom I'm already sexually and/or romantically involved, she can dress as sexy as she wants as long as she feels good about the way she looks. I would never want anyone to dress in a way they don't like simply for me.

It's fun if she gets attention from other people while she's with me as long as the attention isn't inappropriate. I take it as a compliment to both of us (her looks and my taste in women).

cobra70118 105M

5/17/2006 1:38 pm

When I work it's usually shorts, sleeveless shirt or cutoff or no shirt I prefer. Blue or violet-blue sweat band and blue sunglasses. Fingerless leather gloves, it's all gotta match. Belt's hangin low... the more sweat, the more saw dust, the more sun the sexier I feel. Woman seem to like it and that makes me feel even sexier...

DLiscious2 48M/42F

5/17/2006 1:44 pm

L always looks subtly sexy. Not sure how she does that, but it works. We know that because she gets hit on CONSTANTLY. And when she wants to kill 'em in the evening...well, I've seen packs of guys do triple takes when she struts into a lounge.

This coming Saturday, though, L will we wearing the most beautiful and alluring outfit she'll ever put on...her gorgeous wedding dress.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 5:14 pm:
Congratulations!!! {=}

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
5/17/2006 2:30 pm

Yeah, like ANYBODY would want me to wear something revealing! Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 5:15 pm:
Well, what about Carol?

kelly402005 52F

5/17/2006 7:45 pm

At work, it's scrubs!!
At home, whatever........ Just me and Bri here.
Off work, in public....... a little belly maybe, legs.......a little back. That's about it.......! It isn't bad for being 41, almost 42..... It's hot in TX.!

I would never do that, (pic)....... I tend to think that is a bit too much!!!

Thank God!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 10:44 pm:
LOL!!! I'm not sure the lacings are long enough to go around my ass!

norprin5 55M

5/17/2006 8:00 pm

job 1, no choices...job 2 or out & about, jeans, t or sportshirt...but then again, i've been known to show up at the post office in pajama pants... for special occasions, i have a suit...

and for those extra special evenings, i have the cutest little black dress!

King Nor XVIII

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 10:45 pm:
Pics! We want pics!!!!

caressmewell 53F

5/17/2006 8:31 pm

I usually show a bit of cleavage when going out for the evening but I always choose classy clothes to wear.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/17/2006 10:46 pm:
That's because you're a very classy lady! {=}

puntachueca 105M

5/18/2006 11:56 am

Interesting cultural differences.

In Mexico is is much more common to see a young lady in a short skirt and tight top even at work. But it is a "look don't touch" culture. One must learn to appreciate the art involved in dressing sensually. But there is no implication that the dress style means anything beyond the lady has a fine sense of appreciation of her femininity.

In the US anything tight, short, revealing or provocative is presumed to mean "I'm available". And then the lady gets hit on.

Too bad. American men are stupid. And this creates all sorts of unnecessary problems for ladies who like to dress through all ranges of possibilities to express their sense of themselves as some of the other comments indicate.

pepon588 30M
1 post
5/20/2006 6:30 pm

    Quoting DLiscious2:
    L always looks subtly sexy. Not sure how she does that, but it works. We know that because she gets hit on CONSTANTLY. And when she wants to kill 'em in the evening...well, I've seen packs of guys do triple takes when she struts into a lounge.

    This coming Saturday, though, L will we wearing the most beautiful and alluring outfit she'll ever put on...her gorgeous wedding dress.
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rm_agathon12 46M
1311 posts
5/21/2006 12:30 pm

I'm rather surprised that no one else has mentioned this but an attractive woman in a "power suit" is an incredibly sexy thing. It's all about confidence and nothing radiates confidence quite like a well-tailored DKNY suit with a fabulous blouse under it; maybe just one button unbuttoned to show a slight bit of skin below the neck. Of course, the person wearing it has to be able to carry it off but that's the way with anything.

soloporprobar 41M
11 posts
5/23/2006 5:53 am

    Quoting rm_kelli4u2dew:
    I tried to edit this post, and replace the pic after I found out it wouldn't expand, but editing doesn't seem to work either ...
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eroticbettyboop 50F

5/27/2006 10:27 pm

i am told i dress alittle too slutty. mainly cleavage but no matter what i wear i have cleavage. i also dress in my own style. very unique. unfortunately i'm told i don't dress my age..but how do u dress your age? i don't think i dress slutty in a hooker way. but i do like skirts and a low cut shirt,my chokers and funky jewelry..maybe even throw in combat boots or go-go boots..i dress fun and unique. but thats my personality and if i suddenly dressed like a church lady my friends and family would say,"where'd lisa go?" lol!

soloporprobar 41M
11 posts
11/20/2006 10:24 pm

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