Do I need a haircut?  

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
7027 posts
5/11/2006 9:24 pm

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Do I need a haircut?

A friend took this picture last weekend. I know that my hair has been a real pain to deal with lately, but I didn't realize it had gotten so long, or that it looked so ratty.

The one nice thing is that with the weight it tends to straighten it out ...

So, what should I do, get a haircut, or do something else with it? It can't stay like this, it's driving me crazy.

Any suggestions?


rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
5/11/2006 9:48 pm

ARE YOU INSANE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its beautiful!!! Just put it up in a ponytail and quit yer bitchin


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/11/2006 9:54 pm:
I'm only thinking about taking a foot off. Liana, it's HEAVY!!!!

rm_Shortdogg65 51M
672 posts
5/11/2006 9:49 pm

It would be a real crying shame to cut that beautiful hair. Have you concidered braiding it? Shortdogg


HandsomeJimToy2 55M
19 posts
5/11/2006 9:51 pm

I think it looks nice. However, if it's driving you crazy, cut it. Worst case, you don't like it and have to wait for it to grow back in a few months. Best case, you like it and all men wish they could take you to dinner. If you cut it, you'll probably wind up somewhere in the middle. You think it's "just OK", and only half the men wish they could take you to dinner. But that's still a pretty good outcome.


TickleMeBBW 36F

5/11/2006 9:52 pm

I reckon your hair is beautiful, if your gonna chop it off, can I have it???

Kisses and licks, Tickles


rm_albafan 32M
11 posts
5/11/2006 10:14 pm

Hhhmmm... maybe trim it to like what you got in your pic!
Cos that's HOTTT!!!

Unless you want something different then maybe straigthen it out and get it styled.


rm_LoyalCumpany 46M
3204 posts
5/11/2006 10:22 pm

Cut it and auction the remains here. Just think of the money you'd make.

I am JoJo the Circus Boy!


Wordsmith2004 36M
7233 posts
5/11/2006 10:32 pm

Beehive??

LOL

Seriously, I'd say slice it off up to about the middle of your back...otherwise you lose the beauty of the bouncy curls...not to mention length gives better grip for a proper hand-hold from behind...

wait....did I just type that last part out
loud?



lol

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goodatpoetry2 66M
12400 posts
5/11/2006 10:38 pm

I'd have to see your face to tell. Really, not a joke.
Maybe just wear it in a long pony-tail. You'd still have the weight, but it would be less in the way.


Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
5/11/2006 11:14 pm

Get a trim, Kelli....imho, a foot is a bit much.

btw...my hair is as long as yours...and it has been longer...donated 18 inches to Locks of Love

NG61...fading back into the shadows....


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/11/2006 11:19 pm:
That's a good idea! Thanks!

When it's wet and straight, it hits my hips. I think a foot would be about right. It grows about 6" a year.

curious082385 31F
4925 posts
5/12/2006 12:19 am

I think it is beautiful, but I totally understand about it being heavy. Mine is about 4 or 5 inches shorter then yours and really really thick. I can't pull it up into a ponytail anymore because the wieght of it gives me a headache. Same with yours? I like the length that it is in your profile picture.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/12/2006 7:05 am:
Exactly. When I was 16, it came to my knees. My braid was thicker than my wrist, and I had constant headaches. The doctors couldn't figure out why, then another girl said, "Duh! try cutting your hair."

rm_gentlewolves 41M/44F

5/12/2006 12:21 am

personally, we think your hair looks great, but afterall, it is your hair. We are sure that you would be beautiful even if all your hair were gone. With hair that long, a foot isn't THAT much. you will look great either way. There is only so much time that you have available to put into it each day. If you are looking for options to getting rid of it, we could french braid it for you - well, just a thought. Hope you like it - no matter what you decide.


Babel__Fish 45F

5/12/2006 12:53 am

Don't cut it... it is beautiful! I have long hair as well and I just put it in a ponytail

*HUGS*
Babel


TabithaElectra79 37F

5/12/2006 1:20 am

It looks fantastic, but I'd go with trimming it, not too much though, I always get really shocked with how mine looks, even if just a few inches are sliced off!! When it gets too long I kind of wind it up on top of my head and keep it in place with pens, chopsticks, toothbrushes, forks, whatever is at hand ~ it's now a running joke in my family about what I'll have in my hair!


im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
5/12/2006 1:35 am

6 - 9 inches would be fine. What is wrong with curls for heavens sake? Do you know how many women would kill to have long curly hair with your colour. If they found out yours was all natural they would possibly kill you with looks alone, jealousy in a woman is a bad, bad thing.

I can't beleieve I'm giving hair advice. After growing up with a hair stylist for a mother I've spent 25 years of my life trying to avoid the subject of hair. Sighs.


papyrina 51F
21133 posts
5/12/2006 2:09 am

a good trim and ask if its possible to layer it while keeping the length,it should make it lighter and not ruin the actual look .
Love the colour


I'm a

and
i'm here to stay


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/12/2006 7:08 am:
It was layered, which will give you an idea how long it's been since I did anything with it ...

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
5/12/2006 4:09 am

wow! it's beautiful!



[blog freelove999]


sexyariesgirl 57F

5/12/2006 4:26 am

Your hair is gorgeous...I can only imagine how heavy it must be though. I've always wished mine were thicker...mine is thin and I have trouble doing anything with it...so I'm envious! lol Why not ask your stylist? Cause God knows I have NO idea what the right thing to do would be! lol

Power To FOK


Kristofer32 46M

5/12/2006 4:40 am

So...are you really going to do what all the comments here collaborate to say? Or is Kelli going to do it her own way anyway? Your hair is probably some of the nicest I have seen, but you have seen my hair cut, I cannot even begin to appreciate what it would be like to have to pack the weight of that around. It is very nice, and since it is natural, something many people (I almost said women, then realized my brother alters his more than most) cannot say, it would be a shame to see it go away. Trim it for neatness, but don't lose the curls, they are keepers!


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/12/2006 7:11 am:
Losing the curls isn't an option. I'd have to use chemicals on it, and shudder I won't do that! when I cut it, it'll look like I got a perm when there's less weight.

JuicyBBW1001 54F

5/12/2006 4:41 am

If you have to cut it consider donating the pony tail too Locks of Love. It is a non profit organization that makes wigs for people who have lost their hair to chemo. But I think it is beautiful the way it is.

Juicy


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/12/2006 7:11 am:
That's what NightGuy said. I think that's a great idea!

Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

5/12/2006 4:59 am

Since your being anti bald and do what I did.. I would think to go even with your shoulders blades would be a good length. Yet listening to a guy about your hair could be a mistake.

I like your hair, ya could whip around and hurt somebody..


fantasylover_05 62M

5/12/2006 5:39 am

I appologize that this is not appropriate for this post, but I want to tell you how I feel about YOU!!

[post 344183]


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/12/2006 7:13 am:
Honey, that's one type of spam anyone can leave here!

sillyperv 54M

5/12/2006 7:30 am

BLAH! BLAH! BRAG! BRAG! BRAG! "I ONLY WANT TO TAKE OFF A FOOT". I HOPE A FLOCK OF HORNY BATS GET TANGLED IN THERE FOR A WEEK!

(um, do bats "flock'?)


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/12/2006 8:26 am:
You do say the sweetest things ...

Intensity4U 52M
7432 posts
5/12/2006 7:42 am

Wow KelliDew, it's driving me crazy too. Keep it!


MaggiesWishes 59F

5/12/2006 9:14 am

Beautiful! AND most women would "die" for that color ...

I remember having to cut my daughter's hair, it was down to her thighs, and that length gave her headaches, no matter what style we tried.
You cut or trim, what you think you need to. I do believe that in order to donate to "Locks of Love" you have to have no less than 8-12 inches. Go online and check out the website for more information.
Mine is long, thick ... but I have it thinned out when I do get a cut. That has helped over time.

warm huggies to you Sweet Sis


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/13/2006 6:26 pm:
What color? It's brown! ???

Yeah, thinned or layered seems to work best.

phangasm2003 105M

5/12/2006 9:52 am

I think it looks great, just needs a little trimming up. Maybe 4-6 inches? That's using a woman's ruler, not a man's ruler...


rm_gorilla062 49M
232 posts
5/12/2006 10:04 am

Leave it long... it looks sexy... maybe a trim ans shape up with it would be ok, but leave as much length as possible.... looks super hot!!!


funtimes4176 40M

5/12/2006 11:26 am

hey hun-YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS!!!!! DON'T TOUCH A THING!

FUNTIMES4176


DLiscious2 48M/42F

5/12/2006 11:42 am

L says: It takes eons for me to dry my hair in the morning. D blow dries his hair for, like, four seconds, messes it up with gel in another two seconds. Done. In my next life I'm coming back as a man. Shorten it, I sympathize.

D says: My favorite length is L's, which is to the lower edge of one's shoulder blades. That looks great on just about everybody. You probably would look cute in a short office style haircut, too.

DLiscious2


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/13/2006 6:25 pm:
Yeah! My hair won't dry between showering and going to work. I wash it the night before and wrap it in a towel.

Short? I had it cut to my shoulders once ... stuck out about a foot past my shoulders. A big, unruly mop that I was constantly fighting. If it's too short to braid, I'll go all the way to shaved.

rm_macallan4u 46M
968 posts
5/12/2006 1:23 pm

Love the colour, love the length! But how does it feel?


caprio99 52M
3 posts
5/12/2006 2:37 pm

Time to cut, cut, cut, etc. You have great hair but you are much more beautiful when it's less. Was that Uncle It in the pix? Just joking.

Keep being beautiful and intelligent.


EroticaXTC 49F

5/12/2006 4:22 pm

Wow!I really love your hair, but I can understand about it being a pain...I have to wear mine up in my job, for good reason, and I doubt I would let mine get quite so long...I'm going to assume your hair is naturally curly like mine, well, maybe yours is curlier, so any amount you cut off will shrink it up, making it look shorter than what it really is...
I wouldn't go shorter than your profile pic, unless you just want short hair...I think a few inches below the shoulder blades still looks "neat", and will still keep enough weight on it to keep some of the curly/frizzies down...
I don't know if that helps you any or not


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/13/2006 6:22 pm:
Yes, that's kinda what I'm thinking. If I cut it real short, it would become completely unmanageable. Like a curly fright wig, going in every direction.

Perchance2000 57M

5/12/2006 4:24 pm

No, you don't need it from the point of looks, indeed your hair is - as most have put it - quite lovely (English understatement of the day) - and that's why so many suggest that you don't - but there is quite a bit of self-interest in the commentators.

But then there is the part of feeling good about it - vanity must suffer, don't they say? Nobody should - and that makes fantasylover's comment so astute. Don't let yourself be abused - by your thinking too much as to how others might find you. Rather, experiment - and take it step by step, having cut as much at a time that you feel comfortable you can grow back in a comfortable time frame. You may be surprised and find yourself liking short hair (no, I'm not talking shaved, of course - but even that may be something interesting to consider).

I hope you won't take offense. What does a man know about hair anyway - unless he is like Nightguy, who has just the most amazing and attractive hair style - for a gentleman!


rm_1hotwahine 62F
21091 posts
5/12/2006 5:06 pm

It's gorgeous, but I hear ya.

Blunt cut, right below like, armpit length. But not talking about armpit hair, lol.

It'll still be long, still have weight, but will have more movement to it.

Then later if you want to get some layers cut into you can, but if it's curly, this will probably work best.

But yeah, it's really beautiful.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/13/2006 6:20 pm:
I think I like this suggestion. It's been years since I had it this way, and if I don't like it, I can go back and get it layered. Yeah! Thanks!

jd29992z 54M
3888 posts
5/12/2006 7:31 pm

It is beautiful there is something about long hair but I bet it is heavy and a pain to clean. And if you cut it a little it will grow back it is hair you know. So if it is more comfortable with it a little shorter go for it I bet you will still be a HOTTIE!! See you JD


rm_bk2nrml 57M

5/12/2006 9:18 pm

i think its absolutely gorgeous, but, if you do cut it 6 inches or more, give it to the kids cancer center. they take it and make little wigs for kids going thru chemo. they will tell you where you can go and get it done free.
love the color too.

a.j.


olderisheaven2 37M

5/13/2006 1:52 am

no, hunny your hair is amazing, firstly its red so thats 2 points there, and long to i would run my fingers through it till you went to sleep.......can i??????? i can only imagine how it smells.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/13/2006 6:18 pm:
Red? Huh? It's BROWN. Well, maybe it has some highlights, but it's definitely not red ... ????

olderisheaven2 37M

5/13/2006 1:55 am

before you cut it, if you decide to, id love to play in it and give you a head rub, even if you fell asleep n we didnt have sex.


Choozmi 50M

5/13/2006 12:13 pm

I love your hair but the thing I kept coming back to is your cute waist! The shape and the way it gently curves inward and back out it's just so... I just want to play it like a violin...

Sorry, lost my mind for a moment. Back now.


MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
5/13/2006 1:47 pm

Ratty looking? Have you lost your mind? Your hair is gorgeous. Trim the ends and leave it. I know curly hair can be a bitch, but your hair is gorgeous.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/13/2006 6:17 pm:
Lost my mind? LOL! I think that has been suggested before once or twice ...

ProFotoFreak 45M

5/13/2006 2:36 pm

Both I and my daughter have thick curly hair which I had to deal with on a daily basis, so I do sympathize. But from strictly a looks perspective, that hair is stunning!


TJloves2pleasure 40M
3 posts
5/13/2006 8:05 pm

Hello, I would recommend doing three things. Cut your hair about 5 to 6 inches shorter (a little below the arm pit area) so that your hair has a straight cut across. I think the shorter hair (but not to short) will give your hair more life so when you're walking around it will have more bounce and a more energetic look. The shorter hair will be very sexy when playing sports or blowing in the air or other activities.

Secondly from the picture it appears you have wavy hair (curly but not that curly) from around ears and below... I would continue that curl throughout all of your hair. I think that would give a nice even look so starting at the top with a more wavy look, but this could simply be not being able to see that well from the pic.

Lastly I would recommend doing a little darker highlights throughout your hair. The auburn is a very pretty color but I think a the mixture of the auburn and gentle highlights (not very dark) would give your hair a perfect touch.

Just my two cents!! Cheers!


mangomamiCT 41F

5/13/2006 8:51 pm

Firstly - I am plum amazed that all these men have so many opinions on hair , LOL , I am thinking "It's Bangin " from a certain male hair celebrity

Secondly - I am against cutting it , at all !!! If you must ,trim it .It is stunning !!! Honest !!


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/13/2006 9:07 pm:
I'm amazed too! I expected more comments from women.

sickofthegames 41M
33 posts
5/13/2006 11:17 pm

Oh what the heck, your hair is causing so much of a commotion amongst blog land that I too will offer up a suggestion. Cut it at the shoulder blades to keep some weight to stretch out some of those lovely curls. If your lochs would not so tightly wound I would even suggest to keep it shoulder length. I was a long hair once, but that's another story I can sympathize with the time needed to upkeep your hair.
You will be able to cut time on washing, brushing and of course drying it. Let us not forget that summer is already here and you will benefit more from having less to trap that warm air.
Whatever you decide to do please don't get bangs! Forget not to share with us the results of your decision.


im_curious_4u 50M

5/13/2006 11:32 pm

Well I'm in the majority here, I like your hair, but since you need to do something go ahead and get it cut. I agree with the idea of Locks of Love if you decide to take a lot off. It's nice to see I wasn't the first to bring it up. Whatever you decide, I'm sure it will look great.


boydcounty 67M

5/14/2006 12:19 am

I love the hair. I could spend hours tangled up in it!!

-boydcounty-


rm_IMHOTEP0069 42M
21 posts
5/14/2006 7:58 am

more important, do you want a hair cut? ok mine is a bit extreme but a few inches is no big deal. yes it looks great but we all need a bit of a change from time to time.


rm_sexxielynn 52F
72 posts
5/14/2006 12:13 pm

MissAnn said it before me, but "ratty" is not a word I would use to describe that beautiful head of hair. I have fine, thin hair - poker straight, would love to trade with you.

My opinion is the same as many have suggested, cut it to about your shoulder blades, and donate the locks to a charity. (or to some poor woman with fine, thin, poker straight, truly brown like dirt hair) LOL


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/14/2006 10:22 pm:
Do you know how many times I have wished for straight hair?

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
5/14/2006 12:58 pm

Long yes, ratty NO! I personally LOVE long hair on a woman, so of course I opt for leave it alone. But you gotta feel good about it, so whatever you do, I KNOW you'll look fantastic. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."


wicked6711 47M

5/14/2006 5:35 pm

Beauty, intelligence, and spunk...very nice. Your hair is gorgeous. I would leave it just as it is. I truly enjoyed reading your musings. I shall return....Have a good night.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/14/2006 10:21 pm:
You only like my musings? Not my gripes and whines?

caressmewell 53F

5/14/2006 8:17 pm

Grins...you realize that you look like a red head in your picture???

Get it trimmed and thinned out a bit..maybe a couple of inches taken off might help with the weight. Your hair is beautiful but you also need to feel comfortable.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/14/2006 10:18 pm:
I guess I have some red highlights, the picture was taken in full sunlight, but believe me, it's BROWN.

blueguy1051 60M

5/14/2006 9:17 pm

Just shave it and get it over with.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/14/2006 10:19 pm:


You're in trouble!

kelly402005 52F

5/14/2006 9:34 pm

So, you are a redhead too! Girl!
Colorado redheads!
I have to luv ya!!!
Do what you want. It's your hair. It's beautiful though.
Thanks for all of the hippie tips!

Have a good night girlfriend,
Alene


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/14/2006 10:20 pm:
It's NOT red!!!! It's BROWN!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/14/2006 10:21 pm:
I wish it was red ...

rm_xxxtheline 53M

5/14/2006 11:01 pm

I think it looks fantastic, and it beautifully accents the cut of your coat (nice waist).
Until a few moments ago I thought it looked great shorter, as I've imagined it from your blog photo.

Cut a little off...
If you like it you can think about more,
If you hate it you can let it grow.
It's not B&W, there's a lot of shades of gray (or should I say auburn) in the world.


rm_Uschar 52M
11 posts
5/15/2006 11:26 am

In the name of all that is holy PLEASE leave the hair long!!! Pretty please?


rm_bigguy35957 51M

5/15/2006 3:43 pm

well miss k. I have to say that your hair is some of what fantasies are made of. so very lovely to look at, so wonderful to touch and play with. But then again, from the look of the photos, I don't think you would have any trouble with any look you chose. Love the insightful blogs.


rm_atta_girl 45F
219 posts
5/16/2006 6:26 am

sure looks beautiful


norprin5 55M

5/17/2006 7:54 pm

if my vote matters, then please don't cut it...trim if you must, but it's beautiful!

King Nor XVIII


uandmeknow 54M
10 posts
5/19/2006 8:56 pm

Please don't cut it it wonderful sexy wow please don't>>>>.....


rm_yandhar 51M
13 posts
5/21/2006 3:31 am

long and curled hair is the beauty of female,this also adds,agood persnality and atteraction,for other persons,wether male or female. so dont cut your good looking hairs,this is a GOD gifted beauty,try to save them. oil your hair with olive oil, after one hour, take abath.your hairs become more dence and bright.


ShaneLiveLife 50M

5/23/2006 4:02 am

Come on everyone,

lets get straight to the point:

a) you have beautiful hair

b) you should not cut it

Can life really be this complicated ?

Live with passion !


FunFlirty4u 45F

5/23/2006 10:37 am

It doesn't look ratty. Why not just a little trim.


CrashnBern 58F

5/23/2006 4:50 pm

If you cut your hair why not donate it to the organization that makes wigs out of real hair for cancer victims.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/23/2006 4:57 pm:
I did. See the follow on post.

LustfulAntics 31M

5/24/2006 12:16 am

your hair does look great, but i think it would be better if it was about shoulder length.


playfulcali_cpl 40
2 posts
5/24/2006 12:59 pm

[SIZE 6]Noooooooo!!!! don't cut it looks GREAT


rm_ClitPumper1 49M
273 posts
5/24/2006 1:18 pm

DON'T CUT YOUR HAIR

JUST SHAVE YOUR PUSSY BARE !!!!


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/24/2006 5:49 pm:
You first! And then keep doing it every day to keep the nubs from driving you crazy! After two weeks, come back and we'll continue this conversation.

lightswitch1963 68M/53F

5/24/2006 4:30 pm

We think your hair is beautiful. If you really want a cut, go have enough cut for locks of love. I wish I had hair like that.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 5/24/2006 5:49 pm:
See following post.

friendly_girl06 34F
2 posts
5/24/2006 4:49 pm

Your hair is very beautiful, but on the other hand it would be annonying at times - just like mine is. I do have long hair, just not as long as yours. Have you thought about donating hair to the Cancer Foundation? They'll be greatly appreciative of your hair!!


rm_evedavgl1500 54M/51F
1 post
5/24/2006 10:20 pm

i'm a hairdresser and think u should take around five inches of to even it all. no more u'll waiste it. ur hair is beautifull....


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