Dear Joan - a letter for the Hall of Shame  

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
7028 posts
9/8/2006 4:17 am

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Dear Joan - a letter for the Hall of Shame

My friend W has been "dating" a guy she met on this friendly site since last November. Both have very full work schedules, and he travels sometimes for his job, but they probably sleep in the same bed 3-4 times a week on average. She is deeply in love with him.

This is the guy she invited me to share with her when I was in Kentucky for the Derby last spring.

She was expecting him to escort her to L's wedding a couple of weeks ago. He was out of town on business the week before the wedding, and she had trouble getting hold of him. He wasn't answering his cell or returning messages, didn't reply to her emails. She couldn't figure out what was going on.

Two days before the wedding, she got this email:

I'm not going to be able to make it to L's wedding. Sorry for the late notice. I know I should tell you this in a different way but I'm getting married Saturday in Vegas. I thought I loved you but I want kids and I don't think your ready for that. I met a woman who wants to have kids and shes pregnant now for 6 weeks and we want to get married. Sorry.

So, in addition to everything else that was going on that week, weird meeting with Mr. Europe, getting ready for the wedding, dealing with L's last minute nerves, both L and I were trying to comfort W, who would seem ok for awhile and then just start crying. We were secretly afraid she might break down during the wedding.

Instead, thanks to some good Kentucky bourbon and a couple of joints (for her and L, I don't smoke weed), she went on a wanton rampage during the reception, seducing the best man, and getting drunk.

What's the worst breakup message you ever got? Have you ever shafted someone on short notice? What do you think about Dear John/Joan emails?

Kneeling Woman
sculpture by Gina Novendstern

fantasylover_05 62M

9/8/2006 4:23 am


That is HORRIBLE!!! Absolutely HORRIBLE!!

I can't even begin to think about something like that!!! That is just plain unbelievable!

I am deeply sorry for W!!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 7:38 pm:
Some people have no class.

JuicyBBW1001 54F

9/8/2006 4:37 am

First of all any man or woman for that matter who sends an email to break up with someone is a coward in my book.
Secondly as bad as it hurts now for W at least she can get over him in time and move on to someone who will appreciate her for her. Especially since he sent an email. The man obviously has no class and I can imagine that if W is a tried and true friend of yours she oozes with class.
Cheer up W there are more frogs in the frog pond just don't kiss the ones with warts.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 7:39 pm:
Cheer up W there are more frogs in the frog pond just don't kiss the ones with warts.

Have any candidates?

Mike_4_FWB 50M  
79 posts
9/8/2006 4:45 am

That's just plain wrong on sooooooooo many different levels. W has my sympathy as I've been there too.
Worst break up message - a telephone call from "D" who told me that other than sex, there wasn't anything I could do for her. She needed more "security". I found out that 6 weeks later she married a guy who owned a Harley dealership......
I've never shafted someone on short notice. Say what you mean, mean what you say always works.
Dear John/Joan e-mail are for chickens. Man (or woman) up and be honest - it won't kill you........

JazzDlight 59F

9/8/2006 4:50 am

OMG for once I do not know what to say..please give W a big ole hug from me. I know what she is feeling right now as I am going through the same thing. Hugs, Jazz

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 7:45 pm:
I'm sorry to hear it. Men can be such shits sometimes.

woofff 41F

9/8/2006 4:59 am

That is such a lowlife. Yuck. She's better off without him...she'l hurt though.

I'm so glad she's got solid friends behind her.[post 492369] <----- thats my Dear Joan letter!


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:01 pm:
Yeah, that's pretty bad. Hugs, Woofff.

Breathelessbimbo 49F

9/8/2006 5:23 am

That is a really shitty thing for one person to do to another.

I hope the baby isnt his after all & his wife to be is the local bike & has been ridden by everyone in the neighbourhood.

What a waste of DNA some people are.

Give your friend a hug from me.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:02 pm:
You have an evil mind! I like it!

EroticaXTC 50F

9/8/2006 5:24 am

I have to agree with Mike_Hardmann..that is sooo wrong!!! Give W a big hug for me{=}

I can't say that I've every received anything quite as cold, callous, and crass as that, though I have received a "Dear John" email
When it comes to love and a relationship, some sort of inkling to where one's thoughts are going should at least be attempted at first. To just drop someone out of the blue, and it is out of the blue for the other person, is just care-less. Making the choice for the other person without at least giving them the opportunity to mutually bow out is so unfair!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:04 pm:
I was even fooled by him. Blue was the only one who saw through him, and of course he never said anything to W, only to me. Some guys ...

mysticdreamangel 61F
2759 posts
9/8/2006 5:25 am

    Quoting JazzDlight:
    OMG for once I do not know what to say..please give W a big ole hug from me. I know what she is feeling right now as I am going through the same thing. Hugs, Jazz
I am at a lose for words myself! Give W that big ole hug...okay!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:04 pm:

rm_PeanutJackie 36F
1286 posts
9/8/2006 5:32 am

Holy crap, that's just horrible!!

A few years back, I had a guy I was dating break up with me in a number of emails over the span of a week. Just last weekend I was cleaning out my glove box in my car and came across these emails. It was so pathetic when I look back at it now. He was 25 and acting like a child. Couldn't even work up the nerve to end things to my face.

Men. Can't live with them, sure can't shoot em!

"I am beautiful no matter what you say, words can't bring me down. So don't you bring me down today."

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:06 pm:
Yeah, I know. Maybe if we lobby our congress we can get a season where hunting them is legal ...

rm_skyeone2 64M/45F
7186 posts
9/8/2006 5:41 am

Now that is nasty, what a jerk. As for the woman he's going to marry, sounds like she needs a little heads up on how this man screws around. Your friend is obviously much better off without him.

Good luck to your friend, and it's sure nice that she has you and others supporting her, and helping her out!

Blessed Be

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:07 pm:
Well, I don't know her, so I won't pass judgement. I do hope she knows what she's getting into.

IamWetFire 52F

9/8/2006 6:00 am

That is beyond horrible! Skye's right that it was great you two could be there for her.

What's the worst breakup message you ever got? Have you ever shafted someone on short notice? What do you think about Dear John/Joan emails?

I'd been engaged to a Navy pilot for about six months. This is the only time in my life I've ever be in love, despite having been married previously. Well, he was moving heaven and earth during that SARs epidemic back in 2003 to fly me to one of the inports so that we could spend some time together. At last it managed to happen and he dropped more than $10K on my trip to Singapore, putting me up in a suite in a 5-star resort, with all the trimmings. I got there the day before his carrier pulls into port. He got in early the next morning. We basically devoured each other for several hours, then as we're laying there naked, he announces that he doesn't love me at all. He'd only been in love with the idea of me and that he was returning to his ex-wife for the sake of their kids. He then got his sexy Aryan God ass out of the bed, said he was hungry and started getting dressed.

Yes. . .I felt like jumping off the top of the highest effing building in Singapore right at that moment.

Long, winding story to short, I was dumped after 5 more days of very vigorous and STUNNING sex--the best I've had in my life, unfortunately--and he did get back with the ex. . .only to leave again a month later.

About 6 months later, in the middle of the night and with no warning, he turned up on my doorstep. He loved me, missed me, yaddah yaddah yaddah. Right. Of course I wasn't going to let him know I was dying to have him back with me. I played it cool and soon found he'd learned nothing from breaking my heart the first time. So. . .I dear johned him. And it was NOT pretty. We've since had no real contact to speak of and he leaves with his kids for Germany later this year.

Oh, dear but that hurt. I still miss him. Still love him. And still hate like hell he was daffy enough to do something like that to the both of us. The Navy lets him fly a $60 million jet, but he's a complete pantload at interpersonal relationships.

Go figure.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:08 pm:
Sounds like a guy with major issues.

PlaynAgain 54F

9/8/2006 6:15 am

Damn! Hugs to W! In time, she'll be glad he's gone...

"Attitude is everything. Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle. Live simply, Love generously, Care deeply, Speak kindly. Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, It's about learning to dance in the rain."

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:08 pm:
I think she already is ... doesn't make it hurt less.

caressmewell 53F

9/8/2006 6:32 am

Breaking up with someone, in any form other than in person, is simply wrong and speaks volumes about the kind of person he or she really is.

W's so much better off without this man. Sending hugs to both of you.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:10 pm:
Hugs to you.

IAmRubytuesday 55F
3193 posts
9/8/2006 6:56 am

please read [post 499804]

Q.2 flies in an airing cupboard. Which one's the soldier?
A.The one on the tank.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:17 pm:
Poor Dorothy!

You're bad!!!!!

Camshafter007 49M

9/8/2006 7:51 am

Cowardly..! And just a low life scum.

1. Always break up face to face.
2. He should have broke it off long before, if his wife to be was 6 weeks pregnant.
3. "W" can do much better, but it will take time.
4. Gotta love that Kentucky Bourboun.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:21 pm:
Four rules to live by ...

TrapsTomesSteed 42M
202 posts
9/8/2006 8:40 am

Damn, that sucks. Makes you want to grab the guy by the neck and press on his adam's apple til he stops breathing. Shitty thing to happen to anyone, but particularly to someone you're close to. Sorry to hear.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:25 pm:
My inclination would be to grab him somewhere else and choke the shit out of that part of his anatomy.

toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
9/8/2006 9:07 am

what he did was just horrible. the letter is a horrible way to break up. i think it's worse that he led her on.
honestly, i find it worse to disappear without a letter. to just leave the other wondering... not knowing if you are alive or dead... and though i'd rather not go into it here, there was once something that happened to me that was far worse than what happened to wendy.please give her my warmest hug.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:31 pm:
Since they share common friends, I don't think the disappearing act would have worked, but I wonder if he thought about it.

rm_SweetSTcpl 51M/49F

9/8/2006 9:46 am

Yea...assholes are everywhere (could be a man or a woman)

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:41 pm:
Very true.

rm_KingEdain 46M
1848 posts
9/8/2006 10:06 am

Damn that guy turned into a jerk......... Sorry for your friend.... hope every thing works out good for her. Been catching up on my reading of your post..... Haven't been stopping by like I should... sorry bout that..... been busy. Sounds like your work is getting scary..... can we say international espionage. hope not.... watch your back and be careful there. Was wondering if I could do a story for you? Stop by my blog and take a look.... let me know if it is ok to add you into one.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:55 pm:
To one what? Poem? You don't need my permission to write.

AughtMusedSpill 48M

9/8/2006 10:36 am

What an ass...and that doesn't even cover it. It was said before, but it truly takes a vile, despicable coward to send an email or even a phone call to break up with someone, especially after that length of time. And to make it her fault is the absolute lowest. I'm digusted beyond description.

I don't know W at all but she sounds like a real peach and definitely a true friend to you. She deserves way better, and I'm sure you'll be able to help her through this. I'm sitting here shaking my head still. Unbelievable.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 8:56 pm:
She's the best, and she's beautiful. I don't know what is wrong with him.

rm_smosmof2 67M
3240 posts
9/8/2006 11:24 am

I know that I alway busily proclaim that everybody lets other people down at some time or another, but that's a particularly crappy way of doing it under any circumstances.

Yeah, W's better off without him, but shit, the man should be keelhauled. His new wife is going to find herself in a world of hurt before she knows it, and then she'll have a kid to raise..... and dollars to doughnuts that kid is going to grow up fucked up because his father is such an ass.

The things we do for "love".

Again, I get to be reminded that there are worse things than being ignored...

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
9/8/2006 1:41 pm

What a shitbird. Obviously tho', he was lying to her for a while. she's best rid of him, altho' right now she can't see that. Give her hugs for us too. And a joint from me. Uncle Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 7:36 pm:
I think she's figured it out.

rm_lust2u2 51M

9/8/2006 2:09 pm

Sigh.. what a weakness (poor man??)..., no one to commit oneself!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 7:35 pm:
What about his wife?

rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
9/8/2006 4:10 pm

I always thought guys that break up in email are assholes.

I just loved being told by one that he didn't have time for foolishness, blogging, chatting, etc. As it turns out the only thing he's not had time for was me because he's not given any of the other things up. But that's okay because I deserve way better.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 7:35 pm:
Everyone deserves better than liars. I hate that.

beatpoeme 54M

9/8/2006 4:20 pm

well... I must admit that I was on the phone to my ex a few years back. At the time she was having an emotional breakdown over something very minor (to me). I was at wits end trying to console her. She sensed some restraint in my tone as she was considering visiting me in south america where I was working at the time. A week or so before I had met without looking the women of my dreams, or so I realized at the time. As the conversation and emotions grew more intense I remember her blurting out "do you have a girlfriend or something?" er I quickly remembered all the times she told me to spit things out so without hesitation I said...yes. At the time I was in a quandary over what to do and how to act and was not really thinking rationally.
Boy was that a golden silence. I had to drop the bomb right then and there, then get my ass on a plane to settle the..ahem affair. Very bad tact, I wish it could have gone better at that moment. I ended up giving here everything accept a few personal item, then I bought her house from here out of a sense of trying to do the right thing. She respected my judgment in the end, but it was a horrid moment for us. I guess I will pay for it one way or another. Can I repent??

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 7:33 pm:
Yes, you can repent. Say 4,236 hail marys and keep your mouth shut next time.

VenusDiaries 62M
867 posts
9/8/2006 6:22 pm

Totally inappropriate to email or text in a breakup situation. Jerk is him.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 7:30 pm:

blueguy1051 60M

9/8/2006 7:20 pm

She called me last weekend, just wanting to talk. I think she realizes that the relationship was founded on a lie. The guy's a player, and I told you that a long time ago. If he's getting married, it's because he feels trapped or she's rich.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/8/2006 7:29 pm:
Yeah, you did. I didn't want to believe it. I think talking to you helped her a lot. Check your email.

Wyldtyme2nite 45M/46F
853 posts
9/9/2006 12:54 am

I have always done the dumping in person which I have done twice. Of the three other relationships two dumped me in person, and the other did it over the phone. I hated that. Theres nothing like not being able to see them eye to eye and argue your point. But that is life. And I agree with the masses, he lacks balls and integrity.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 7:33 am:
Yeah, you want them to look you in the eye. Difficult if they've been lying to you ...

Glimmer_Man06 47M
3308 posts
9/9/2006 1:39 am

send W my way!

They say a woman ages like fine wine...

...mine ages like milk!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 7:34 am:
She asked if you're paying the plane tickets.

rm_222when911 46M/42F
5206 posts
9/9/2006 2:41 am

Well....Try as I might, I cannot think of an appropriate use of a Dear John/Joan letter, e-mail, answering machine message. I have been on the giving and receiving end of bad breakups, but it was all done face to face. It seems to me that they would have been more close. I mean, I can't believe that a relationship of over six months would end like that with no warning or clues beside suddenly being unavailable for phone calls. To me, that is close to finding out your spouse has another family somewhere; wrong on many levels. I can certainly see why she would be broken up for a bit. I bet she was feeling a little more vested in the relationship. What a cold disconnect. What an ass! I can only hope that he is treated with the same respect when he least expects. J

"You may think I'm a little off center, but if you really knew me you'd run~!"

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 7:36 am:
"I'm getting married to my pregnant girlfriend" is pretty close.

rm_bk2nrml 57M

9/9/2006 6:27 am

how about going to pick up the wedding invitations and when i open them up, my name isnt on them !!! "oh, i was going to tell you, i just didnt get a chance." "and im going to keep the ring. you gave it to me".........
uh, she didnt keep the ring

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 7:37 am:
You're shitting me! Oh, that is incredible! You are definitely better off without her!

StaynHardnHot 42M
305 posts
9/9/2006 6:29 am

Man...break up by email...that's just soo fucking wrong...tell W i can relate tho...when i was 21 and madly in love with this girl...a first for me....she broke up with me on my phone...they didnt have email back then or i suspect she would have used never told me why and didnt even talk to me for 6 about drove me crazy, just not knowing what happened. When i came out of my funk i finally realized she did me a favour, because anyone who could do that to someone(it turned out she broke up with me because her cousin hated me and lied to her) is not someone you want or need to be with long term. Tell her to call him up and thank him for saving her from a miserable life with him. It will fuck with his head and she will feel better herself after. Tell W she was just meant for someone better.. And tell her to please not hate all men because the majority of them are bad it seems, she will be only hurting herself in the the long run from meeting the one that will treat her like his queen.;-*


rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
9/9/2006 7:39 am

I don't think she hates men ... just some of them.

TechSteve 49M

9/9/2006 10:08 am

I think his story about him getting a woman pregnant or him getting married was bullshit. I believe it was a lie.

He must have had his reasons why he did not want to break up in person.

None of you know what has been going on in their bedroom or behind closed doors.

Kelli mentioned that her friend drank heavy and participated in using recreational drugs at the wedding. Maybe this is an ongoing thing. Believe it or not, there are some people that dont tolerate that kind of thing in a partner.

Maybe he got advice from people who told him to run away and dont look back.


NxplcbleNchntmnt 46M/49F
184 posts
9/9/2006 12:39 pm

vile, truly. this is one of those moments when it is almost embarrassing to be a man. i like the keelhauling idea. ive seen barnacles from a fish's perspective, and that has to hurt.

i always say the key to good relationships is not just honesty but openness. just assuming for a minute that he isnt just making up fake excuses, one should discuss these things right up front. anything you dont mention that is as important as wanting to have children is essentially a cowardly lie. he never gave her a chance to consider it.

which leads me to think it was all a line of bs. unfortunately, the heart does not wait or ask the minds permission when it falls in love. i have been in the unfortunate circumstance of falling for someone who didnt feel the same way several times. always a disaster. but there is really nothing you can do. one can try to hold those feelings back, try not to get too emotionally involved until the person proves themselves one way or another. but thats crappy advice. may as well tell someone to concentrate real hard and try to lay a golden egg.

as for dumping from a distance, i have never done that in my life. never would. only once, in a long distance relationship, did i have to do it over the phone because i simply could not get there and i thought it was more wrong to wait. but when she asked to discuss it in person i let her fly up to discuss it. which she construed to mean we were not really breaking up. im not good at that, as i havent had much practice.

fortunately for me, women used to break up with me before dating, so saving a lot of hassle. and now im madly in love with the perfect woman for me, the lost half of my soul now found =) (look to your left) so no more worries.

btw that is one lucky best man... from the wedding blog it sounds like he was nowhere near good enough for W he just was int he path of a woman on a rampage. no doubt will be the highlight of his sexual life.

and btw, tech steve, i dont care if he found her last two boyfriends in pieces in the refrigerator, he is a coward. and you are very judgmental, you simply chose to give him the benefit of the doubt and not her.

ok ill shut up now =)

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 3:51 pm:
I enjoyed every word. {=}

rm_mainevern 51M
10197 posts
9/9/2006 7:14 pm

My first GF, instead of having any class at all and simply breaking things off, called me to tell me she was having this doofuses baby, then she regaled me with the details of how it was unintentional, they had an "accident" when his mother walked in on them screwing.

She topped it off by asking if I hated her now, I wish to hell I'd had the presence to say "what do you think, bitch?".

I'm so glad I didn't get stuck with her.


I Wanna Pull Purpletrashcan's Fucking Hair!

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/10/2006 6:08 am:
Cheaper at that point than a divorce later. Hugs.

IsThisBetter4u 106M

9/10/2006 12:45 am

What's the worst breakup message you ever got?
I called her on her cell when she was on her way back from Florida to Texas. She said something like, "I know I asked you to marry me, and I know it will hurt your son terribly...I don't know what to say, really...but I met someone while I was visiting my family. I "realized" some things. It's over. Sorry. I was going to send you an email later; but you asked me what's wrong. I wanted to wait. Sorry to tell you like this...blah blah blah..." A fucking email?...are you kidding me? What a lame ass!

Have you ever shafted someone on short notice?
Yeah. I used to be kind of a dick.

What do you think about Dear John/Joan emails?

Sorry to hear about W's bad news. That really sucks. Give her a hug and a brownie for me. She's a sweetheart.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/10/2006 6:11 am:
She asked you, and then broke it off when the next guy came along? Sounds like she was shopping.

wickedwench75 41F
46 posts
9/10/2006 3:29 pm

Thank you to everyone for your kind words.

Khrysomallos 46F

9/10/2006 8:01 pm

I'll add my two cents to say that what I find MOST offensive about the "Dear Joan" letter, is his attempt to "justify" dumping "W" on the basis that (in his opinion) she wasn't ready to have children.

"Blame the victim" -- "Justify your bad behaviour by attempting to take the moral high-ground (I'm looking for FAMILY, which you aren't ready or capable of)" -- absolutely the coward's way out. Completely pathetic. A simple, "I've met someone else, I care about you -- but I'm going to have to break up because I feel that this other person is a better match for me, I wish you the best . . . etc." would have sufficed and probably have been alot less painful.

I have my own comparable stories (but who the hell wants to hear about those?) I had to insert a part of the transcript from the movie, "View from the Top" with Gwenneth Paltrow:

Donna Jensen: You're breaking up with me, in a birthday card? Why?
Tommy Boulay: Well, they don't make breaking-up cards.
Donna Jensen: But I thought that ... We had plans.
Tommy Boulay: [sighs, groans] Donna, don't take this the wrong way. I decided to take somebody else to Tucson.
Donna Jensen: Somebody else?
Tommy Boulay: Yeah.
Donna Jensen: Linda from Lawn Chairs?
Tommy Boulay: Actually, it's Brenda in Barbecues. Look, Donna, you're a great girl. Really, you are. But with this promotion and transfer to Tucson, I just need to shake things up a bit. Business is business. Come on, Donna. Face it. You're a small-town girl. You belong here.

LOL -- W's story kinda reminded me of that idiot.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/11/2006 4:27 am:
Yeah, I've had that kind of thing. You were fun to fuck, but now I have to get serious about my life. The worst one was a guy in college who said I was too dark for his parents to accept. God I hate people who just use others.

Linha28 38F

9/10/2006 8:07 pm

My worst break up came a day before Valentine's Day and my boyfriend (Tony) had one of his friends call me up to the front of the class because he needed to tell me something. Tony looks at me in front of everyone and says "It's over, goodbye, see you later." I was in total disbelief of what happened and on my way back to my seat I turned around and punched him so hard on his back that he had an asthma attack and he was taken to the hospital by ambulance.

I figure a pain for a pain...mine was internal his was external so we're even.

Sorry about your friend...I've come to realize that a lot people aren't who or what they say they are and only care about their wants. I hope your friend feels better in time.

I melt in your mouth and your hands ~Linha

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/11/2006 4:24 am:
That's terrible! I don't understand the need to humiliate you in addition to breaking your heart. He got what he deserved.

And thanks for the nice message.

economickrisis 55M

9/11/2006 7:21 am

Well dammit gurl, W should think herself darn lucky to have escaed the swine.

That's a beautiful piece by Gina Novendstern.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/12/2006 4:12 am:
Yes, it's beautiful.

rm_luvsyou4 53M
18 posts
9/11/2006 5:51 pm

What a piece of shit this wimpy ass, poor excuse for a man, scumbag! He deserves to have his dick cut off and shoved up his ass.

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/12/2006 4:03 am:
LOL!!! I agree! {=}

Khrysomallos 46F

9/12/2006 6:12 am

kelli4u2dew replies on 9/11/2006 6:27 am:
Yeah, I've had that kind of thing. You were fun to fuck, but now I have to get serious about my life. The worst one was a guy in college who said I was too dark for his parents to accept. God I hate people who just use others.

I think it's understandable that someone would have that attitude "you were fun to fuck, but now I have to get serious about my life" -- not EVERYONE we date or sleep with has to be a potential marriage partner -- but there's such a thing as fucking DIPLOMACY and TACT when you break up with the person.

My preferred method of breaking up is generally just to passive/aggressively annoy the hell out of the person so they do away with me -- and then take it gracefully when they do!! (God, I guess I'm a bitch! lol)


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/13/2006 3:54 am:
That works!

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9/19/2006 12:48 am

Ok this guy is an A-hole but um.. he's also a very lucky man if she let him have you too. Why should she Care about someone she let have a threesome with anyway?

rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/19/2006 3:48 am:
Because not everyone has your judgemental morals.

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